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    PARASHAT TAZRIA: THE SELF-DESTRUCTIVE POWER OF ARROGANCE

    Parashat Tazria introduces
    the laws related to Sara’at –
    a skin infection, similar to
    leprosy, that would befall
    a person as a result of certain sins. The Torah
    says that when a person sees a discoloration on
    his skin that might qualify as Sara’at, he must
    approach a Kohen, who, based on the Torah’s
    specific guidelines, would determine whether
    indeed this individual is a Mesora (person
    stricken with Sara’at). If the person is declared a
    Mesora, he must observe several very restricting
    laws, including leaving his city and living in
    solitude.
    Interestingly, the Torah says about the person
    who sees a possible Sara’at infection on his
    body, “Ve’huba”– “He shall be brought” to a
    Kohen (13:2). The Torah speaks of the individual
    being brought to a Kohen, rather than going to
    a Kohen. The explanation is that the sins for
    which one would suffer Sara’at are sins which
    involve arrogance, particularly, Lashon Ha’ra
    – negative speech about other people. People
    who are arrogant are not likely to take the
    initiative to solve their problems, to seek the
    help and guidance of others. A person stricken
    with Sara’at, whose affliction is an expression
    of his plague of hubris, might naturally resist
    approaching a Kohen for guidance, and so the
    Torah says, “Ve’huba” – that his family and
    friends should bring him to a Kohen against his
    will to address his problem.
    Numerous stories are told in Tanach and

    in Rabbinic literature warning about this
    phenomenon – the self-destructive power of
    arrogance.
    During the time of the prophet Yirmiyahu, who
    prophesied about the impending destruction of
    Yerushalayim, there was a false prophet named
    Hananya Ben Azur, who opposed Yirmiyahu.
    Hananya falsely told the people that G-d spoke
    to him and assured him that Yerushalayim would
    be safe, and the people do not need to repent.
    Yirmiyahu, based on a prophetic message from
    G-d, proclaimed that if Hananya was lying,
    then he would die that year. The verse in Sefer
    Yirmiyahu (28:17) relates that indeed, Hananya
    died that year, in the seventh month. The Rabbis
    noted, however, the seventh month is Tishri – the
    month which begins the new year. Technically
    speaking, then, Hananya did not die during the
    year in which Yirmiyahu made his prediction,
    but rather the following year. The Rabbis explain
    that as the days passed following Yirmiyahu’s
    prediction, Hananya ridiculed Yirmiyahu,
    showing him that time has passed, the year
    would soon come to an end, and he was perfectly
    healthy. But right before Rosh Hashanah,
    Hananya suddenly took ill, and he realized he
    would soon perish. Before he died, he instructed
    his family to delay his burial until after Rosh
    Hashanah, in order to give the appearance that he
    died on Rosh Hashanah, after the new year began,
    thereby misleading the people into thinking that
    Yirmiyahu’s prophecy was not accurate.
    Hananya obviously knew he was lying. And he

    knew that he would soon die and stand before the
    Heavenly Tribunal. And yet, even then, he could
    not bring himself to confess his wrongdoing
    and repent. He still insisted on maintaining his
    prestige, rather than humbly acknowledging
    his wrongdoing and thereby earning G-d’s
    forgiveness.
    Perhaps the most famous, and most striking,
    example of the self-destructive power of
    arrogance is the story of Yerobam Ben Nevat,
    first king of the Northern Kingdom of Israel.
    G-d decided to divide Beneh Yisrael into two
    kingdoms, and so He sent the prophet Ahiya
    to Yerobam to instruct him to secede and form
    a separate kingdom. Unquestionably, if G-d
    chose Yerobam for this role, he must have been
    an exceptionally righteous and learned man.
    However, after he formed the new kingdom,
    Yerobam’s ego sent him in the wrong direction.
    As Yom Tob approached, Yerobam decided
    to station guards and set up a blockade to
    prevent his constituents from going to the Bet
    Ha’mikdash in Yerushalayim, as is required on
    Yom Tob. He realized that if the people would
    go to the Bet Ha’mikdash, they would see
    the king of the Judean Kingdom – Rehabam
    – receiving royal honor, and his own stature
    would be compromised. He therefore decided to
    prevent the people of his kingdom from going to
    Yerushalayim, and – shockingly – he built two
    temples in his own kingdom with golden calves
    for the people to worship, instead of going to the
    Bet Ha’mikdash. His preoccupation with honor

    and prestige led him so far astray that he caused
    all the people in his kingdom to worship idols.
    Perhaps even more astoundingly, Yerobam
    later rejected G-d’s offer of forgiveness for this
    grievous offense. The Talmud tells in Masechet
    Sanhedrin (102a) that G-d compassionately told
    Yerobam that if he would repent, He would not
    only accept his repentance, but He would “stroll
    in Gan Eden” together with him and with Dovid
    Hamlech. We would certainly have expected
    Yerobam to eagerly accept this offer, but he in
    fact rejected it – because he was told that Dovid
    would be walking in front of him.
    Such is the self-destructive power of arrogance –
    it causes people to ruin their lives, and even their
    eternal share in the next world.
    This phenomenon is, unfortunately, very
    common. Marriages are strained, or broken,
    because one or both spouses refuse to yield.
    Siblings and other family members often endure
    a great deal of tension because people are too
    focused on receiving the honor they want.
    Business partnerships are destroyed because of
    power struggles.
    One of the lessons of the Mesora is to beware of
    this self-destructive force. Let us ensure to never
    to allow a relationship to be destroyed because
    of ego, because of our insistence on receiving
    honor. Let us have the wisdom and humility
    to give in and yield, rather than allow the vain
    desire for honor to wreak havoc with our lives.