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    HANUKAH – STRIVING FOR MORE

    The Misva of lighting
    the Hanukah candles
    features an unusual
    component, one
    which is unique to
    this specific Misva.
    Namely, the Rabbis instituted three different
    standards of observing the Misva. The Gemara
    in Masechet Shabbat (21b) teaches that the
    basic, minimum obligation of Chanukah
    candles requires lighting just a single candle
    in each home on each of the eight nights of
    Chanukah. The higher level of observance
    – “Mehadrin” – is lighting a candle for each
    member of the household. The third and
    highest level – “Mehadrin Min Ha’mehadrin”
    – is lighting an additional candle each night,
    until we light eight candles on the eighth
    night.
    Of course, as everybody knows, the universally
    accepted practice is to adhere to the standard
    of “Mehadrin Min Ha’mehadrin,” and light an
    additional candle on each night of Chanukah.
    What might the reason for this unique feature
    of the Chanukah candle lighting? And what
    does this teach us about the celebration of this
    holiday?
    The answer might stem from a different
    question which many commentators raised,
    concerning the miracle of the pure flask of oil.
    As the Gemara relates, after the Hashmonaim

    drove the Greeks from Jerusalem, they set
    out to cleanse the Bet Ha’mikdash, which the
    Greeks had defiled, and consecrate it anew.
    When they sought to kindle the Menorah,
    they found only one flask of pure oil, and
    it miraculously burned for eight nights,
    until fresh, pure oil could be produced and
    delivered. The commentators noted the
    exceptional Halacha known as “Tum’a Hutra
    Be’sibur,” which allows Halachic impurity in
    the service of the Bet Ha’mikdash when the
    majority of the nation is Tameh (impure).
    Although generally Tum’a (impurity) is
    not permitted in the Bet Ha’mikdash, this
    restriction is suspended in a situation of
    widespread Tum’a. Seemingly, then, it was
    permissible for the Hashmonaim to kindle
    the Menorah with impure oil under the
    extenuating circumstances, as the Greeks had
    defiled all the oil.
    One answer given to this question is that
    the Hashmonaim, as they set out to renew
    religious life in Eretz Yisrael following their
    victory over the Greeks, did not want to rely
    on any leniencies or shortcuts. They wanted to
    adhere to the highest standards, to perform the
    Misvot in the most complete way, rather than
    just satisfy the minimum requirement.
    This might be why, when the Sages later
    enacted the Misva of candle lighting to
    commemorate this miracle, they established

    different gradations. Their intention was for
    us to extend beyond the minimum obligation,
    and reach for the level of “Mehadrin Min
    Ha’mehadrin,” the highest standards of Misva
    observance. This is one of the important
    lessons of the Chanukah story – not to be
    content with fulfilling our basic obligations,
    and to instead extend ourselves, to reach for
    the stars, to achieve all that we’re capable of
    achieving. Just as the Hashmonaim were not
    content with the minimum standard, and went
    the extra mile to perform the Misva in the
    best way possible, so must we strive to serve
    Hashem to the best of our ability.
    I recall the time when a fellow who built a
    new home in Deal invited me to help with the
    mezuzot. We approached the front door, and
    when I placed my hand on the doorknob, I felt
    that it was special. I asked the man about it.
    “Yeah, it cost me $400. And I have a few
    dozen of them in the house – 400 bucks each!”
    I later told him that I know where he could
    purchase beautiful, high-quality mezuzot for
    around $100 apiece. He looked at me and said
    that he thought this sounded very expensive.
    “Aren’t their simpler ones for $25?” he asked.
    For the doorknobs – doorknobs!! – he settled
    on nothing but the very best, at $400 per knob.
    But when it came to the mezuzot, he asked for
    the cheapest ones he could find…

    Chanukah teaches us to take the precise
    opposite approach – to make Misvot our
    highest priority, to strive for the best in our
    performance of Misvot, to be willing to
    compromise our standards in other areas of
    life, but never in the area of the service of
    Hashem.
    When we pray to Hashem for the things we
    need and want, we tend to ask for only the best.
    When we pray for a livelihood, we pray for
    more than the ability to pay our electric bill;
    we pray for a comfortable income. When we
    pray for Shidduchim for our children, we pray
    that they find outstanding people to marry. We
    ask for the best. We become worthy of having
    these prayers answered when we do the same
    for Hashem – giving him the very best of what
    we have to offer. If we constantly strive for the
    level of “Mehadrin Min Ha’mehadrin,” for the
    highest standards of Misva observance, then
    we are deserving of the highest “standards” of
    Hashem’s blessings, of receiving all that we
    wish for.