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    DEVARIM: SINAS CHINAM

    The two Batei
    Mikdash were
    destroyed because of
    aveiros, but the aveiros
    of these two eras
    weren’t the same. The
    primary aveiros of the
    first Beis HaMikdash
    were avodah zarah, giluy
    arayos, and shefichus
    damim. The second Beis
    HaMikdash was
    destroyed because of
    sinas chinam.
    There were other
    differences between the
    aveiros of these two eras.
    The Gemara (Yoma 9) states that one of the
    differences is that “the first Beis HaMikdash,
    their aveiros were revealed, and therefore, the
    date when the galus would end was revealed to
    them. In the second Beis HaMikdash, their
    sins weren’t revealed, and therefore, the end of
    the galus was not revealed.”
    Rashi explains that by the first Beis
    HaMikdash, people were transparent; they
    didn’t conceal their true selves. Everyone
    knew who was a tzaddik and who was a rasha.
    They were revealed, therefore, it was revealed
    to them that after seventy years, they would
    return to Eretz Yisrael (see Yirmiyahu 29:10).
    But by the second Beis HaMikdash, not
    everyone was transparent. There were

    resha’im who pretended to be tzaddikim. No
    one knew who was a true tzaddik and who
    wasn’t. They were concealed. Therefore, the
    end of the galus was hidden from them. They
    weren’t told when Moshiach would come.
    Rebbe Yohonoson Eibshitz zy’a (Yaaras
    Dvash 7) explains the Gemara in another way.
    He explains that “during the first Beis
    HaMikdash, their sins were revealed,” means
    the navi told them the reason for the exile. The
    pesukim in navi reveal that they were being
    punished for avodah zarah, giluy arayos, and
    shefichus damim. They knew what their sins
    were, so they knew how to improve. Therefore,
    it didn’t take them long to improve their ways.
    Seventy years later, they returned to Eretz
    Yisrael.
    But their sins weren’t revealed during the
    second Beis HaMikdash. There were no
    nevi’im in that era to tell them the cause of
    their punishment. Although the chachamim
    told them that the destruction was caused by
    sinas chinam, it was hard for people to accept
    that because sinas chinam doesn’t appear to be
    a severe aveirah. They didn’t know the reason
    for their punishment, so it was harder for them
    to do teshuvah. It is still hard for us to
    recognize the severity of sinas chinam, which
    is why nearly two thousand years have passed,
    and we haven’t been redeemed.
    The Arizal created a hesger, an exclusive
    compound for his ten primary students, where
    he taught them the secrets of the Torah. He

    warned them to avoid machlokes.
    But one Friday, two women got into a fight
    about some matter, and their husbands got
    involved. Their shouts could be heard from the
    distance.
    Before Shabbos, the Arizal with his students
    walked out of Tzfas to be mekabel Shabbos in
    the fields (as this was their weekly custom).
    The Arizal was usually extremely happy at this
    time, but this week, he appeared sad. Reb
    Chaim Vital zt’l asked him about this, and the
    Arizal replied, “I heard the samach mem
    (Satan) say, ‘Also you and your king will die’
    (Shmuel 12:25), and I understand this to mean
    that I am going to die together with some of
    my students. And it’s all because of the
    machlokes that occurred today. As long as
    there was peace among you, the Satan couldn’t
    enter our secluded compound.”
    And that is what happened. Less than a week
    later, on the fifth of Av, the Arizal and five of
    his students were niftar.
    The Chofetz Chaim explains that when the
    Gemara says the Beis HaMikdash was
    destroyed because of sinas chinam it refers to
    lashon hara. Sinas chinam, alone, wouldn’t
    destroy the Beis HaMikdash. Rather, the
    severe aveirah of lashon hara (a byproduct of
    sinas chinam) is what destroyed the Beis
    HaMikdash.
    Chazal (Eiruchin 15:) say that lashon hara is
    just as severe as the three cardinal sins, avodah

    zarah, giluy arayos, and shefichus damim.
    The Kli Yakar (Shemos 3:2) writes, “This is
    the primary reason for the galus, it is because
    of the hatred and jealousy among them, and in
    this regard, the Jewish nation is worse than all
    other nations. They speak lashon hara.”
    Rebbe Yissachar Dov of Belz zt’l once came
    to a city, and after davening, the community
    honored him with a l’chayim. He refused to
    drink. He explained that lashon hara was
    spoken in the beis medresh, and this results in
    the punishment of murder. He said, “When a
    Yid stabs his fellow man in a beis medresh by
    speaking lashon hara on him, this results in a
    goy stabbing a Yid.” Later they heard that a
    goy stabbed a Yid in their city (heard from the
    Rebbe of Narol zt’l).
    One Yom Kippur night, soon after the
    Holocaust, the Klausenberger Rebbe zt’l said
    the following dvar Torah: (Devarim 32:18-19)
    people forget all the kindness that Hashem
    does for them and Hashem forgives them for
    that. However, “Hashem becomes angry and
    doesn’t forgive when someone harms His
    children. “