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    VAYERA: GROWING FROM TESTS

    Once, a person
    told his Rebbe that
    he wished he had no
    tests. His Rebbe
    told him, “Take three
    pots and fill them with
    water. Cook a potato
    in one, an egg in the
    second, and coffee,
    sugar, and milk in the
    third.”
    An hour later, the
    rebbe showed him
    that the egg became hard, the potato
    became soft, and the third pot had sweet
    coffee. The rebbe explained, “The
    boiling water represents life’s tests. Tests
    toughen soft people, softens tough
    people, and it can make someone sweet
    like sweetened coffee.”
    This is because people grow from the
    hardships they overcome.
    The Maharal writes that the purpose of
    tests isn’t to let Hashem know where we

    are up to in our avodas Hashem because
    Hashem knows this information even
    before we are tested. The purpose of tests
    is to help us bring forth our potential.
    The Gemara (Yoma 69:, based on
    Nechemya 9) tells us how the chachamim
    abolished the yetzer hara for avodah
    zorah. They fasted for three days and
    three nights, and the yetzer hara came
    out of the Kodesh HaKedashim,
    appearing like a lion of fire. Zecharyah
    HaNavi told them, “This is the yetzer
    hara for avodah zorah!” and they
    captured it.
    But we wonder, why did the yetzer hara
    come out of the Kodesh HaKedashim?
    Why was the yetzer hara in the holiest
    site of the world?
    The answer is that the yetzer hara
    elevates people to the highest levels. The
    challenges that the yetzer hara gives us
    enable us to grow very high.
    Avraham’s first test was Lech Lecha to
    leave his father’s home to go to Eretz

    Canaan. The tenth test was Kach Na
    Es Bincha… V’lech Lecha, that
    Avraham should go to the Akeidah. By
    both tests, Lech Lecha is written. The
    Midrash (Bereishis Rabba 39:9) states,
    “It says Lech Lecha twice, and we
    don’t know which is more beloved, the
    second or the first?”
    The Midrash concludes that the
    second Lech Lecha, of the Akeidah
    was a greater test and, therefore, more
    beloved to Hashem.
    We wonder, isn’t it evident that the
    tenth test was more difficult? What
    could be harder than to bring one’s own
    child as a korban?
    Perhaps the answer is that, in a way, the
    tenth test was easier because Avraham
    approached this test after already
    successfully passing nine difficult tests.
    Each test made Avraham stronger and
    better, and therefore, the Midrash
    debated the idea that perhaps the first test
    of Lech Lecha was a harder test.

    The Ramban writes that there were
    other tzaddikim in Avraham Avinu’s era
    who kept the Torah, but they didn’t reach
    his level because they didn’t pass tests as
    Avraham had.
    We are being tested these days, but we
    can grow from them. We can improve
    our levels of emunah and bitachon,
    teshuvah, and tefillah, which we
    wouldn’t have achieved if it weren’t for
    these tests.