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    LAG BAOMER: THE DAY OF BITAHON

    Lag Ba’omer is
    observed as the
    “Hilula” of Rabbi
    Shimon Bar Yohai,
    following the view that
    this marks the day of
    his passing. Already the Arizal (Rav Yishak
    Luria, 1534-1572) noted the custom to visit
    Rabbi Shimon’s grave on Mount Meron in
    northern Israel on this day.
    The concept underlying the observance of a
    “Hilula” is that we draw from the Kedusha of
    the Sadik. A “Hilula” offers us the precious
    opportunity to receive at least some of
    the spiritual greatness of the giant whose
    memory and whose soul we seek to connect
    to and bond with. On Lag Ba’omer, we try
    to connect to Rabbi Shimon Bar Yohai in
    order to absorb some element of his unique,
    outstanding qualities. It behooves us, then,
    to learn some of what Rabbi Shimon stands
    for, the particular Middot that he embodied,
    so we can gain inspiration and develop these
    qualities within ourselves.
    The Gemara in Masechet Berachot (35b)
    famously brings Rabbi Shimon’s view that
    one should devote himself entirely to Torah
    learning and rely on G-d to provide his
    needs. This is in contrast to the opinion of
    Rabbi Yishmael, that the proper approach is
    “Hanheg Bahem Middat Derech Eretz” – to

    live normally, to work for a living, while of
    course setting aside significant amounts of
    time for Torah study. The Gemara concludes
    its discussion by noting, “Many acted in
    accordance with Rabbi Shimon Bar Yohai,
    and did not succeed.” Meaning, for the
    vast majority of people, Rabbi Shimon’s
    approach is not appropriate; devoting oneself
    exclusively to Torah, without pursuing a
    livelihood, requires an exalted level of Bitahon
    – trust in Hashem – that most people never
    achieve. Rabbi Shimon’s view is not rejected,
    but rather applicable only to the spiritual elite,
    to those select individuals with wholehearted,
    genuine faith in Hashem’s ability to provide.
    It was this quality of Rabbi Shimon that
    enabled him to live with his son for thirteen
    years in a cave, without any food or water.
    As the Gemara famously tells (Shabbat
    33b), Rabbi Shimon fled from the Roman
    authorities with his son, and they hid inside a
    cave, where they were miraculously sustained
    by a carob tree and brook of water. This was
    Rabbi Shimon’s outstanding quality – absolute
    faith in Hashem’s ability to provide, the keen
    awareness that our sustenance depends solely
    on G-d, and not on our hard work and efforts.
    Accordingly, Lag Ba’omer is an occasion
    for us to draw from Rabbi Shimon’s lofty
    levels of Bitahon. Of course, as mentioned,
    Rabbi Shimon’s practical prescription for

    life is not suitable for the vast majority of us.
    Nevertheless, we can – and must – strive to
    heighten our trust in Hashem, our firm belief
    that Hashem provides us with our needs,
    irrespective of the work we invest. Although
    we are to meet our obligation of Hishtadlut by
    working for a living, we must recognize that
    the outcome depends solely on G-d, and that
    He is always caring for us.
    Fascinatingly enough, this aspect of Lag
    Ba’omer actually predates Rabbi Shimon, by
    many generations.
    The Hatam Sofer (Rav Moshe Sofer of
    Pressburg, 1762-1839) writes that it was on
    Lag Ba’omer when the manna fell for the very
    first time. Beneh Yisrael left Egypt on the 15th
    of Nissan, the first day of Pesach, bringing
    with them a month’s worth of food provisions.
    These provisions were depleted in the middle
    of the next month, Iyar, and several days later,
    on the 18th of Iyar – Lag Ba’omer – G-d
    responded to the people’s cries by providing
    them with manna. Quite appropriately,
    then, Lag Ba’omer is also the day when we
    remember, honor, and connect with the figure
    of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yohai, the bastion of
    Bitahon, who lived with a keen awareness of
    how all our food is “manna,” that it is Hashem
    who gives us everything we need.
    So much of the anxiety and stress that
    people live with can be alleviated through

    Bitahon, by firmly believing in Hashem’s
    infinite capabilities to provide us, and in His
    boundless love for us. People worry and fret
    over their finances because they wrongly
    assume that they know what needs to happen
    for their Parnasa to arrive. They think that their
    Parnasa depends on this job, on that client,
    that customer, that deal, or that promotion.
    Once we realize that everything we have is
    manna, coming to us directly from Hashem,
    we would no longer worry about any of this.
    Certainly, we must live responsibly and do
    our Hishtadlut as required. But once we do,
    we can put all our worries and concerns to
    rest, because Hashem is caring for us, often in
    ways that we never imagined and could never
    have imagined. His abilities are unlimited, so
    we never have any reason to worry.
    Let us take advantage of Lag Ba’omer, this
    special day of Bitahon, to draw from the great
    faith of Rabbi Shimon, so we can live with
    the peace of mind and serenity that we desire.