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    Let There Be Life! The Rebbe’s Advice For The Boy Who Smoked On Shabbos


    Rabbi Sam Wolfson was giving his speech to the Jewish federation about the “Tragedy of Jewish assimilation.”

    Toward the end of his long speech the Rabbi clapped his hands…

    waited 10 seconds… and clapped his hands again.

    The Audience looked puzzled. The Rabbi then explained that every time he clapped his hands some Jew married a non-Jew.

    Immediately Morris jumped up from his seat in the audience and shouted, “Nu… So Stop With Your Clapping!”


    It is a baffling story. The portion of Korach tells of the “Test of the Staffs” conducted when people contested Aaron’s appointment to the High Priesthood. G‑d instructed Moses to take a staff from each tribe, each inscribed with the name of the tribe’s leader; Aaron’s name was written on the Levite Tribe’s staff. The staffs were placed overnight in the Holy of Holies in the Sanctuary. When they were removed the following morning, the entire nation beheld that Aaron’s staff had blossomed overnight and bore fruit, demonstrating that Aaron was G‑d’s choice for High Priest.

    In the words of the Torah (Numbers 16): “And on the following day Moses came to the Tent of Testimony, and behold, Aaron’s staff for the house of Levi had blossomed! It gave forth blossoms, sprouted buds, and produced ripe almonds. Moses took out all the staffs from before the Lord, to the children of Israel; they saw and they took, each man his staff.”

    What was the meaning of this strange miracle? G-d could have chosen many ways to demonstrate the authenticity of Aaron’s position. In fact, three previous incidents have already proven this very truth: the swallowing of Korach and his fellow rebels who staged a revolt against Moses and Aaron; the burning of the 250 leaders who led the mutiny; and the epidemic that spread among those who accused Moses and Aaron of killing the nation. What was the point and message of the blossoming stick?

    One answer I heard from my teacher was this: The blossoming of the staff was meant not so much to prove who the high priest is (that was already established by three previous earth-shattering events), but rather to demonstrate what it takes to be chosen as a high priest of G-d, and to explain why it was Aaron was chosen to this position. What are the qualifications required by a spiritual leader of the Jewish people?


    Before being severed from the tree, this staff grew, produced leaves, and was full of vitality. But now, severed from its roots, it has become dry and lifeless.

    The primary quality of a Kohen Gadol, of a high Priest, of a man of G-d, is his or her ability to transform lifeless sticks into orchards.

    The real leader is the person who sees the possibility for growth and life where others see only stagnation and lifelessness. The Jewish high priest perceives even in a dead stick the potential for rejuvenation.


    How relevant this story is to our generation.

    Following the greatest tragedy ever to have struck our people, the Holocaust, the Jewish world appeared like a lifeless staff. Mounds and mounds of ashes, the only remains of the six million, left a nation devastated to its core. An entire world went up in smoke.

    What happened next will one day be told as one of the great acts of reconstruction in the history of mankind. Holocaust survivors and refugees set about rebuilding on new soil the world they had seen go up in the smoke of Auschwitz and Treblinka. One of the remarkable individuals who spearheaded this revival was the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson (1902-1994), whose 24th yartzeit is this Shabbos, the third of Tamuz, June 16th. The Rebbe, together with other great Jewish sages and leaders, refused to yield to despair.

    While others responded to the Holocaust by building memorials, endowing lectureships, convening conferences and writing books – all vital and noble tributes to create memories of a tree which once lived but was now dead — the Rebbe urged every person he could touch to bring the stick back to life: to marry and have lots of children, and to rebuild Jewish life in every possible way. He built schools, communities, and yeshivas, and encouraged and inspired countless Jews to do the same. He opened his hearts to an orphaned generation, imbuing it with hope, vision and determination. He became the most well-known address for scores of activists, rabbis, philanthropists, leaders, influential people, and lay men and women from all walks of life – giving them the courage and confidence to reconstruct a shattered universe. He sent out emissaries to virtually every Jewish community in the world to help rekindle the Jewish smile a titanic river of tears threatened to obliterate it.

    The Lubavitcher Rebbe urged his beloved people to use the horrors of destruction as an impetus to generate the greatest Jewish renaissance and to create “re-Jew-venation.” He gazed at as dead staff and saw in it the potential for new life.

    His new home, the United States, was a country that until then had dissolved Jewish identity. It was, as they used to say in those days, a “treifener medinah,” a non-kosher land. Yet the Rebbe saw the possibility of using American culture as a medium for new forms of Jewish activity, using modern means to convey Yiddishkeit. The Rebbe realized that the secularity of the modern world concealed a deep yearning for spirituality, and he knew how to address it. Where others saw the crisis of a dead staff, he saw opportunity for a new wave of renewal and redemption.


    Rabbi Yehudah Krinsky, one of the Rebbe’s secretaries, related the following episode.

    “It was around 1973, when the widow of Jacques Lifschitz, the renowned sculptor, had come for a private audience with the Lubavitcher Rebbe, shortly after her husband’s sudden passing.

