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    DOES A YIZKOR DONATION HELP THE DECEASED?

    Our time in this world
    is limited. We strive to
    do all the good we can
    and avoid doing wrong.
    When we sometimes
    misstep, we try to do
    teshuvah and atone for
    our misdeeds. The time
    for doing mitzvos ends with our passing, at
    least on a basic level. Is that also the end for
    our ability to atone for our sins or can we
    also achieve atonement in death?
    I. Posthumous Atonement
    The Ashkenazic practice is to pledge
    money on Yom Kippur in memory of
    deceased loved ones. Rav Ya’akov (Mahari)
    Weil (15th cen., Germany; Responsa, no.
    191) offers two reasons for this. The first is
    from the Gemara’s discussion of the eglah
    arufah. When performing this rite, the sages
    of the city nearest to where a dead body is
    found must say, “Our hands have not shed
    this blood nor have our eyes seen it. Atone,
    Lord, for Your people Israel whom You have
    redeemed” (Deut. 21:7-8). Which people
    did God redeem? The Gemara (Horayos
    6a) says that this refers to the generation of
    the Exodus. We see from here that even the
    deceased need atonement, even going all the
    way back to the time of Moshe. Additionally,

    the formal name Yom Ha-Kippurim is in
    plural, referring to atonement to both the
    living and the deceased.
    We see from other passages that the
    deceased can achieve atonement. The
    Gemara (Kiddushin 31b) says that when a
    child repeats a Torah idea in the name of
    a parent who died within the past year, he
    should add “hareini kaparas mishkavo, may
    I be an atonement for his resting.” Rashi (ad
    loc.) explains that you are asking to receive
    the punishment that would otherwise go
    to your parent’s soul, thereby offering an
    atonement to your recently deceased parent.
    The Mishnah (Sanhedrin 46a-b) discusses
    the process of a court’s execution. Following
    the execution, the deceased’s relatives do

    not mourn him. Rashi (ad loc., 46b, s.v. ve-
    lo) explains that the failure to mourn the

    executed disgraces him, which in turn serves
    as an atonement for his sins. Later in the
    discussion, the Gemara (46b) asks whether,
    in general, burial is to avoid disgrace or to
    provide atonement. If it is to avoid disgrace,
    then even if someone asks not to be buried
    when he dies, he must be buried because the
    family will also be disgraced by the lack of
    burial. If it is a matter of atonement, then it
    is just for him and he can refuse it.

    II. Atonement is For the
    Living
    From all these sources,
    it seems that there can be
    atonement even after someone
    dies. However, other sources
    explicitly state the contrary,
    that there is no atonement for
    the deceased.
    The Gemara (Zevachim 5a)
    says that a woman who gives
    birth and brings a chatas
    offering but dies before it
    is sacrificed, her heirs cannot bring that
    sacrifice. Rashi (ad loc.) explains that a
    chatas is intended to achieve atonement but
    there is no atonement after death.
    If you bring a chatas sacrifice and slaughter
    while having in mind that it should be for
    Nachshon, the chatas is kosher (Zevachim
    9b). The general rule is that if you have in
    mind someone other than the sacrifice’s
    owner, and that person is obligated to bring
    a chatas, then you have done a sacrificial
    rite with the wrong owner in mind which
    invalidates a chatas. If the person you have
    in mind is not or cannot be obligated to
    bring a chatas, then the sacrifice is kosher.
    The Gemara explains that since Nachshon,
    the leader of the tribe of Yehudah in the
    desert, is long deceased, and there is no

    atonement for the dead (ein kaparah le-
    meisim), the sacrifice slaughtered with

    Nachshon in mind is still kosher.
    III. Some Atonement For the Dead
    Rav Yosef Engel (20th cen., Poland;
    Beis Ha-Otzar, vol. 1 section 7:3, section
    86) attempts to resolve these conflicting
    texts about whether there is atonement
    for the deceased. Rav Engel suggests that
    there are different types of atonement.
    The pain of death, of the separation
    of soul from body, achieves the same
    limited atonement as a sacrifice. Rav
    Engel acknowledges that even though
    Rava holds that a person’s death atones
    for his sins (Shevu’os 8b, Kerisos 26b),
    this cannot mean that death atones
    completely because then there would be
    no punishment in the afterlife, no need
    for the living to give charity on behalf of
    the deceased or to say they will serve as
    an atonement for the deceased’s resting.
    Rather, death achieves the limited
    atonement of a sacrifice – which cannot
    be achieved after death – but there is
    more atonement that is necessary and
    possible.
    Rav Shalom Mordechai Schwadron
    (early 20th cen., Russia; Responsa
    Maharsham 3:216) quotes Tosafos
    (Pesachim 61a s.v. ve-yeshno) who say
    that someone deceased cannot achieve

    complete atonement. This implies that he
    can achieve partial atonement. The passages
    above refer to the atonement of a sacrifice,
    which cannot be achieved after death. There
    are other types of atonement, albeit limited,
    that can be achieved after death.
    In a different vein, Rav Engel quotes the
    Gemara (Kerisos 6a) which exempts from
    punishment someone who applies sacred
    oil to a corpse. The punishment does not
    apply because someone dead is not legally
    considered a person. Similarly, suggests Rav
    Engel, a dead person cannot own a sacrifice
    because he is not a legal person. Rav Naftali
    Tzvi Yehudah Berlin (Netziv, 19th cen.,
    Poland; Emek Ha-Netziv, Shofetim 67)
    seems to explain similarly. The deceased
    need atonement and can achieve it through
    a sacrifice. However, the passages above
    only mean that those who are deceased
    cannot bring a sacrifice on their own. If
    they are part of another sacrifice, such as
    the eglah arufah, then they can achieve
    atonement through that sacrifice. In other
    words, the deceased can achieve atonement
    but for technical reasons they cannot bring
    a sacrifice for it.
    The children and students we leave behind
    affect our eternal lives. Our footprints
    continue to grow even after our times in
    this world have passed. Even someone’s
    misdeeds can be corrected, at least to
    some extent, after his death. And that is
    what we try to accomplish through Yizkor,
    donations and other mitzvos in memory of
    the deceased.