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    BO: DEPRESSING TIME, PRODUCTIVE TIME, AND REDEMPTIVE TIME

    Is Time a Storm in
    Which We Are All
    Lost?
    Always Late
    Sarah was always late
    to work no matter how
    much she tried to be on
    time, or how many
    times her boss scolded her. She just could not
    wake up on time. Her boss said she would fire
    her if it did not stop. Sarah decided to seek the
    advice of her doctor. He prescribed her some
    medication and told her to take one pill before
    going to sleep. She did and she woke up before
    the alarm clock sounded and headed into work
    feeling well-rested. Sarah told her boss about
    the doctor’s prescription and how well it
    worked.
    Her boss said, “That is great, Sarah, but where
    were you yesterday?”
    Choosing the World & the Jews
    It is a strange Midrash, found in this week’s
    Torah portion, Bo. At the surface, it seems
    baffling, but upon deeper reflection, it contains
    an extraordinary meditation on how we live
    our lives.
    The Jewish calendar has twelve lunar months.
    The first day of each month is known as Rosh
    Chodesh (the head of the month); the first day
    of the year (the first day of the first month of
    the year) is known as Rosh Hashanah (the head
    of the year.)
    Says the Midrash:
    When G-d chose His world, He established
    ‘heads of months’ and ‘heads of years.’ When
    G-d chose Jacob and his children, the Jewish
    people, He established the ‘head of the month
    of redemption’ (the first day of the month of
    Nissan, the month of the Exodus).
    What does this Midrash mean? What does it
    mean “when G-d chose his world?” Why does
    the Midrash not say, “when G-d created His
    world?”
    And what does choosing a world have to do
    with the establishment of the head of a month
    and the heads of a year? And what does the
    Midrash mean when it says that “when G-d
    chose Jacob and his children, He established
    the Head of the month of redemption?”
    Delineating time into months and years is
    based on the astronomical lunar and solar
    orbits. The moon completes its orbit after one
    month. The sun completes its orbit after a year.
    What does any of this have to do with G-d
    “choosing His world,” or “choosing Jacob and
    his children?”
    An Address to High School Girls
    On January 16, 1964 (2 Shevat, 5724), the
    Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel
    Schneerson (1902-1994) addressed a group of
    teenage girls, the graduating class of a NY
    Jewish girls’ high school, Beis Rivkah. He
    offered them a most marvelous insight into this
    Midrash. This profound perspective can teach

    us volumes about how to view a one-liner in
    Midrash, and how to speak to the hearts of
    teenage girls.
    (This coming Shabbos marks the 70th
    anniversary of the leadership of the Lubavitcher
    Rebbe, who succeeded his father-in-law as the
    leader of Chabad 70 years ago, on the 10th of
    Shevat 1951. The following insight is
    characteristic of the profundity and richness of
    his Torah perspectives.)
    Three Types of Time
    Aristotle said that time was the greatest teacher
    who killed all his students. There is no
    “teacher” like time. What we learn through
    time and aging is unparalleled by any class or
    teacher. The experience of life is the greatest
    teacher. The saying goes: When a man with
    money meets a man with experience, the man
    with experience ends up with the money; the
    man with the money ends up with an
    experience.
    And yet the clock stops for nobody. “Suspect
    each moment, for it is a thief, tiptoeing away
    with more than it brings,” John Updike said.
    You may be sleeping, sipping a coffee, surfing
    the web, or getting angry at Trump or Biden,
    the clock is ticking away. How do we deal with
    the merciless reality of time?
    There are three ways, suggests the Midrash.
    There are three experiences of time: depressing
    time, meaningful time, and redemptive time.
    You choose in which time-zone you will
    breathe.
    Depressing Time
    For some, time is just an endless flow, a
    shapeless blob, a random stream that never
    ceases. A day comes and a day goes, and then
    another day comes and goes. Each day is the
    same as the day before, and they all add up to
    nothing.
    Sometimes you watch people who allow their
    days and years to pass without goals. Every
    day is an invitation to squander yet another 24
    hours until it too will bite the dust. If the
    boredom gets to you, you find ways to escape
    and dull the void.
    This is an empty and depressing time: time
    devoid of any theme. Time as it is on its own,
    without human initiative and creativity.
    Shapeless and formless. One set of 24 hours is
    indistinguishable from another set of 24 hours.
    Productive Time
    Comes the Midrash and says, “When G-d
    chose His world, He established ‘heads of
    months’ and ‘heads of years.’” For the world to
    become a chosen place, a desirable habitat, a
    place worth living in, a place that G-d not only
    created but chose, we must grant the endless
    flow of time the dignity of purpose. Every day
    ought to have a productive objective, every
    month—a meaningful goal, every year—a
    dynamic rhythm. The world G-d chose and
    desired was one in which humanity learns to
    confer meaning on time, to utilize it for
    constructive and beneficial endeavors. A

