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    DREAMS, SOCIAL MEDIA AND JEWISH LAW

    Dreams are a common
    part of daily life to which
    the Talmudic Sages
    attribute great importance.
    However, on a more
    careful look, we find
    conflicting thoughts about
    dreams in the Talmud and a
    steadily decreasing concern for them over the
    ages. As the centuries passed, life changed
    dramatically and dreams seemed to lose
    some of their importance. Does that affect
    halachhah?
    I. Responding to Dreams
    The Gemara (Shabbos 11a) says that fasting
    is effective to neutralize a bad dream like a
    fire burns kindling. If you have a bad dream,
    you may fast even on Shabbos, a day on
    which fasting is normally forbidden. Another
    option is mentioned in a different Gemara
    (Berachos 55b). If you have a bad dream that
    bothers you, you should gather three friends
    and have them interpret it positively, i.e. tell
    you that it is really a good dream. This will
    eliminate the negative impact of the dream.
    A further practice is to recite a standard
    formula (Ribbono Shel Olam) during the
    priestly blessings (Birkas Kohanim) asking
    for positive outcomes from your dreams.
    This all implies a serious concern for dreams.

    Similarly, the Gemara (Nedarim 8a) says
    that if you are excommunicated in a dream,
    you should gather ten men to undo the
    excommunication. The commentators (Ran
    and Rosh, ad loc.) say that even though this
    occurred only in a dream, we are concerned
    that you were excommunicated in Heaven.
    And yet, another passage indicates a different
    attitude. The Gemara (Sanhedrin 30a) says
    that if your father comes to you in a dream
    and says that certain money he left for you is
    forbidden for specific reasons, you can ignore
    the dream because “Matters in a dream have
    neither positive nor negative impact (divrei
    chalomos lo ma’alin ve-lo yordin).” We do
    not rely on dreams for practical matters;
    therefore you can safely ignore them. (See
    also Gittin 52a.)
    II. Are Dreams Important?
    Rav Shimon Ben Tzemach Duran (Rashbatz,
    15th cen., Algeria; Responsa Tashbetz 2:128)
    quotes Rava (Berachos 55b) who contrasts
    two verses. On the one hand, G-d says “I speak
    with him in a dream” (Num. 12:6), implying
    that there is divine truth in a dream. On the
    other hand, “the dreams speak falsely” (Zech.
    10:12). Rava answers that dreams transmitted
    by angels are true but those transmitted by
    demons are not. According to Rashbatz, the
    angel here means divine providence and the

    demon means an unhealthy imagination for
    any of a number of reasons.
    In other words, some dreams are true —
    messages from Heaven — and some are false,
    caused by psychological forces, physiological
    phenomena or otherwise. Therefore, we are
    left in doubt whether any specific dream is
    true. We do not divest someone of money for
    a doubtful claim; therefore dreams have no
    impact on monetary matters. However, when
    something is forbidden and easily remedied,
    we put in the effort to make it permissible
    when there is even a doubt. Therefore, you
    should undo an excommunication that occurs
    in a dream or fast to neutralize dream.
    In Medieval times, we start to find authorities
    questioning whether people still have bad
    dreams that emerge from a divine source.
    The Tur (15th cen., Germany/Spain; Orach
    Chaim 668) quotes R. Amram, R. Kalonymus
    and R. Eliezer Ben Yoel (Ra’aviah) who say
    that today (in their day), we do not know
    which dreams are truly bad and therefore you
    should not fast on Shabbos over a dream. Rav
    Yosef Karo (16th cen., Israel; Beis Yosef, ad
    loc.) quotes other Medieval authorities with
    similar hesitations but Rav Karo (Shulchan
    Aruch, ad loc., 5; 288:4-5) does not follow
    those authorities completely, and allows
    fasting on Shabbos for dreams listed in the
    Talmud. We find additional concerns in later
    generations.
    III. Should We Worry About Dreams?
    Rav Avraham Gombiner (17th cen., Poland;
    Magen Avraham 288:7) quotes approvingly
    Rav Yeshayahu Horowitz (17th cen.,
    Germany; Shenei Luchos Ha-Beris,
    Shabbos, s.v. ve-sa’anis chalom) who says
    that you should not fast on Shabbos for
    any dream. Rav Ovadiah Yosef (21st cen.,
    Israel; Yechaveh Da’as 4:24) quotes Rav
    Horowitz as going even further (I could
    not find this passage). Adapting a Gemara
    (Pesachim 110b), Rav Horowitz says that if
    bad dreams worry you, then you need to be
    concerned and possibly fast over them. If
    you aren’t worried about a bad dream, then
    you have no reason for concern.
    But can you control whether you are scared
    by a bad dream? We can assume that bad
    dreams are not from a divine source.
    Therefore, Rav Ovadiah Yosef (ibid.)
    concludes by quoting Rav Chaim Palaggi
    (19th cen., Turkey; Ruach Chaim 288:1) that
    if you have a bad dream on Shabbos, rather
    than fasting you should say extra Tehillim
    and study Torah diligently. Elsewhere (Beis
    Ha-Yayin, Yamim Nora’im, pp. 195-196),
    Rav Yosef says that if you are worried
    about a dream, you should just say the
    verse “the dreams speak falsely” or, if you
    are very worried, take the standard formula
    (Ribbono Shel Olam) from Birkas Kohanim
    and say it on your own on any day. And,
    if you are very worried and you are greatly
    pained, then you may follow the Gemara
    and fast on Shabbos (fulfilling all the
    halachic details).

    Going even further, Rav Avraham Yeshayahu
    Karelitz (Chazon Ish, 20th cen., Israel;
    Kovetz Iggeros Chazon Ish, vol. 2, no. 149)
    writes briefly that personally he just ignores
    his bad dreams. He continues that if you have
    a bad dream, say the Ribbono Shel Olam
    and move on with your day. We cannot just
    tell someone not to worry about their dream
    but we can redirect them to a brief verse or
    prayer.
    Rav Simcha Rabinowitz (cont., Israel;
    Piskei Teshuvos 220:1) explains Chazon
    Ish’s approach. In modern times, people
    are busier and their lives are more filled
    with global concerns than in ancient times.
    Nowadays, dreams are about what we hear
    during our busy days and the concerns we
    face in our lives. Therefore, we should not
    pay much attention to our dreams because
    they are not divine predictions about the
    future. Rather, they are manifestations of our
    thoughts, which might give insight into our
    psychological well-being but will not tell us
    what will happen in the future.
    The Chazon Ish died in 1953. At that time, there
    were daily newspapers and radio programs
    so that modern media was spreading news
    quickly. I am old enough to remember when,
    if you wanted to get the latest news, you had
    to watch the news at certain times or listen
    to the radio every twenty two minutes. And
    if you wanted to check stock prices, you had
    to read the morning newspaper. Then came
    24-hour news channels and financial news.
    Then came the internet, with breaking news
    and real-time financial information. Now
    we have social media, with constant updates
    and opinions. The pace of life today is much
    faster than it was forty years ago, and even
    more so than it was four hundred years ago.
    Modern communication brings us so much
    news and information that overwhelm our
    dreams. If you are worried that your dreams
    might come true, you can recite the specific
    verses or formulas about dreams. However,
    according to Chazon Ish and others, there is
    no need to do so.