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    MODERN DAY CENTRISM

    In the order of the

    mishnayos, Maseches

    Sotah follows

    Masaeches Nazir. The

    Talmud explains that

    this is based on the

    pesukim in parshas

    Naso, where the parshiyos of nazir and

    sotah are next to each other. The

    reason for the juxtaposition is

    explained by the Talmud as follows:

    normally the Torah does not want us

    to be extreme. The middos are referred

    to as such because each must be

    implemented with the proper measure

    (the Hebrew word “middah” means a

    measure). One who accepts upon

    himself to become a nazir, i.e. to

    become, in a certain sense, an ascetic,

    and to totally abstain from wine, is

    considered a sinner. However, once in

    while we consider a nazir to be a

    kadosh – a holy person. One who lives

    in a generation (like ours) where there

    is much corruption and pritzus, and

    one who witnesses a sotah, must be

    concerned that he too may follow the

    path of the corrupt society. Under such

    circumstances the Torah recommends

    that we take extreme measures to

    offset the improper influence of

    society. The Rambam is famous for his

    presentation of this idea in Hilchos

    De’os. One of the modern Jewish

    thinkers has attacked the Rambam for

    having picked up this concept from the

    Greek philosophers and presenting it

    in Mishna Torah, as if it had a source in

    Talmudic literature. But the truth is

    that it is rooted in the rabbinic

    comment regarding the juxtaposition

    of the two parshiyos of nazir and sotah.

    We live in a generation of instant

    communication. Everyone around the

    world is notified immediately about all

    the ganovim and all the sotos

    anywhere in the world. We do not just

    see one sotah, rather we are made

    aware of many sotos. Although under

    normal conditions it would not be

    healthy to follow an extreme path in

    life, in our circumstances extreme

    measures are recommended. This

    recommendation is true not only in the

    area of bein adam laMakom, but also

    in the area of bein adam lachaveiro.

    We are surrounded with many who

    cheat in business, cheat on income tax,

    sales tax, etc. We should be careful not

    only to be honest and follow the law,

    but even bend over backwards to

    make sure that we don’t follow these

    extremely improper practices of our

    society. The Talmud describes

    kosher fish as having a backbone,

    and having the ability to swim

    upstream, i.e. against the current.

    Jews must always develop such a

    backbone and see to it that they swim

    against the current. The Rambam

    interprets the mishna in Pirkei Avos

    as recommending yet another

    exception to “the golden rule.” The

    Tanna Rabbi Levitas of Yavne used

    to say, that one should always be

    “very very” humble. The Rambam

    interprets the repetition of the term

    “very” to imply that one ought not to

    follow the golden mean with respect

    to arrogance and humility, but

    should rather go to an extreme in

    adopting the quality of humility. The

    Rambam explains that biblically

    humility and arrogance should be the

    same as any other middos and one

    should attempt to follow the middle

    path, but just as the rabbis introduced

    so many gezeiros and harchokos in

    the area of bein adam laMakom and bein

    adam lachaveiro, so too here did they

    introduce a gezeira in this area of bein

    adam le’atzmo. The rabbis were

    concerned that many people, or perhaps

    most people, would not be able to

    determine where the midpoint is

    between arrogance and humility, and

    would most probably err on the side of

    arrogance. Therefore the rabbis made a

    gezeira derabanan that we must all go to

    the extreme regarding humility.