    meaningful life is a life in which every day is
    filled with meaningful choices and experiences,
    utilized to promote goodness and justice.
    So “When G-d chose His world, He established
    ‘heads of months’ and ‘heads of years.’” For
    time to be utilized purposefully, every month
    must have a “head,” which gives the month its
    tone and direction. Every year must have a
    “head,” Rosh Hashanah, the time to put into
    focus the year that passed and the year ahead.
    For time to be used productively, it must be
    delineated. You must take note of a sunrise and
    sunset, of a new month and a new year. Each
    presents you with a specific energy and calling.
    Redemptive Time
    You can live a productive life, mark your days
    with worthy objectives. Your life has rhythm.
    You have a morning, a night, a lunch break, a
    weekend, and a vacation.
    But you are still confined within the realm of a
    mortal, finite and frail universe. As wise men
    have said, Men talk of killing time, while time
    quietly kills them. Time is a storm in which we
    are all lost. Time is free, but it’s priceless. You
    can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep
    it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it you
    can never get it back
    Within the restricted structure of our bodies,
    life span, and circumstances, we can compose
    a ballad from our time. Yet, we can’t free
    ourselves from the prison of mortality. Even
    when I work hard and use my time well, it is
    still cruel to me. It ages me. At any moment
    something can happen which will shake up and
    destroy my entire structure and rhythm.
    Here is where the Midrash opens us up to
    another dimension of time, and this is where
    the Jewish story is introduced into history.
    “When G-d chose Jacob and his children He
    established the head of the month of
    Redemption.” G-d gave us the ability to
    liberate and redeem ourselves from the natural,
    mortal, and finite reality. He allowed us to
    align our posture with infinity; not just to be
    productive with our time, but to confer upon
    each moment transcendence, to grant it the
    resonance of eternity, to liberate it and
    ourselves from the shackles of mortality.
    You can be productive with your time. You can
    use it to shovel the snow, mow the lawn, fix the
    garage, read a good book, shop in Costco,
    enhance your computer speed, sell a building,
    cook a gourmet meal, and help society. This is
    worthwhile. But you are capable of more: You
    can make each moment Divine, elevating it to
    the realm of the sacred, where each moment,
    hour, day, week, month, and year become
    infused with G-dliness and are thus transformed
    into eternity. You can allow your time to
    become a conduit for the timeless and
    everlasting.
    “When G-d chose Jacob and his children He
    established the head of the month of
    Redemption.” This is the month of Nissan, the
    month when we were set free of Egyptian

    bondage and were empowered to free ourselves
    from every form of bondage. Torah and
    Mitzvos make our time not only productive but
    Divine.
    When you align your time rhythm with the
    Divine, realizing that every moment of time is
    an opportunity to connect with the infinite light
    vibrating through your body and the cosmos;
    when you use your time to study G-d’s Torah,
    to connect to G-d, to perform a mitzvah, and to
    live in the Divine consciousness of oneness,
    your time is not only productive, but it is
    redemptive, uninhibited by the shackles of
    nature finitude. You redeem and transform
    your time—by aligning it with the divine
    blueprint for life.
    The Choice
    When the sun rises, and I declare “Shema
    Yisroel” to align my posture with Divine
    oneness—the moment of sunrise is now etched
    in eternity. When the sun of Friday is about to
    set and I kindle the Shabbos lights, it is a
    moment transformed into transcendent
    peacefulness. When I take a moment to do a
    favor for another person, for tuning into the
    love of the universe, for studying Torah or
    praying, I elevate the moment into
    transcendence.
    Each of us must choose in which “time zone”
    we will live. Do I live in a “depressing time,”
    letting my days and nights pass without
    meaning? Do I elevate my days into worthwhile
    experiences? Or, in my ultimate calling, do I
    turn each day into a redemptive experience,
    into a conduit for infinity?
    How We Study Science and Physics
    The Rebbe said one more thing to these girls
    about their academic studies. Some of us study
    the sciences and see them merely as interesting
    data, raw facts. However, much of humanity
    has come to appreciate that when we study
    biology, physics, history, or math it must be
    with a productive and meaningful purpose—to
    make the world a better place, to enhance life
    on our planet, and to promote justice and
    compassion.
    Yet, our ultimate calling is to see all of our
    studies, all branches of wisdom, as an
    instrument to transform our world and our
    lives into an abode for the Divine infinite
    reality, to infuse all aspects of our lives with
    true and timeless meaning, with everlasting
    love and holiness, by revealing that ultimately,
    we are all one, and everything is part of that
    oneness.