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    A SUKKAH SPONSORED BY THE ANGEL OF DEATH “HOW COME I HAVE EVERYTHING, YET I HAVE NOTHING?” WHY ENVY IS IGNORANCE

    A Tale of Two Jews
    In the world of
    yesteryear, in a small
    village near Karlin,
    Belarus, lived two
    Jews. One was a
    Chassid—a pious
    follower of the great spiritual master Rabbi
    Aaron of Karlin. The other was the type they
    used to call a Misnaged, a Jew who deeply
    apposed Chassidim and Chassidus and
    everything they represented. The misnaged
    (the opponent) was tremendously wealthy
    and the Chassid—a desolate pauper.
    This wealthy man had everything a man
    desires. He had fine children, a dedicated
    wife, and was healthy like the day he was
    born. All a man can wish for except one
    thing: cheerfulness. He was a bitter and
    miserable soul. He never had a pleasant
    moment; he was always tense and suppressed.
    He would be quicker to pay full price for
    something than to smile. He was a religious
    person, but his religion had no soul, no smile,
    no joy. It was all about rigid law.
    Friday evenings in this man’s home were
    solemn and glum. He would sit at the head of
    the ornate mahogany table with a stern face,
    tense shoulders and eyes that bespoke
    tension. Even the Shabbos melodies were
    depressing, sung fulfilling his duty, without
    warmth.
    Truth be told, this man was most comfortable
    and content with Tisha Bav, the saddest day
    in the Jewish calendar; by contrast Simchas
    Torah was a day he dreaded.
    If there ever a soul of darkness, it was he!
    Across the street at the corner, was a shack, a
    wretched excuse for a home, where the
    Karliner Chossid lived or, to be more
    accurate, was surviving. He barely had
    money to buy nutritious meals for his family.
    He lived on the edge. But one thing that never
    lacked was joy, exuberance and warmth.
    Friday evenings at the chassid’s home were
    other worldly. Joyful and lively tunes
    reverberated throughout and the house was
    filled with a heavenly euphoria and ecstatic
    elation. He hugged each of his children and
    made them feel like princesses. He laughed,
    he sang and he danced. He loved the Shabbos
    and he loved people. He was in love with life.
    And so it was week in week out, the
    misnagad’s home made the North Pole look
    like Miami, and the chassid’s home was a
    haven of warmth and light, pulsating with joy
    and excitement.
    Now, the chassid’s good natured personality
    irked his wealthy neighbor to no end. “How
    can it be,” he would often wonder “that I,
    who posses all a man can want, yet I am so
    bitter and angry, while this penniless Chassid
    is so joyful and upbeat?!” Inasmuch as it
    disturbed him, he remained bitter. This was
    the 18th century, pre-therapy days, so when
    you were irked by your neighbor, you just

    repressed it.
    The Sukkos Trauma
    Sukkos was his worst holiday. The holiday of
    joy was something he could not bear. He
    would sit outside in the Sukkah upset and
    distraught. His poor wife and children sat
    with him somber and hard faced. A gloomy
    atmosphere always filled the Sukkah.
    Across the street was the chassid’s sukkka
    full of dancing and singing. Many lechayim’s
    were shared and beautiful stories told. The
    Sukkah walls were bursting with positive
    energy.
    The Decree
    One Sukkos, the positivity and joy was more
    than the misnaged could handle and he
    decided he must put a stop to the Chassidic
    lunatic who was driving him mad. Being the
    wealthiest Jew in the shtetl and practically
    providing everyone’s livelihood, he devised a
    plan.
    You see, how would the poor chassid build
    his Sukkah every year? He would approach
    Yankel and ask him for a piece of wood or
    two; then go to Chatzkel and request a piece
    or two, then he would go to another few
    friends and borrow for the week a plank or
    two, and eventually put together his little
    sukkaleh. So as the next year came around, as
    Sukkos approached, the wealthy Jew warned
    one and all not to help the chassid with his
    Sukkah. “Under no circumstances is anyone
    allowed to lend him lumber,” he warned.
    “Anyone that does, can look for a job
    somewhere else.”
    His word was heeded. This year, the poor
    chassid got the same response from everyone
    he approached. “I would love to help you but
    your neighbor forbade us to help you. I have
    young mouths to feed; I’m sorry but I can’t
    afford to lose my job.” Every person he went
    to rejected him.
    The chassid was devastated. It was a night
    before his most cherished holiday and he still
    had no Sukkah. He had no money to purchase
    his own lumber, nor would anyone lend him
    even a single plank of wood. What do I do?
    He thought to himself.
    Suddenly he had a plan; he would go to the
    cemetery.
    The Cemetery
    The custom back then was, when a poor
    person who cannot afford a marble tomb
    would pass away, the shtetel community
    would provide a wooden plank for his tomb.
    The cemetery had hundreds of such planks
    with the inscription “Here Lies” (Po Nitman),
    and when someone poor would pass away,
    they carved out his name on the plank of
    wood, and stuck it into the ground. This
    would constitute the tombstone on his grave.
    “Well,” thought the chassid to himself, “let
    me go borrow the planks of wood from the
    cemetery to build my Sukkah. “Who’s going
    to die on Sukkos, and if someone does, how
    many will die already? There are hundreds of

