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    GUARDING THE GATES

    This week’s parsha opens with the pasuk,
    “Shoftim v’shotrim titen lecha b’chol
    sh’arecha, Appoint judges and officers in
    all your gates.”
    (Devarim 16:18)
    The Torah is instructing the Jewish nation
    to appoint judges and officers in every
    community. To establish a righteous court
    system, thereby ensuring justice.
    The Torah uses the singlular “lecha – for
    yourself”, and not the plural “lachem –
    for yourselves”, to emphasize that each
    one of us has the responsibility to
    integrate Torah values in differentiating
    between what’s right and wrong.
    Furthermore, the Torah uses the
    expression “B’chol sh’arecha – in all
    your gates.” Both Rabbi Chaim Vital
    (1543-1620) and the Sheloh HaKodosh
    (1565-1630) teach that there is a deeper

    meaning to these words. While the literal
    translation of sh’arecha is gates, it can be
    understood to be referring to the seven
    openings, the seven gateways to the
    mind. Two eyes, two ears, two nostrils,
    and the mouth. We know that what we
    see, what we hear, and even what we
    inhale, can affect us, mind, body and
    soul.
    How careful we must be with the
    messages that enter our “gates”. Our
    eyes, seeing – the images and videos we
    watch, the newspapers, magazines and
    books we read, all have lasting influences.
    Our ears, hearing – to be careful not to
    listen to words of loshon harah, gossip or
    slander. Our mouth has a double closure
    – teeth and lips, stressing how important
    it is to be careful that our words aren’t the
    cause of pain, embarrassment or
    aggravation to others. As Shlomo
    HaMelech wrote, “Movess v’chayim
    b’yad haloshon – Death and life are in the

    hand of the tongue.” (Mishlei
    18:21). The stakes are high.
    Words can either make or
    break a person. Our tongues
    can build others up, or they
    can tear them down.
    “And it shall be when he sits
    on the throne of his kingdom,
    he should write ‘Mishneh
    Torah, a copy of the Torah’ “.
    (Devarim 17:18) Rashi quotes
    the Gemora (Sanhedrin 21b)
    that the king, in fact, maintained two
    Sifrei Torah. One was to be kept in the
    king’s “Beis Genizo, his private treasure
    collection, and another was to be with the
    king “shenichnas v’yotzei, on his comings
    and goings”, to accompany him on all his
    missions. As the Torah states, “It shall be
    with him, and he shall read it all the days
    of his life” (Devarim 17:19).
    Just imagine the kings of Am Yisroel,
    great and learned individuals, well versed
    in all areas of the Torah, yet the Torah
    instructs that even they must have a
    personal Sefer Torah with them at all
    times, to be a constant reminder of their
    connection to HaShem. A reminder that
    they are part of HaShem’s holy nation
    and have an obligation to live a life of
    kedusha, holiness. Even the king needs
    the Torah to be at his side as a protection
    from the many negative influences and
    values that he may encounter.
    If the kings must have a Torah at their
    side at all times, how much more so
    does the typical man. If it was necessary
    in ancient times, how much more so do
    we need the words of Torah to
    accompany us on all of our comings
    and goings in the modern world.
    My parents created a home that was
    filled with Torah ideals. A home like the
    geniza of the king that had Torah
    within. The walls were lined with
    bookcases, containing sifrei kedusha,
    books whose contents were teachings
    of our rabbis and sages. The living
    room, dining room, and family room
    were all filled with bookshelves. There
    was one wall where my mother hung
    paintings of all the zeides, our ancestors
    going back many generations, all with a

    hadras panim, a saintly countenance. The
    message my parents wanted to impart to
    us was clear: Torah values and the
    constant influence of our holy ancestors
    were always to be right before us.
    I remember inviting a friend over for
    Shabbos. Friday night as we sat in the
    living room, she was very quiet. When I
    asked her why, she responded that she
    was looking at the portraits of the zeides
    on the wall. She felt their presence, she
    sensed their holiness, and as a result was
    being extra careful with her words.
    I grew up in a very secular community, an
    area my parents chose to settle in to bring
    Torah to the unaffiliated. At the same
    time, our parents imbued us with a Torah
    life. They gave us a strong foundation
    that served us well. I grew up knowing
    that I was the Rabbi’s and Rebbetzin’s
    daughter, with an obligation to be a role
    model for others, having Torah values at
    my side with all my “comings and
    goings”.
    It’s never too late to create a Torah home.
    To have our own geniza, treasure trove.
    Boruch HaShem, we live in a world
    where a plethora of so many books of
    Torah content and teachings are so readily
    available. Armed with Torah at our side,
    the task of being our own personal judge
    is made so much easier.
    We are now beginning Chodesh Elul.
    May we all have the inner strength to be
    our own “shoftim v’shotrim”, our
    personal gatekeepers, and in that merit
    may the coming year be one of much
    mazel, gezunt, berachah, and hatzlachah,
    for each of us, our familes and for all of
    Am Yisroel.