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    PARASHAT SHEMOT: CONSISTENCY – THE GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT OF ALL

    The Torah in Para-
    shat Shemot tells of

    Pharaoh’s cruel de-
    cree that all male in-
    fants born to Beneh

    Yisrael should be put
    to death immediately
    at the time of birth. The two Israelite midwives

    who delivered the nation’s babies heroically de-
    fied Pharaoh’s decree, risking their lives in or-
    der to protect the newborns.

    The Torah identifies these two women by
    the names “Shifra” and “Pu’a,” but our Sages
    teach us that these were not their real names.
    These women were actually Yocheved and
    Miriam – Moshe Rabbenu’s mother and sister,

    respectively – but they were referred to as “Shi-
    fra” and“Pu’a” because of their expertise and

    devoted work in caring for the newborn babies
    under their charge. The name “Shifra” evolves
    from the Hebrew verb “sh.f.r.,” which means
    “enhance” or “beautify.” Yocheved earned this
    name because she skillfully cared for the infants
    and made them beautiful. And Miriam was
    named “Pu’a” because of the playful sounds
    she would make to calm and soothe the infants
    (“Pu Pu, Ah Ah”).
    One Rabbi noted the irony in the fact that

    Yocheved and Miriam were given names com-
    memorating their work as midwives. These

    two women were national heroes. They flatly
    ignored an explicit command of the powerful
    Egyptian king in order to save countless lives,
    putting their own lives at risk to this end. Isn’t
    this heroism more worthy of commemoration
    in their names than their handling of babies?
    Why were they named specifically for their
    work as midwives, and not for their heroism in
    defying Pharaoh?
    We learn from the names “Shifra” and
    “Pu’a” that consistent, day-to-day devotion is a
    greater achievement than the “big things” done
    at special moments. Many, and perhaps even
    all, people are capable of rising to the occasion
    at certain times and achieve something great.
    We oftentimes see community members who

    excel when they are called upon to join a com-
    mittee, spearhead a project, or meet a certain ur-
    gent need that arose. This is certainly laudable,

    but the true barometer of greatness is the consis-
    tent handling of one’s ordinary day-to-day chal-
    lenges and responsibilities. There is much to be

    said for the big moments, and Yocheved and
    Miriam are undoubtedly known as heroines for
    their defiance of Pharaoh. But even greater than

    isolated moments of heroism is lifelong consis-
    tency, devotedly tending to one’s duties each

    and every day, just as Shifra and Pu’a worked
    devotedly caring for the newborn infants day in
    and day out.
    Many people do not regard parenting as a
    glorious profession, but inlight of this lesson of
    Shifra and Pu’a, good parenting is the greatest

    of all achievements. A good parent works con-
    sistently, every day, tending to the children’s

    needs on an ongoing basis. Cooking and serv-
    ing dinner, helping with homework, chauf-
    feuring to appointments, birthday parties and

    afterschool programs – each chore on its own
    may not necessarily reflect greatness, but when

    all this is done consistently, day after day, week

    after week, and year after year, it reflects great-
    ness like nothing else.

    Certainly, we should aspire to rise to the oc-
    casion when the big moments arise, when we

    are called upon in extraordinary situations to

    act “heroically” and do something excep-
    tional. But the greatest achievement in life is

    the day-to-day grind, being consistently good
    in meeting the tasks that come our way on
    a daily basis. This is how we become truly great people.