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    BEHAALOTCHA: HOW TO DEAL WITH ECONOMIC CHALLENGE THE “DAYS” AND “NIGHTS” OF LIFE

    The Economist
    An architect, a
    surgeon, and
    economist are arguing
    who of them holds
    the most prominent
    position.
    The surgeon said,
    ‘Look, we’re the most important. The very
    first thing G-d did was surgery: to extract
    Eve from Adam’s rib.’
    The architect said, ‘No, wait a minute, G-d
    is an architect first and foremost. G-d made
    the world in six days out of chaos.’
    The economist smiled, ‘And who made the
    chaos?’
    The Dual Canopy
    “On the day the Mishkan was erected, the
    cloud covered the Mishkan,” the Torah
    records in Parshat Behaalotcha. “Then, in the
    evening, there would be upon the Mishkan
    like a fiery glow till morning.”
    “From then on it remained that way,” the
    Torah continues. “The cloud would cover it
    [by day] and a glow of fire by night.”
    Two points require clarification. First: What
    was the significance and purpose of this dual
    miraculous canopy that hovered over the
    Mishkan in the desert — a cloud during the

    day and a glowing flame during the night?
    Second: Like every episode recorded in the
    Torah, this one, too, contains a spiritual
    interpretation that continuously plays itself
    out in journeys of the human spirit. How can
    we apply the story of this Mishkan canopy to
    our lives today?
    Smugness Vs. Despair
    The Mishkan was the edifice erected by
    Bnei Yisrael in the Sinai desert to serve as a
    home for the Divine presence. In Jewish
    writings, the Mishkan represents the place in
    the human heart where the light of
    G-d resides. The Mishkan, then, exists
    timelessly within the human soul.
    This sacred and noble place within us must
    include both a cloud by day and a fire by
    night. Each person experiences in his or her
    life “days” and “nights” — moments of light
    and moments of darkness, times of happiness
    and contentment as well as times of agony
    and turmoil. For some, the days are longer
    than the nights; for others the nights sadly
    exceed the days. Yet most humans possess
    a share of both realities.
    When things are going well for us — when
    we’re paying the bills nicely, the kids are
    healthy, our spouses are there for us and
    we’re satisfied with our lot — we often forget
    how vulnerable we really are in this world.

    We tend to become smug,
    complacent and
    desensitized. We often
    become apathetic to other
    people’s pain. We don’t
    feel the need for genuine
    friendships, and certainly
    not for a relationship with
    G-d. We don’t feel the
    urgent need to be real. At
    moments of bliss people
    often feel that they are on
    top of the world and they
    do not need anybody. They
    forget their humaneness
    and simplicity.
    On the other hand, when things become
    (heaven forbid) difficult and painful – your
    company “is in der erd” (Yiddish for “is in
    the ground”), a loss in the family, illness of a
    loved one, a marriage goes sour, the bank is
    after us, our children are not doing well or we
    are overcome by inner mental or physical
    challenges — we often fall prey to feelings of
    despair and loneliness. We sink into the
    morass of life’s hardships, as we say to
    ourselves, “it’s dark and it’s getting darker.”
    Maintain Perspective
    Thus, the Torah teaches us a movingly
    profound lesson.
    If you are to become a human Mishkan, if
    you wish to discover the grace of G-d
    within your heart, you must recall the
    darker cloud hovering above you even
    during times of brightness and splendor. A
    person must always remember that
    ultimately he cannot claim ownership over
    anything in his life: Life is a gift, love is
    gift, health is a gift, relationships are gifts,
    parents are gifts and children are gifts.
    Financial success, too, is not a natural
    symptom of your brilliant investments; it
    is a gift. One ought never to become blind
    to the truth that everything can change in a
    single instance and that there is so much
    pain in the world. When you remember the
    clouds, you will never become arrogant,
    detached and false.
    On the other hand, when night falls upon
    us, when life exposes its painful and darker
    side to us, we need to recall the glowing
    light hovering above us. We must
    remember that every experience we endure
    is part of our life’s mission to serve G-d
    under these circumstances and to transform
    the world into a home for goodness and
    G-dliness. Every challenge contains an
    opportunity for deeper awareness, growth,
    and rebirth; it invites us into a deeper
    relationship with our soul and our G-d.
    Each cloud contains a flame within.
    Judaism’s Mission Statement
    This is the powerful significance behind
    the mitzvah, the Jewish tradition, to recite
    twice each day the Shema Yisroel, the
    most reverent Jewish prayer, once in the

    morning and once in the evening.
    When dawn breaks and the sun emerges to
    embrace us with its warmth, we state:
    “Shema Yisrael Hashem Elokeinu Hashem
    Echad.” Each of us is essentially a reflection
    of G-d, a recipient of His grace.
    When night falls and darkness makes its
    way into our lives, we once again declare:
    “Shema Yisrael Hashem Elokeinu Hashem
    Echad.” G-d is one means that the same G-d
    Who was present during the “day,” is also
    present during the “night.” Darkness is
    painful, but it, too, must become part of a
    dynamic relationship with life and with G-d.
    The Breaking of the Glass
    This is also the mystical reason for the
    enigmatic Jewish custom to break a glass
    under the Chupah at the moment when the
    groom and the bride are about to enter into a
    private room and celebrate their union, and
    the guests are about to begin feasting and
    dancing.
    Granted, we break a glass during a marriage
    ceremony to remember the destruction of
    Yerushalayim and all of the broken hearts in
    the world. But couldn’t we do the breaking a
    little earlier, during the more solemn
    moments of the ceremony? Must we, at the
    happiest moment of a bride and a groom,
    introduce sadness and melancholy?
    The answer: Those who at the peak of their
    personal joy remember the pain that is still
    present in the outside world, will, at the
    moment of their pain, remember the joy out
    there in the world. On the other hand, those
    who at a moment of a personal high, become
    totally submerged in their own mood and are
    indifferent to the broken hearts around them,
    then, when struck by pain and hardship, they
    will remain stuck in their own quagmire,
    unable to reach out and glean hope and
    inspiration from the laughter and joy still
    present in the world.
    Thus, the Torah states: “From then on it
    remained that way, the cloud would cover it
    [by day] and a glow of fire by night.” This is
    an eternal directive. During your days, look
    up to the clouds; during your nights, gaze up
    to the fire.
    And if during your days, you will remember
    the clouds, then during your nights you will
    remember the flame.