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    A MOST IMPORTANT PRAYER TO SAVE US FROM THE SATAN

    In our Maariv prayers,
    we make a very
    important request of
    Hashem. “V’haseir
    Satan mil’faneinu
    u’mei’achareinu –
    Remove the Satan from
    in front of us and from behind us.” The
    simplest explanation of this petition is
    that we ask that when the Satan stands in
    front of us, attempting to block us from
    doing good, and when he stands behind
    us pushing us to do bad, he should be
    thwarted from his machinations and we
    should be saved from his intentions.
    I would like to point out that there are
    many layers to this all-important prayer.
    One of the chief methods of the Satan is
    to make a person feel that he’s so far gone
    that it doesn’t even pay to start doing
    good. For example, if a person grew up
    acting rotten to his parents, the Satan tries
    to convince him that he’ll never be able
    to overcome his history and so it doesn’t
    even pay to try. Similarly, a person who
    never picked up a sefer to learn, in his
    older years feels that it’s just too late to
    start. He thinks he’s missed the boat.
    Many people burdened by guilt from

    their past throw in the towel and don’t try
    to reform in their later years.
    The Torah tells us that by Sarah Imeinu,
    it says, “Shnei chayei Sarah,” repeating
    that “These are the years of Sarah.” Rashi
    explains this is coming to inform us that
    all her years were equally good. The
    Das Zekeinim miBaalei haTosefos notes
    that, later on, it says the same phrase by
    Yishmael, “Shnei chayei Yishmael,” and,
    of course, all his years were certainly
    not equally good. After all, Avraham
    had to send him out of the home because
    he was a mitzacheik who did idolatry,
    immorality and bloodshed. So, how can
    this phrase equally apply to Sarah Imeinu
    and Yismael?
    The Das Zekeinim answers with a
    remarkable idea. Later in life, Yishmael
    did teshuvah, he became reborn like a
    ger who is misgai’er, who is considered
    k’katan she’nolad dami, like a child who
    is newly born and his early sins were
    discounted. The Riva goes one step
    further and says that since Yishmael did
    teshuvah mei’ahavah, repentance out of
    love, his sins were converted to zechuyos,
    to merits. Thus, all his years were all

    considered as good. So,
    rather than being burdened
    by guilt, one should realize
    they should look ahead
    and they certainly can
    convert the past into a
    positive. This is another
    understanding of “V’haseir
    Satan mil’faneinu,” to
    remove the Satan from
    in front of us when he
    attempts to burden us with
    feelings of guilt.
    We should also not underestimate the
    powers that the Satan has to try to thwart
    us from doing good. It says that before
    the Akeidah, the Satan disguised himself
    as an old man who tried to convince
    Avraham not to do the Akeidah. When
    that failed, the Satan then appeared like
    a raging sea trying to block Avraham’s
    path. After Avraham plowed ahead,
    before the Akeidah, Avraham took the
    precaution of hiding Yitzchak in a box
    so that the Satan shouldn’t try to make a
    blemish in Yitzchak in order to disqualify
    him from the Akeidah. So, when we say,
    “Remove the Satan from before us,” we
    must realize how much the license the
    Satan has to try to thwart us from our
    service of Hashem.
    When Sarah Imeinu died, it says that
    Avraham cried. The Torah writes the
    word livkosah, with a small kof to
    indicate that his crying was somewhat
    minimized. The commentators give
    many reasons for this, such as Sarah
    was old or that she was completely
    righteous and going to a better world.
    However, many explain that Sarah
    died from the shock of the Satan
    giving her the news about the Akeidah.
    Thus, Avraham deliberately avoided
    shedding copious tears in order that no
    one should think he regretted taking
    Yitzchak to the Akeidah.
    This is another important meaning
    behind the request to remove the Satan
    mei’achareinu, from afterwards. We
    ask Hashem that the Satan should never
    succeed in causing us regret having
    done a mitzvah. Examples of this
    could be a person who gives a quarter
    to tzedakah and then later doesn’t have
    a quarter to put in the meter. Or, in a
    much more serious vein, a person who
    spends years learning Torah and then,
    when he isn’t able to make a living, the
    Satan tries to make him regret the years
    he spent learning and not learning a
    trade.

    After the Akeidah, Avraham returned
    back to Yishmael and Eliezer. (Yitzchak
    might have been in Shamayim to be
    healed or he might have gone already
    to the Yeshiva of Sheim v’eEiver.) The
    Torah states, “Vayeilchu yachdav – They
    went together.” The Brisker Rav, zt”l,
    zy”a, explains that this is to convey
    that just as Yishmael and Eliezer, who
    didn’t do anything lofty were not feeling
    pride, so too Avraham Avinu, who had
    achieved the magnificent success of
    the challenge of the Akeidah, did not
    feel any personal hubris. This is yet
    another meaning of removing the Satan
    mei’achareinu, from afterwards. When
    we succeed in overcoming temptation
    and we accomplish levels of greatness
    in learning, prayer or charity, Hashem
    should remove the Satan from afterwards,
    who tries to trip us up with feelings of
    haughtiness and pride.
    In the merit of this wonderful prayer,
    may Hashem bless us with long life, good
    health, and everything wonderful.