    “In the course of her meeting with the Rebbe, she mentioned that when her husband died, he was nearing completion of a massive sculpture of a phoenix in abstract, a work commissioned by Hadassah Women’s Organization for the Hadassah Hospital on Mt. Scopus, in Jerusalem.

    “As an artist and sculptor in her own right, she said that she would have liked to complete her husband’s work, but, she told the Rebbe, she had been advised by Jewish leaders that the phoenix is a non-Jewish symbol. It could never be placed in Jerusalem!

    “I was standing near the door to the Rebbe’s office that night, when he called for me and asked that I bring him the book of Job, from his bookshelf, which I did.

    “The Rebbe turned to Chapter 29, verse 18, “I shall multiply my days like the Chol.”

    “And then the Rebbe proceeded to explain to Mrs. Lifschitz the Midrashic commentary on this verse which describes the Chol as a bird that lives for a thousand years, then dies, and is later resurrected from its ashes. Clearly then, a Jewish symbol.

    “Mrs. Lifschitz was absolutely delighted. The project was completed soon thereafter.

    In his own way, the Rebbe had brought new hope to this broken widow.

    And in the recurring theme of his life, he did the same for the spirit of the Jewish people, which he raised from the ashes of the Holocaust to new, invigorated life. He attempted to reenact the “miracle of the blossoming staff” every day of his life with every person he came in contact with.

    To Expel or Not to Expel?

    I want to share with you a story about the Rebbe.

    Rabbi Berel Baumgarten (d. in 1978) was a Jewish educator in an orthodox religious yeshiva in Brooklyn, NY, prior to relocating to Buenos Aires. He once wrote a letter to the Rebbe asking for advice.

    Each Shabbos afternoon, when he would meet up with his students for a study-session, one student would walk in to the room smelling from cigarette smoke. Clearly, he was smoking on the Shabbos. “His influence may cause his religious class-mates to also cease keeping the Shabbos,” Rabbi Baumgarten was concerned. “Must I expel him from the school, even with the lack of clear evidence that he is violating the Shabbos?”

    The Rebbe’s answer was no more than a scholarly reference: “See Avos Derabi Noson chapter 12.” That’s it.

    Let me explain. Avos Derabi Noson is a Talmudic tractate, an addendum to the Ethics of the Fathers, composed in the 4th century CE by a Talmudic sage known as Reb Nasan Habavli (hence the name Avos Derabi Noson.) I was curious to understand the Rebbe’s response. Rabbi Baumgarten was looking for practical advice, and the Rebbe is sending him to an ancient text…

    I opened an Avos Derabi Noson to that particular chapter. I found a story told there about Aaron, our very own High Priest of Israel.

    Aaron, the sages relate, brought back many Jews from a life of sin to a life of purity. He was the first one in Jewish history to make “baalei teshuvah,” to inspire Jews to re-embrace their heritage, faith and inner spiritual mission. But, unlike today, during Aaron’s times to be a sinner you had to be a real no-goodnik. Because the Jews of his generation have seen G-d in His full glory; and to rebel against the Torah way of life was a sign of true betrayal and carelessness.

    How then did Aaron do it? He would greet each person warmly. Even a grand sinner would be greeted by Aaron with tremendous grace and love.

    Aaron would embrace these so-called “Jewish sinners” with endless warmth and respect. The following day when this person would crave to sin, he would say to himself: How will I be able to look Aaron in the eyes after I commit such a serious sin? I am too ashamed. He holds me in such high moral esteem, how can I deceive him and let him down? And this person would abstain from immoral behavior.


    We come here full circle: Aaron was a leader, a High Priest, because even his staff blossomed. He never gave up on the dried-out sticks. He never looked at someone and said, “This person is a lost cause, he is completely cut off from his tree, of any possibility of growth. He is dry, brittle, and lifeless.” For Aaron, even dry sticks would blossom and produce fruit.

    This is the story related in Avos Derabi Noson. This was the story the Lubavitcher Rebbe wanted Rabbi Berel Baumgarten to study and internalize. Should I expel the child from school was his question; he is, Jewishly speaking, a dried out, one tough stick!

    The response of an Aaron is this: Love him to pieces. Embrace him with every fiber of your being, open your heart to him, cherish him and shower him with warmth and affection. Appreciate him, respect him and let him feel that you really care for him. See in him or her that which he or she may not be able to see in themselves at the moment.

    View him as a great human being, and you know what? He will become just that.

    This, again, is the sign of the true leader: Where others might have seen a spiritually arid staff, a Rebbe saw the potential or the creation of the most beautiful and inspiring garden.

    If only every educator, parent, rabbi, teacher and leader could emulate his example, until the day when our entire world’s true potential will blossom and emerge in its full glory.

    *) The nucleus of this idea was presented by the Lubavitcher Rebbe to a group of young Jewish girls—the graduates of Beis Rivkah High School and counselors of Camp Emunah in the Catskill Mountains, in NY, on Parshas Korach 1983.