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    KI SAVO: BENDING YOUR HEART

    Shulchan Aruch
    teaches that ideally, a
    shofar should come
    from a ram, and it
    should be bent.
    The Mishnah Berurah
    explains that the shofar
    should be from a ram to
    arouse Heaven’s
    memory of akeidas
    Yitzchak, and it should
    be bent to remind the
    community that they
    should bend their hearts
    before Hashem.
    The Mishnah Berurah writes that it is more
    important that the shofar be bent. Therefore,
    if a person has only two shofars, one from a
    ram but is straight, and the other is a bent
    shofar from another animal, he should take
    the bent shofar.
    The Mishnah Berurah writes, “The
    chachamim established that the shofar
    should be bent, as a reminder to bend our
    hearts to Hashem when we pray. However,
    no halachah requires that the shofar be from
    a ram. This is a custom that all Yidden
    practice for generations, because it arouses
    the memory of akeidas Yitzchak, and it is a
    hidur mitzvah, a more beautiful mitzvah [but

    it isn’t an obligation].”
    So, a bent shofar is more important than a
    shofar from a ram.
    When learning mussar we can derive from
    this that when one bends himself to do
    Hashem’s will, it is a more significant
    accomplishment for him than the
    remembrance of the avos. A shofar from a
    ram arouses the merits of the avos, but a bent
    shofar, represents when one bends himself to
    do Hashem’s will. That is a greater merit.
    To understand this better, consider the
    following example:
    Sometimes, in Eretz Yisrael, you will get a
    ride in a taxi with a secular Jew who is proud
    of his religious ancestors. “Did you know
    that my grandfather was a rabbi? And on my
    mother’s side, we are descendants from Reb
    Akiva Eiger…”
    The passenger taking the ride might reply,
    “If you would place a yarmulka on your
    head, it would be your greater accomplishment
    than all the grandfathers that you have.” This
    is the lesson we are discussing. We want the
    merits of our forefathers. It means so much to
    us. That is why we ideally choose a shofar
    from a ram, so the merits of Avraham and
    Yitzchak at akeidas Yitzchak will be
    remembered in heaven, which will help us be

    blessed with a good year. But an even
    greater accomplishment is to have a bent
    shofar, to bend your heart and your will
    to do Hashem’s commandments.

    The Chofetz Chaim zt’l sent his son-in-
    law, Reb Hershel Levinson zt’l, to Reb

    Chaim Brisker zt’l, to ask him whom he
    should appoint to be the rosh yeshiva in
    Radin. Reb Chaim Brisker advised that
    they appoint Reb Moshe Ladinsky zt’l
    because he knew the entire Torah in
    depth.
    Reb Moshe Ladinsky was the rosh
    yeshiva for about twenty years, and the
    students loved him. However, the spirit of the
    day changed, and the popular style of study
    became what is known as “the Brisker derech
    halimud.” This new and ingenious approach
    to Torah study was sweeping the yeshiva
    world, it was the talk of the time, and the
    students of the Radin yeshiva didn’t want to
    be left out. The Chofetz Chaim therefore
    invited Reb Naftali Trop zt’l to be among the
    rosh yeshivos in Radin. Reb Naftali was an
    expert in this new approach to study, and
    inevitably, he became the primary rosh
    yeshiva. Reb Moshe Ladinsky lost his
    prestige.
    The Chofetz Chaim spoke to Reb Moshe
    Ladinsky and explained that he had no

    choice. The bachurim wanted the Brisker
    derech, and if he didn’t hire Reb Naftali
    Trop, the bachurim would leave the yeshiva.
    Reb Moshe Ladinsky replied, “If it is better
    for the students, then by all means, you did
    the right thing!”
    The Chofetz Chaim was overwhelmed by
    Reb Moshe’s answer. After so many years of
    devotion to the yeshiva, he didn’t take it as an
    insult that someone took his place.
    The Chofetz Chaim told him, “The merit of
    your vitur will protect you. You will live
    longer than me and Reb Naftali Trop.” The
    merit of his vatranus granted him a long life.
    This is an example of “bending one’s heart,”
    to be mevater for another, to let others have
    their way. This is the greatest merit of all.