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    KI SAVO: KABALAH TOVAH

    A poor couple received
    a letter from the king.
    The letter informed
    them that the king
    would visit their home
    in thirty days.
    The couple was very
    excited and honored and
    had to prepare. The baal
    habayis told his wife,
    “The walls of our home
    haven’t been painted
    in years, and all of our
    windows are broken.
    The legs of the chairs
    are of different height,
    and when someone sits down, he falls off. We
    know how to balance ourselves on the chairs
    because we are used to them, but we can’t have
    the king sit on one of our chairs lest he fall off.
    Tomorrow, I will call handymen to fix up our
    entire house.”
    The wife replied, “For the past thirty years, I
    have been telling you that we have to fix up the
    house, but you kept saying that we can’t afford
    it. If you go ahead now, it will involve taking
    out a loan and then paying it back over the next
    thirty years. The king knows we are poor. He
    isn’t expecting to arrive at a mansion. He will
    accept whatever we can do.”
    Her husband answered, “The king told us
    weeks in advance that he’s coming to us. He
    didn’t tell us at the last minute. That means the

    king wants us to prepare for his visit.”
    The wife replied, “There are less expensive
    ways to prepare for the king’s visit. Instead of
    painting the walls, we can hang white sheets on
    them. For the broken windows, we will place
    towels in them to keep the cold out.”
    The husband said, “I agree with your plan, but
    there is one thing we have to fix: the chairs.
    There is no way we can have the king sit on one
    of our broken chairs.”
    The baalei mussar give this mashal to explain
    the essence of Elul. Hashem will visit us on
    Rosh Hashanah, and we must prepare ourselves.
    We won’t be able to fix everything, but we must
    do what we can. Therefore, we should take on a
    kabbalah tovah, which will be one step toward
    improving ourselves.
    Two people did a great favor for the king.
    The king awarded them by granting them the

    privilege of going into his treasury for a half-
    hour and taking out whatever they wanted.

    The date arrived, and when the designated hour
    neared, they arrived in front of the treasury,
    each holding a sack. The treasury minister met
    them and said, “When I give the signal, you can
    go inside. You have a half-hour. Whatever you
    take out is yours!”
    When the minister gave the signal, they rushed
    towards the treasury entrance. They had never
    been there before, and they didn’t know about
    the narrow hallway which they had to pass
    to get to the treasury. As they rushed through
    this narrow path, their sacks tore on the walls.

    “What should we do now?” they wondered.
    They only had a half-hour; time was ticking,
    and they didn’t have sacks to carry the material.
    One of them sat in the hallway and began
    sewing up his sack. He deeded a usable sack
    before he went inside.
    The other person ran into the treasury and
    immediately began filling his torn bag with
    the precious gems and items he found in the
    treasury. “There is no time to fix the bag,” he
    said.
    The other man came in with only five minutes
    left and quickly threw precious items into his
    mended sack.
    Five minutes later, the treasurer came in
    and said, “Time is up. You have to leave the
    treasury.”
    The one with the mended bag had some
    treasures in it. But the other one, the person
    who didn’t wait to mend his bag, didn’t fare as
    well. When he lifted his bag (which was now
    heavy from all the items he had collected), the
    bag tore even more, and all the precious items
    fell to the ground. He was left without anything
    at all.
    The nimshal of this tale comes to teach the
    importance of making kabalos tovos. The holy,
    special days of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur,
    Succos, and Simchas Torah are approaching.
    These are like Hashem’s treasury; we can take
    out treasures from these days for the rest of
    the year. But we accomplish this with kabalos
    tovos. The kabbalah tovah is like sewing up the

    bag and tying things up so we don’t lose what
    we gain. Some say, “There is too much to do
    during these days, many mitzvos to perform.
    A small kabbalah doesn’t mean much to me. I
    don’t have time for it.” But at the end of the
    yomim tovim period, they discover they have
    nothing tangible. In contrast, those who make
    a kabbalah tovah have something they can take
    with them.
    People think they can’t change and feel this way
    because they have the “everything or nothing”
    approach. They don’t appreciate the value of a
    small step of improvement and how much we
    can gain from a kabbalah tovah.
    It can be compared to the one step that gets a
    person into an elevator. It’s a small step, but it’s
    what will raise him to great heights. Without
    that one small step, he will remain below.
    Tzaddikim advised taking on a kabbalah tovah
    before the new year arrives. They called it
    a new garment for the new year. One good
    deed leads to the next one. It is a step towards
    improvement. Try it and become amazed at
    how much growth a person can attain with a
    small kabbalah tovah.