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    MIDDAH K’NEGED MIDDAH – PART ONE

    As we learn the parsh-
    ios regarding the pun-
    ishment of the Egyp-
    tians, a central theme

    that runs through them

    is the attribute of treat-
    ing people middah

    k’neged middah, measure for measure.
    As the Gemara teaches us in Masechtas

    Sanhedrin, “B’midah she’adam mo-
    deid, mod’din lo – The way a person

    acts, that’s the way he is treated.” It
    is the meaning of the verse in Tehillim,
    “Hashem tzilcha al yad yeminecha –
    Hashem is a shadow over your right
    hand.” Just like shadows mimic to
    perfection a person’s actions, so too
    whatever we do boomerangs back at
    us, whether for the bad or for the good.

    In the opening words of a famous Mish-
    na in Pirkei Avos, it says, “Da mah le-
    malah mim’cha – Know what is Above

    you.” The Baal Shem Tov, zt”l, zy”a,
    interprets this to mean, “Know what’s
    in store for you from Above: mim’cha,”

    by looking at yourself. Meaning,
    the way you behave, that’s the way
    you’ll be treated. He backs this up
    with a flourish showing that the word
    mim’cha, spelled mem, mem, chaf, is an
    acronym for middah k’neged middah.
    The Rambam says that when studying
    the makkos on the night of our Passover
    sedar, we should point out to our family
    the incredible middah k’neged middah
    in each of the ten plagues. This is very
    important since there are those cynics
    who want to explain away the makkos

    as ‘natural’ phenomena (cf. the Read-
    er’s Digest about the splitting of the

    Red Sea). The realization of the con-
    stant existence of measure for measure

    precludes any element of chance. This
    point was made by the wise Yisro when
    he explained, “Atah yodati ki Hashem

    Hu Elokim, ki badavar asher zadu alei-
    hem – Now I know that Hashem is the

    true G-d because what the Egyptians
    plotted against the Jews befell them.”
    So, let’s turn to the first plague of dam,

    blood. The Medrash Tanchuma reveals
    to us that Paroh, in his desperate attempt

    to stem the alarming population explo-
    sion of the Jews, (they were all having

    sextuplets), forbade the use of mikvaos,
    banning the women from immersing in
    a mikvah after their menstrual cycle.
    As a result, they would be forbidden to
    procreate with their husbands. Thus,
    measure for measure, Hashem turned
    the waters of the Nile into blood.
    An even more simple understanding of
    the middah k’neged middah was that
    Paroh murderously commanded, “Kol
    haben ha’yilod hay’orah tashlichuah –
    Every boy that is born is to be cast into
    the Nile.” Thus, the Nile was full of
    Jewish blood and therefore, measure for
    measure, Hashem turned it into blood.
    The Pe’er Aharon, zt”l, zy”a, who was

    murdered by the Nazis (Hashem yin-
    kom domo, Hashem should avenge his

    blood), says a further middah k’neged
    middah. If we remember our history,
    when Paroh was suffering from leprosy,
    he killed 150 babies in the morning and
    150 babies in the evening in order to
    bathe in their blood as a dermatological
    solution for his malady. Thus, because
    he murderously used their blood for his

    bathwater, Hashem turned the bathwa-
    ter of all of Egypt into blood.

    There’s another side to the plague of
    blood. The Medrash says that when
    Hashem does battle with the people,

    he punishes their god first. The Egyp-
    tians worshiped the Nile because it

    irrigated their land. Therefore, Hash-
    em punished the Nile-god by turning

    it into blood. This insight explains a
    fascinating Ritva, zt”l, zy”a, on the
    Haggadah shel Pesach. The Haggadah
    teaches, “Uv’mofsim, zeh hadam – And
    with wonders, this refers to the blood.”
    And then it quotes a posuk from Yael,
    “Dam, v’eish, v’simros ashan – Blood,

    fire, and pillars of smoke.” The Rit-
    va says that Haggadah wondered why

    it said mofsim, wonders, in the plural
    if it only refers to blood. He answers
    that during the plague of blood, the
    blood was fiery hot, and caused smoke
    to rise throughout the land. Thus, the
    meaning of the verse quoted, “Dam,
    v’eish v’simros ashan,” fits in well with

    Hashem punishing the Nile-god, so to
    speak, by burning it. As we sing in

    Dayeinu, “V’asah veiloheihem – Hash-
    em wrecked vengeance against their

    deities.”
    As we familiarize ourselves with the
    concept of middah k’neged middah, it
    should be an incentive for us to adopt

    certain behaviors and cultivate import-
    ant inhibitions to avoid other behaviors.

    If we want warmth, we should be warm
    with people. If we want quality time
    from others, we should be careful to
    give time to those who we care about.
    If we want to be treated with patience,
    we should act patiently with all of our
    associates. If we would like to be dealt
    with sensitively, we need to sharpen
    our sensitivity to those around us.
    On the other hand, if we don’t like to
    be screamed at, we should make sure
    not to scream at anybody. If we dislike
    being spoken to condescendingly or
    with satire, we should purge our speech
    of such behavior. If we don’t want to

    be ignored, we should strive mighti-
    ly not to ignore others. The more we

    learn about middah k’neged middah,
    the more it will impress upon us that
    this is what really happens to us in our
    journey through life.

    In the merit of molding our behav-
    ior with the consideration of middah

    k’neged middah, may Hashem bless us

    with long life, good health, and every-
    thing wonderful. (To be continued.)

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    Transcribed and edited by Shelley
    Zeitlin.