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    A CONVERT’S BELOVED NAME

    I. A Jewish Name
    When someone
    converts to Judaism,
    he chooses a Jewish
    name with which to
    be called for ritual
    purposes. Should
    he use that name in
    common conversation and interactions?
    That is a very personal decision and
    includes many considerations, including
    the psychological and social benefits of
    identifying as Jewish in an obvious way.
    Does halachah require it?
    Rav Moshe Schick (19th cen., Hungary)
    argues that a Jew is forbidden to use a
    gentile name because using the name
    amounts to pretending to be a gentile,
    which is forbidden (Responsa Maharam
    Schick, Yoreh De’ah 169). This is a
    particularly surprising ruling because
    centuries earlier, Rav Shmuel de Modina
    (Maharshdam; 16th cen., Greece)
    permitted conversos who returned to the
    Jewish community after leaving Portugal
    to use their Christian names in business and
    correspondence with family that remained
    in Portugal (Responsa Maharshdam, Yoreh

    De’ah 199). He says that it is only an extra-
    legal practice (midas chassidus) to refrain

    from using a gentile name. He argues, in
    addition to the specific circumstances he
    was addressing, that using a Christian
    name does not imply identification with
    Christianity. Perhaps based on Rav Yosef
    Kolon’s influential responsum (15th cen.,
    Italy), which Maharshdam quotes, there is
    even more reason to permit if the name was
    not chosen in order to seem like a gentile
    but rather because you or your parents like
    the name (Responsa Maharik, no. 88).
    II. Converts’ Names
    Beyond the strict halachic question, what
    does G-d want you to do? Normally we can
    only infer from texts and practices what
    G-d wants from us. In this case, the midrash
    takes it a step further. Moshe has ten names,
    the midrash tells us (Vayikra Rabbah 1:3).
    They are: Moshe, Yered, Chever, Yekusiel,
    Avigdor, Avisocho and Avizano’ach (the
    last three each count as two because they
    have two words, see also Megillah 13a).
    Why does the Torah consistently use the
    name Moshe? The book of Leviticus begins
    “And G-d called to Moshe.” Why does
    the Torah specifically choose this name?

    The midrash (Vayikra
    Rabbah 1:2) answers:
    “‘Those who dwell in
    His shade will return’
    (Hos. 14:8) – these
    are the proselytes who
    come and take shelter
    in the shade of G-d….
    ‘Its repute will be like
    the wine of Lebanon’
    (ibid.) – G-d said: ‘The
    names of converts are
    dear to me like wine
    libations that are offered before Me on the
    altar.’”
    Rav Shmuel Yaffe Ashkenazi (16th cen.,
    Turkey) asks why G-d loves the converts’
    names. Wouldn’t it be more accurate to say
    that G-d loves the converts? He explains
    that G-d sees the future and ensures that,
    even at birth, these future converts receive
    appropriate names that reflect their future
    greatness. Names like Yisro and Rus reflect
    the greatness of their bearers. Additionally,
    the names reflect the choice that these
    converts made to worship G-d and join
    the Jewish people. Just like wine can be
    used for a variety of purposes, including
    libations (nesachim) in the Temple, a
    person can go in many different directions
    in life, including toward holiness. The
    gentile names of converts reflect their
    holy choices (Yefeh To’ar, ad loc., s.v.
    shemosan).
    III. Biblical Gentile Names
    This is relevant to Moshe because of all
    his ten names, this name was chosen by
    Pharaoh’s daughter. The Torah says:
    “When the child grew up, she brought him
    to Pharaoh’s daughter, and he became her
    son. She named him Moshe, for she said,
    ‘I drew him from the water’” (Ex. 2:7).
    Commentators debate whether Pharaoh’s
    daughter named him Moshe and if
    the name is in Hebrew. Rav Yitzchak
    Abarbanel (15th cen., Spain-Italy) argues
    that Yocheved, who returned the baby
    to Pharaoh’s daughter, named the baby
    Moshe from Hebrew (commentary, ad
    loc.). However, Rav Naftali Tzvi Yehudah
    Berlin (Netziv; 19th cen., Russia) points
    out that this interpretation contradicts the
    above midrash, which assumes the name
    Moshe is a gentile name (Ha’amek Davar,
    ad loc.). Rather, the name Moshe derives
    from ancient Egyptian but it also has
    meaning in Hebrew (see Torah Shelemah,
    Shemos, ch. 2 n. 73 for different views).
    According to the midrash, the name Moshe
    itself is a gentile name! Rav Ya’akov
    Kamenetsky (20th cen., US) suggests that
    the name Ephraim is also an Egyptian

    name (Emes Le-Ya’akov, Gen. 48:5). A
    letter published in Rav Matis Blum’s Sefer
    Torah La-Da’as (vol. 3, p. 288) suggests
    that the name Pinchas is likewise Egyptian.
    The Gemara offers multiple opinions on
    why Hadassah was called Esther (Esther
    2:7). R. Nechemiah says: “Hadassah was
    her name. Why then was she called Esther?
    The gentiles called her after Istahar.”
    (Rashi says that Istahar refers to beauty
    in the moonlight. Rav Ya’akov Emden, in
    his glosses ad loc., explains that Istahar
    means Venus, the planet which is also
    the name of the goddess of beauty). Rav
    Shlomo Alkabetz (16th cen., Israel) quotes
    a Rav Yitzchak HaKohen who says: “It
    seems more likely that Mordechai himself
    changed her name to Esther, which is a
    Persian name, before she was taken to
    the king’s court so both the gentiles and
    the Jews would not realize that she was
    Jewish.”
    Of course, it could be argued that all
    these names were given due to specific
    circumstances. Subsequently, the names
    became Jewish because of their famous
    bearers and no longer retain their gentile
    origins. Indeed, that seems to be the point
    of the midrash with which we began
    this discussion. A convert’s name has
    significance because of his circumstances.
    This might be a step too far but I wonder
    if future generations are named after the
    convert, they can choose to use his gentile
    name as a Jewish name, just like we do
    with Moshe and Esther. Ask your local
    Orthodox rabbi.
    Of course, there are good reasons to use a
    Jewish name, which Maharshdam calls a
    midas chassidus. Everyone wants to feel like
    they belong and that feeling of belonging
    carries spiritual and psychological
    importance. But there is room for thinking
    about this in more than one way, even if
    you end up using a Jewish name. Jewish
    pride is important. A convert’s pride is also
    important. As the midrash says, G-d takes
    special pleasure in a convert’s name. (For
    the record, my first name Gil is a Hebrew
    name and common in Israel.)