    planks in the cemetery. I will borrow these
    planks for my Sukkah and return them after
    the holiday! Certainly, the kehilah
    (community) would allow me to do so.”
    And so off he went with tens of wooden
    planks and built himself a Sukkah the size of
    an airport! The cemetery had so many planks,
    that he could afford to build himself a gigantic
    Sukkah, larger than he ever built before.
    The Night Comes
    The eve of Sukkos arrives and the misnaged
    is sitting in his Sukkah rubbing his hands.
    “Finally,” he says to himself as he settles in
    his palatial Sukkah, “it’s about time I taught
    that Chassidic dance box a lesson! Finally, I
    will enjoy one Sukkos without those lively
    tunes, festive celebrations, and ecstatic
    dancing from the Chassid. Finally I will be
    able to remain happily depressed without
    anyone making me feel how misrable I am.”
    You can imagine his shock and horror when
    he hears his neighbor singing like never
    before. The voices from the other sukkah are
    more jubilant than any other year! He goes to
    see for himself and… Oy! His neighbor is
    sitting in a massive Sukkah, larger than ever
    before, surrounded by his wife and children,
    plus a few guests, dancing and singing, and
    enjoying immensely.
    The wealthy Jew never had a worse meal in
    his life.
    The next night, he could contain himself no
    longer. He ran over to the Chassid’s Sukkah,
    his face burning red with anger, his veins
    looked like they would burst out any second.
    “Who gave you this wood?” he roars at the
    poor Chassid. Who defied my orders? Tell me
    right now, from whom did you obtain such a
    massive, beautiful Sukkah?”
    The chassid, who was a clever individual,
    looks at his neighbor and smiles. “First of all,
    Gut Yom Tov my friend, sit down and relax
    and I will explain it all to you.”
    An Encounter
    The Chassid tells him the following story:
    Due to your decree, I was not able to gather
    materials to build a Sukkah. As you know,
    I’m sure, I don’t either have a steady job. So
    with no Sukkah to build and no work to do, I
    was left with a lot of time on my hands.
    It was the night before Sukkos, and I had
    nothing to do. What does a Jew with time on
    his hands do? I decided to go for a walk.
    I went out for a stroll. It was after midnight.
    As I am strolling, I meet someone I have not
    seen in a long time: the angel of death.”
    “Sholom Aleichem,” I tell the angel of death.
    “What brings you to our neighborhood on the
    night before Sukkos?”
    The angel of death tells me he came to do a
    job. Someone’s time is up and he got to seize
    the man’s soul.
    “Who?” I asked the angel of death. Who are
    you coming to take?
    “Ah,” the angle of death says, “I am on my
    way to kill your rich neighbor. The guy who

    really can’t tolerate you. His time is up.”
    So I turned to the angel of death, and I said:
    “Don’t bother with him. Leave him alone.”
    “Why?” asked the angel of death. “He
    despises you with a passion. Why not finish
    him off?”
    So I told the angel of death: “It is a waste of
    your energy and time to kill this man. You see
    this person has long been dead. Trust me,
    there is no need to kill him; he died many
    decades ago. He has not been alive for
    probably 50 years.”
    The angel of death thanked me profusely for
    giving him the night off. Then he asked me
    how he can repay my favor. I told him: I need
    a Sukkah!
    So the angel of death told me: Go to the
    cemetery and build your Sukkah with all the
    wooden tombstones that are there. I promise
    you, I will make sure no one dies for the next
    eight days, and you have no reason to worry
    about those planks of wood. You can take
    them all!”
    At this point, the chassid points to the walls
    of his Sukkah and says: Look, I can prove it.
    Pointing at the “Here Lies” (Po Nitman)
    inscription that was on all the boards, he says,
    “you see they are all from the cemetery.”
    The Breakdown
    The misnaged could no longer contain
    himself. Years of ignoring and suppressing
    his emotions and feelings, stifling his crying
    soul, suddenly gave way, and the dam
    crumbled. Rivers of tears flowed freely, as he
    wept like a baby. He cried for the decades of
    lost time; he cried for his soul, for a live lived
    so meagerly and miserably.
    “How is it that I have everything yet I have
    nothing; you have nothing, yet you have
    everything?” From where do you get it?
    From where?” cried the welathy man in
    agony.
    “For this,” replied the chassid, “you need a
    Rebbe.” A Rebbe lifts you up in a moment of
    hardship, and empowers you during
    challenging times. A Rebbe allows you to
    remain connected to your own deepest soul,
    reminding you of your essential connection
    to G-d. A Rebbe is always there for you,
    pushing you up the mountain of life, telling
    you that you can climb yet higher. And when
    you are connected to a Rebbe, you realize
    that there are things larger than your own
    ego, you don’t take yourself so seriously. You
    can laugh at yourself.”
    “Go to Karlin, go to the great Rabbi Aharon
    of Karlin, my Rebbe. There you will begin to
    live.”
    Tradition has it that this wealthy Jew turned
    out to become one of Reb Aharon’s greatest
    disciples.