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    BEHAALOSCHA: THE DEATH OF CONVICTION THE BLESSINGS AND PITFALLS OF LIBERAL EDUCATION

    Open-Mindedness
    Much has been
    written about
    the apparent absence
    in our society of
    passion directed
    toward any ideal
    beyond our personal
    needs and pleasures. Nothing in the
    contemporary secular conversation calls on
    us to give up or sacrifice anything truly
    valuable for anybody or anything else. Even
    marriage and the family unit, once
    considered sacred institutions worth
    sacrificing for, are easily discarded when they
    conflict with one’s personal comforts.
    The original cause of this condition, it seems,
    is the gift of liberty that our generation has
    been blessed with. Our open education has
    endowed us with access to a sundry of
    cultures, races, ethnic groups, and belief
    systems, liberating us from many a phobia
    caused by single-minded tribalism and
    religious or social dogma. This in itself is
    healthy: Open-mindedness diminishes
    bigotry and advocates tolerance and respect
    for groups and people different than us.
    Yet like all blessings, this one too, does not
    come without a challenge.
    Liberal education is not a goal in and of itself;
    it is a means to an end. Emancipated from
    dogma and indoctrination, you are empowered
    to choose a path with inner conviction. You
    can embrace a vision that is truly yours.
    Relationships, love, morality, faith, goodness,
    and commitment can now emerge from the
    depth of your being, rather than from social
    conventions and external pressures. But for
    this to occur, children and students need
    parents, mentors and educators who can show

    them how to utilize the blessings of open-
    mindedness to build character, to develop an

    idealistic personality and achieve moral
    greatness.
    To our dismay, the opposite has occurred. We
    live arguably in the most sophisticated age,
    free to question all absolutes with the
    objectivity of reason. We have been redeemed,
    to a significant degree, from the maladies of
    bigotry, intolerance and prejudice that have
    plagued humanity for millennia. But instead
    of seeing our liberty as an opportunity to
    promote powerful moral commitments
    stemming from authentic and un-coerced
    desires, we utilized our zest to de-legitimize
    and trivialize any commitment that runs too
    deep. Many have retreated into self-centered
    solitariness, expending much energy in
    defending the principle that no choice is
    worthwhile enough to be taken too seriously.
    Is it possible that 5,000 years of the human
    search for truth were meant to culminate with

    no ideal larger than the quest for self-
    preservation and gratification?

    Our extreme and endless open mindedness
    has often diminished, rather than built, the

    character of the youth. It has deprived many
    of the millennia-long awareness that there are
    truths worth fighting for, ideals worth aspiring
    towards, relationships worth sacrificing for.
    Timidity and reservation became the staple of
    our generation. With all of our technological
    progress, the fact remains that millions of
    Americans find it impossible to maintain
    stable marriages, to raise happy children and
    to find true meaning in their existence. Fifty
    percent of first marriages are likely to end in
    divorce, and one million new children are
    added each year to the “list” of broken
    families. Alas, we have come to know, in
    Oscar Wilde’s words, the price of everything
    and the value of nothing. We understand our
    bodies like never before but have become
    distant from our souls. Moral feebleness,
    philosophical haziness, and even a weakened
    will to survive have become all too
    common. When you have nothing to fight for,
    are you really alive?
    The Russian Novelists
    I raised this issue with Russian literature

    Professor Dr. Andrew Kaufman Ph.D., co-
    author of the renowned Russian for Dummies.

    He wrote to me:
    I have found that people whose lives are
    infused with clear injustices are less wishy
    washy on moral questions. That’s what has
    fascinated me about the great Russian writers,
    whom I have studied for many years. They
    had no problem taking clear moral stands on
    issues, because they had stark evidence in
    front of them of the differences between
    justice and injustice, freedom and slavery,
    morality and corruption. Tolstoy and
    Dostoevsky among others, had no difficulty
    taking a clear moral stand on issues. These
    issues weren’t intellectual abstractions to
    them. They were painfully real.
    The American universities, on the other hand,
    have done my generation a real disservice.
    They’ve skewed students’ perspectives and
    only enhanced their naturally sheltered state.
    This generation of students has to it an
    internal softness. The newly enlightened
    young Americans have lost their moral nerve.
    They don’t believe in absolute truths and
    higher ideals, because they are told in the
    universities that to do so would be
    ‘insensitive,’ or ‘undemocratic.’ It’s a real
    problem, because when we cannot define evil
    as evil, we make sure it continues to exist and
    grow.
    The Uniqueness of the Menorah
    There is an intriguing element in the
    construction of the Mishkan, discussed in this
    week’s parsha. Of all the furniture and
    equipment to be built for the Mishkan, only a
    few were required to be made of a single
    piece of gold. One of them was the menorah,
    the five-foot-tall seven-branched golden
    candelabra, kindled every evening in the
    Mikdash, casting its sacred glow on the
    surroundings. (The eight-branched Chanukah

