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    PURIM: HAPPINESS

    One year, Reb
    Yeiva of Ostra’a
    wanted to be happy
    on Purim, but it was
    hard for him as he
    was struggling
    financially. A happy
    person arrived, they
    celebrated Purim
    together, and Reb
    Yeiva became joyful.
    Reb Yeiva said that this
    person was Mordechai
    HaTzaddik, the baal
    simchah on Purim. He
    comes to every Yid to make him happy on
    Purim.
    Reb Yosef Tameshov zt’l (a student of
    the Chozeh of Lublin zt’l and of the Bnei
    Yissaschar zt’l) was singing Shoshanas

    Yaakov on Purim night in his father-in-
    law’s home. The poritz came in and said

    that the singing was disturbing him.
    Reb Yosef immediately stopped singing.
    The next day, his father-in-law went to

    the poritz to apologize for his son-in-
    law’s singing. The poritz didn’t know

    what he was referring to.

    Reb Yosef Tameshov and his father-in-
    law understood that it was Haman who

    came in the guise of the poritz because it
    bothers Haman when Yidden are happy.
    Haman tries to make us sad on Purim,
    and Mordechai comes to make us happy.
    So let us be glad on Purim.
    It states (Esther 8:13) L’hiyos hayehudim
    asudim l’yom “For the Jews to be prepared
    for that day…” We read it asidim, but it is
    written asudim, which can be translated as
    flocks of sheep. The Maharsha quotes the
    Imrei Noam (HaKadmon), who explains
    that this hints that the Jewish nation
    should be dancing and jumping for joy for
    sheep on Purim.
    This vort is also taught by the Maharam
    m’Rottenberg, and he says that there’s a
    custom to write the vov with horns on top
    of it (the sagin appear like horns) to allude
    to the jumping animals and our jumping
    for joy in praise of Hashem.
    Someone asked the Brisker Rav zt’l,
    “What can one do to control his thoughts
    that he shouldn’t have forbidden
    thoughts?”
    The Brisker Rav replied, “Chasidim
    drink l’chayim and they dance, and they

    say this is a refuah for bad thoughts, and
    they are correct.”
    Purim is compared to Yom Kippur. The
    Piasetzner Rebbe zt’l (Eish Kodesh)
    explained that Yom Kippur we fast
    whether we feel up to it or not. Similarly,
    on Purim we are happy, whether or not we
    are up to it. (The Piaszetzner Rebbe said
    this during the Holocaust. He was
    encouraging his chassidim to be happy,
    even under those trying circumstances.)
    Reb Eliyahu Meir Bloch zt’l, Rosh
    Yeshiva Telz in America, was dancing
    happily with his students on Purim.
    However, the students thought the joy
    wasn’t sincere. “How could they be happy
    after what he suffered in the holocaust?”
    Reb Bloch heard what people were
    saying, so he stopped the dancing, and the
    students gathered around him. He
    explained to them that the Jewish nation
    has the ability to be sad and happy at the
    same time.
    He proved this from the Chazal (Megillah
    10:) that the malachim didn’t sing shirah
    when the Yam Suf split because Hashem
    said, “My creations are drowning in the
    sea, and you are singing shirah?”

    Nevertheless, the Jewish nation sang
    shirah at this time. This is because a
    malach can only do one shlichus at a time.
    When he is happy and praising Hashem,
    he can’t be sad simultaneously. But a Yid
    can do both. He mourns the loss of human
    life and rejoices in Hashem’s salvation.
    Similarly, it is possible to be sad and
    broken from the holocaust and happy with
    Purim. There is room in a Yid’s heart for
    both emotions.