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    A POTPOURRI ABOUT PRAYER

    We have a popular phrase,
    ‘Food For Thought.’ The
    Kuzari says that prayer
    is ‘Food for the Soul.’
    He elaborates that just as
    we meet the needs of the
    body by eating three meals
    (breakfast, lunch, and supper) so too our
    neshamas have similar needs to meet. And
    so, on a spiritual level, Shacharis, Mincha,
    and Maariv are the ‘food’ equivalents of
    three meals a day. The Avudrahan backs
    this up with an interesting gematria. He
    points out that each Shemone Esrei has
    nineteen brachos. Therefore, in a full

    day of prayer, we get a total of fifty-
    seven blessings. The Hebrew word zan

    (nourishment) also equals fifty-seven,
    further directing our attention to prayer as
    the sustenance of the neshama.
    Indeed, the Zohar also describes prayer
    as spiritual food. The Kuzari develops
    the thought adding that when one hasn’t
    davened for a while, his neshama weakens
    in a manner similar to the weakening of
    the body that comes about through fasting.
    Perhaps this is one of the reasons why
    many great people such as the Chazon
    Ish used to daven Mincha as soon as one
    is allowed, in order that there should not
    be such a big gap between Shacharis and
    Mincha. Following this pattern, we find
    that most yeshivas daven Mincha in the
    early afternoon. (Of course, there are other
    reasons such as davening Mincha near
    the time of the afternoon Tamid offering,
    which Mincha commemorates.)
    The Shala”h HaKodesh, basing his
    remarks on a Rashb”a, comments that
    the three daily prayers correspond to the
    three phases of human life; namely, the
    years of growth, the stationery years, and
    the years of decline. Viewed in this way,
    Shacharis corresponds to the time periods
    of childhood, adolescence, and budding
    maturity. Mincha relates to the years of
    middle-age, and Maariv focuses on one’s
    golden years. Thus, while davening, it
    would be proper to focus on one’s children
    and grandchildren during Shacharis, and
    upon elderly parents and grandparents
    during Maariv.
    Furthermore, since the majority of one’s
    mature years fall within the middle-age
    bracket, it explains to us why the tefilla of
    Mincha is described as being so important.
    As the Gemora in Brachos says, “Great
    is the prayer of Mincha for Eliyahu was
    only answered during the Mincha prayer.”
    Indeed, a middle-aged businessman who
    finds it difficult, especially during the

    winter months, to leave the office smack
    in the middle of the day in order to catch
    Mincha, should be alerted to the fact that
    Mincha is the most critical prayer for the
    middle-aged man.
    The Zohar Chadash shares a fascinating
    piece of information with us. It teaches
    that the angel which brings up our morning
    prayer is Michoel. The Mincha prayer is
    delivered by Gavriel, while the Maariv
    prayer is presented by the malach, Nuriel.
    Interestingly, the word magein – shield,
    that is mentioned so prominently in the
    beginning of our prayers (when we thank
    Hashem for being MaGeN Avraham), is an
    acronym of Michoel, Gavriel, Nuriel. This
    is very fitting since indeed the true shield
    of our people is the power of our prayer.
    As it says, “Ha kol kol Yaakov, v’hayadaim
    yadei Eisav.” While Eisav uses the power
    of his hands and muscles, we wield the
    power of our mouths in prayer and Limud
    HaTorah. So also the legendary Magen
    Dovid, the six-sided Star of David which
    was Dovid HaMelech’s emblem when he
    went to war, signifies the realization that it
    wasn’t Dovid’s military might or strategic
    genius which won the battle, but rather the
    defense of the One Above Who is in all six
    directions, above and below and to all four
    sides. Thus, this star represents the great
    power of praying to He Who rules over all.
    It is interesting to note that many of our
    prayer customs are directly related to the
    fact that nowadays, tefilla is a substitute for
    korbonos (sacrifices). Thus, for example,
    we daven standing, as the Avoda in the Beis
    HaMikdash had to be done while standing.
    We daven in a Makom K’vuah, a fixed
    place, similar to the sacrifices which had
    to be slaughtered and sprinkled at fixed
    places by the Altar. We try to pray in the
    Synagogue just like the sacrifices had to be
    offered in the Temple. We wear dignified
    clothing (Chassidim even add the gartel as
    a special garment for prayer similar to the
    Kohanim who donned the bigdei Kehuna).
    We wash our hands just like the Kohein
    sanctified his hands from the kiyor (laver).
    We word our prayers in the plural since they
    correspond to the community offerings.
    We try not to have any untoward thoughts
    during davening for by sacrifices certain
    untoward thoughts render the korban pigul
    and therefore unusable. We try to utilize
    prayer to bring ourselves closer to Hashem
    similar to the korban whose very root,
    korav, means to come near. All our prayers
    incorporate a plea for help to repent and a
    request for forgiveness and pardon. For
    many of the sacrifices were for the express
    purpose of atonement.

