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    AS WE START THE NINE DAYS

    In Masechtas Nedarim
    [81a], the Gemara cites a
    verse in Yirmiyah [9:11],
    “Mi ha-ish hechacham
    v’yavein es zos… al ma
    avda ha’aretz – Who
    is the man who is wise
    (enough) to understand
    (the reason) why the land perished?” The
    Gemara elaborates that this matter was asked
    of the sages, prophets, and even the celestial
    angels. They were stumped and unable to
    shed light on the disaster of the Temple’s
    destruction and Yerushalayim’s ruination until
    Hashem Himself revealed the secrets. As
    Rav informs us, Hashem explained that the
    disaster occurred because they didn’t make
    the blessing on the Torah properly.
    First, let us first understand the prophet’s
    question. Although we are taught that the first
    Beis HaMikdash was destroyed because of the
    heinous crimes of idolatry, immorality, and
    bloodshed, we still should have had a saving
    grace because, as we are taught, Torah study
    is a shield before retribution. Therefore, since
    the generation of the churban was replete with
    Torah study, this should have been sufficient
    to afford us ample protection to avoid the
    many catastrophes of that era. It is this that
    bewildered the greatest sages, the prophets of
    vision, and even the most powerful heavenly
    angels.

    But only Hashem, Who plummets the very
    depths of people’s hearts, was able to discern
    that although there was plenty of Torah, there
    was something wrong with the blessing made
    on the Torah. Rabbeinu Yonah elucidates
    that a proper blessing is made when a person
    appreciates something and is excited to thank
    Hashem for it with a blessing. He goes on to
    say that, although Klal Yisroel learned plenty
    of Torah, they did not appreciate the Torah
    as a pleasure for which a blessing was worth
    offering. They viewed it more as a task and
    chore that needed to be fulfilled.
    Let’s ask ourselves how this relates to us.
    Are we learning just because we have to – or
    because we want to? Is the Daf Yomi a burden
    to be met – or a luxury to be enjoyed? Is the
    weekly review of the Torah portion a privilege
    – or a yoke? These are crucial questions we
    must ponder and work on as we approach the
    Nine Days and Tisha b’Av.
    But there is more to be learned from Hashem’s
    diagnosis. A blessing is also critical in helping
    focus and channel our minds in the proper
    direction when we embark upon a mitzvah
    activity. For example, take the mitzvah of
    netilas yadaim, washing our hands before
    eating. Without a meaningful brocha, one
    can easily slip into the bad habit of viewing
    this washing as a mere exercise of dinner
    hygiene. However, when we thoughtfully say
    the words, “Asher kiddishonu b’mitzvosov

    vitzivanu…,” it impresses upon us that this is
    a ritual of holiness and an expression of doing
    the command of Hashem.
    Thus, Hashem explained that the reason our
    Torah learning failed to protect us at the time
    of the churban was because it lacked the
    necessary amount of ‘lishma.’ How easy is
    it to get into the routine of trying to finish a
    masechta and forgetting in the process that we
    are learning because it is the will of Hashem
    and the fulfillment of the mitzvah of ‘v’dibarta
    bam.’ What a vital lesson this is! In order to
    protect our families with the shield of Torah,
    we must train ourselves to preface our Torah
    study with the thought that we are engaged
    in this activity in order to fulfill the supreme
    command of Hashem – to occupy our time
    with the study of His Torah.
    This lesson of course embraces all areas of
    Yiddishkeiht. It is a daily malady that plagues
    the Jew who is religious from birth. If one
    is not careful, it is so easy to go through the
    routines of religiosity – putting on tefillin,
    eating kosher, keeping Shabbos, all without
    thinking about Hashem. It is therefore of
    immense importance that when we say our
    brachos, we learn to use the brocha as a guide
    to train our minds on Hashem when we do His
    mitzvahs.
    As we contemplate this all-important lesson
    from the Gemara, I’d like to make one
    more comment. How contemporary the
    Gemara rings when it says the destruction
    of Yerushalayim puzzled and perplexed the
    sages, prophets, and angels! It shouldn’t
    cause us any wonder that we are unable to
    explain the atrocities of the Holocaust when
    even prophets and angels were confounded
    by the similar disasters of yesteryear.
    Finally, another lesson to be learned from
    Tisha b’Av has been taught to us by Rabbi
    Chaim Volozhin, zt”l, zy”a. He points out
    a similarity between the opening words of
    Megilas Eicha, “Eicha yoshva vadad – Alas!
    The city that is alone and desolate,” with the
    Torah directive to Klal Yisroel, “Hein Am
    l’vadad yishkon – Behold the Nation which
    dwells apart.” He explains the connection
    as follows. When the Jews fail to keep
    themselves distant and distinct from the
    neighboring nations, Hashem punishes us
    with the likes of Eicha. We’ve seen this to
    be true throughout the ages – assimilation
    and imitating the style of other nations bring
    about disaster! Such was the fate of the
    Jews in Egypt who embraced the ways of the
    Egyptians and desisted from circumcision.
    This resulted in enforced enslavement and
    all the travails of Mitzrayim. So also was
    the fate of the Jews in Spain, who became
    too close to the ways of their host nation and
    then suffered the dreadful consequences of
    the Spanish Inquisition and expulsion from
    that country.
    Once, I had the pleasure of being together
    with Rav Lichtig of Queens. In his youth, he
    attended the legendary Yeshivas Chachmei
    Lublin founded by the great Rabbi Meir
    Shapiro, zt”l, zy”a. Rabbi Lichtig told me

    that HaRav Shapiro traveled to America to
    raise funds for his great yeshiva. Upon his
    return to Europe, they asked him to describe
    the American Jew. He responded with the
    following capsulized assessment. ‘They
    know very well how to make Kiddush but
    they are lacking in the understanding of
    Havdolah.’ What he meant was they knew
    how to do beautiful mitzvos but were missing
    the discipline to distance themselves from the
    ways of non-Jews. Now, more than a half a
    century later, this failing is still symptomatic
    of many of our people. How we must be
    weary of the influence of gentile culture upon
    our manner of dress, our method of speech,
    our behavior with our spouse, our treatment of
    our children, our attitudes towards our parents,
    and the respect we show our elderly and sages.
    Let us remember this golden rule: When we
    keep ourselves distinct from the nations,
    Hashem blesses us with His Divine protection.
    On the other hand, when we strip ourselves of
    the proper boundaries, Hashem forcibly ejects
    us from them, in order that we maintain our
    Jewish identity. Hashem will keep us apart –
    either by wearing a yarmulke voluntarily or by
    being forced to wear a yellow Jewish star as
    we had to wear at the time of the Nazis.
    In the merit of our bettering ourselves from
    the lessons of the churban, may we be spared
    from any further Jewish suffering and see
    the rebuilding of the Temple and the Final
    Redemption speedily in our days.