    menorah is a commemoration of this nightly
    ritual in the Temple.)
    ”You shall make a menorah of pure gold,” the
    Torah instructs, “the menorah should be made
    of a single piece of beaten gold.” The menorah
    was an elaborate structure, comprised of
    many shapes, forms and nuanced designs, yet
    it needed to be hammered out from a single
    ingot of gold; no part of it may be made
    separately and attached afterwards.
    Rashi explains this instruction clearly: “He
    should not make it [the menorah] of sections,
    nor should he make its branches and lamps of
    separate pieces and connect them afterward in
    the style of metal-workers which they call
    “soulder” in Old French. Rather, it should all
    come from a single piece. He (the craftsman)
    beats it with a mallet and cuts it with craftsman
    tools, separating the branches to either side…
    The craftsman draws the parts of the menorah
    out of the solid block of gold.”
    Why the Headache?
    Now, you need not be a skilled craftsman to
    appreciate how difficult a task this was. The
    menorah was an extremely complex and
    intricately designed article. Why does the
    Torah demand it be hammered out from a
    single lump of gold? Why not construct the
    menorah from separate pieces of metal and
    then weld them together?
    What is even more intriguing is that the
    menorah was one of only three articles in the
    Mishkan that the Torah required to be built in
    this fashion! Most other articles, like the table
    with the show bread, the altars, the washing
    basin, even the holiest article—the aron,
    could all be built from separate pieces of
    material. Yet the menorah, perhaps the most
    intricate article in the Temple, needed to be
    fleshed out of a single lump of gold. What is
    the message behind this?
    The Torah, it has been suggested, is attempting
    to convey a profound insight into the human
    condition and the objective of education. If
    you ever wish to become a menorah, a source
    of light to others, you must ensure that you
    are made of “one piece.” To be a leader, a
    pillar of conviction and a wellspring of
    inspiration, you cannot afford to be
    dichotomized. You need to know who you are
    and what you stand for. You must be holistic.
    Ambivalence and ambiguity make for good
    conversation at campus cafes, or on op-ed
    pages. Yet in all of their glamorous
    sophistication, they lack the capacity to
    inspire youth. Passion and conviction are the
    fruits of a deep and integrated sense of self.
    Children do not respond well to ambivalence,
    because it often leaves them with a sense of
    uncertainty and with a hole in their hearts.
    Judaism always understood that if you wish to
    live a self-contained life, you can be made of
    many pieces, dichotomized and fragmented.
    But if you wish to become a menorah, if you
    wish to inspire your children and students, if

    you wish to cast a light on a dark world and to
    kindle sparks and brighten lives you must be
    made of “one piece.” You may still struggle
    and wonder, yet you must know who you are,
    what you believe in, and why you are alive.
    Why Were You Created?
    For fourteen years I was privileged to attend
    the weekly addresses of a brilliant teacher, a
    man well educated in the sciences, arts and
    philosophies, who professed encyclopedic
    knowledge in the fields of physics, science (in
    the broadest sense of the term), history and
    literature, and mastery over the enormous
    body of Biblical, Talmudic, Halachik and
    Kabbalistic texts. He was also a profoundly
    open-minded individual, with a keen
    understanding of the complexities of the
    human mind. Yet in almost every one of his
    speeches and addresses, he would quote this
    apparently simplistic Talmudic statement: “I
    was created in order to serve G-d.”
    I often wondered why this extraordinary
    thinker felt compelled to quote this dictum
    again and again. Why the need to repeat
    something we have all heard hundreds of
    times? In retrospect I have come to understand
    that by reiterating this message continuously,
    sincerely and wholeheartedly, our Rebbe
    (teacher) wished to communicate to his
    disciples a powerful message: Appreciate
    diversity, tolerate otherness, and open
    yourself up to the colorfulness of the world.
    But never allow yourself to become
    emotionally and mentally torn in the process.
    Remember who you are and what you were
    created for. You were created to serve G-d, to
    fulfill His will and to build a world saturated
    with goodness and G-dliness. Do not allow
    life to become so complicated that you are no
    longer sure who you are and what you
    represent.
    The wise and open-minded Shlomo HaMelech
    knew a thing or two about the compelling
    force of cynicism. Just read through the Sefer
    Koheles. Yet he also understood that
    skepticism is a means, not an end. The final
    verse of this deeply disturbing biblical book is
    what is missing from today’s educational
    curriculum:
    “The final word after all that is known is this:
    Fear G-d and Observe His commandments,
    for this is the whole purpose of man.”