    The Klei Yakar states that when
    one davens with passion – his or
    her heart aflame with heartfelt
    emotion, it corresponds to the
    fire on the Altar which consumes
    the offering. Rabbeinu Bachya
    adds that when one sheds a tear
    in prayer, this is symbolic of the
    lofty ritual of nisuch hamayim,
    the holy water libations that
    were done with great pomp and
    ceremony during the Succos
    festival. Mr. Yitzchak Lowinger
    told me in his father’s name, that
    we know that every sacrifice was
    accompanied with salt, as it states, “Al kol
    karboncha takriv melech.” He beautifully
    explained that tears contain salt so, when
    one cries during a davening, besides the
    great effect that it has since the gates of
    tears in Heaven are never shut, it also
    represents the salt that accompanied every
    offering.
    One might ask, With all this comparison
    to sacrifices, why don’t we pray on elevated
    places? After all, the Altar was elevated off
    the ground. Indeed, we are taught to pray
    at low places, as it says, “Shir Hamalos
    Me’mamakim, a Song of Assents from
    the Depths.” And the Gemora constantly
    refers to the chazan as one who is ‘Yoreid
    Lifnei HaTeiva – He who goes down to the
    pulpit.’ And in many ancient shuls, and
    several contemporary ones as well, we find
    that the leader of the prayer services goes
    down a step to officiate in prayer!
    The answer to this question is taught to
    us by Chazal with the lesson, “Ein gavhus
    lifnei HaMakom – There is no elevation
    before Hashem.” This means that if one
    were to climb up ostensibly to get closer
    to G-d, it would be akin to a blasphemous
    statement that G-d does not fill the entire
    world. This is also one of the reasons why
    we pray Shemone Esrei silently (thus it is
    known as the Silent Devotion) for if we
    were to raise our voices, it would imply
    that we need to speak up for G-d to hear
    us, while in truth Keil Deios Hashem,
    G-d knows our minds and is the Yodeia
    Machashavos. Of course we also pray
    silently so as not to distract others.
    There is yet another reason why we
    pray silently. The Zohar in Shmos (89)
    writes that the one of the angels of prayer
    that helps carry our tefillos to Hashem is
    called Oznayim, Ears. And he only hear
    prayers that are not audible to humans.
    (One should note that certain prayers,
    especially those said in Lashon Kodesh
    and in the presence of a minyan, do not

    need any intermediaries, and go straight
    to Hashem. Also, we mentioned above
    that the angels were Michoel, Gavriel, and
    Nuriel (and not Oznayim!). Perhaps this
    can be explained by analogy to an internet
    connection. Just like with the internet, a
    connection is achieved through multiple
    substations, so too certain prayers might
    involve a network of angels before a prayer
    gets to Hashem.
    We are taught that one who prays should
    daven ‘El Hakosel,’ directly facing a wall.’
    Besides the obvious reason, that this helps
    to avoid distractions, there is also again the
    analogy to korbonos which were applied
    against the wall of the Altar. But the
    Sefer Shomeia Tefilla offers a fascinating
    observation on the word kosel. He points
    out that the word kosel is made up of the
    Hebrew letters chof and vov, and then the
    word teil, which means a mount. Chof-vuv
    (26) is the gematria of Hashem’s ineffable
    Name, Yud-Kei-Vuv-Kei and thus, when
    we are charged to daven to the kosel, we
    are being taught to focus on Hashem and
    the Mount, namely the Har HaBayis and
    the Beis HaMikdash.
    In the merit of our sincere prayers, may
    we be zoche to good health, happiness, and
    everything wonderful.