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    PARSHA IN PRACTICE: SKILLS FOR BETTER LIVING SUKKOS – ABOVE AND BEYOND

    What is the joy of
    Sukkos all about?
    When Bnei Yisrael
    traveled through
    the desert, Hashem
    provided three miraculous gifts to sustain
    them: manna descended from heaven,
    fresh water flowed from Miriam’s well,
    and the ananei ha’kavod – the Clouds of
    Glory – enveloped the nation (Ta’anis 9a).
    At first glance, it would seem that the first
    two miracles were the most important.
    Without food and water, the Jewish
    people never could have survived forty
    years in the wilderness. Yet no holiday
    commemorates those indispensable gifts.
    Instead, Sukkos celebrates the ananei
    ha’kavod (Sukkah 11b).
    That is surprising because the clouds
    hardly seem essential at all. The Jewish
    people could have survived the desert
    inside their own booths – literal “sukkos.”
    In fact, Chazal emphasize that the true
    benefit of the clouds was not protection,
    but comfort. They leveled the roads,

    laundered clothing, and spared the nation
    the blisters and hardships of desert travel
    (Rashi to Bamidbar 10:34 and Devarim
    8:4). It is this “spa treatment” that we
    commemorate each year!
    Doesn’t that seem backward? Shouldn’t
    we be thanking Hashem more for the
    necessities than for the luxuries?
    The Mabit (Rabbi Moshe ben Yosef
    Trani zt”l, d. 1585) in Beis Elokim
    (Sha’ar HaYesodos 37) offers a beautiful
    explanation. In a sense, Hashem “had to”
    provide food and water. After bringing the
    Jewish people into the middle of a barren
    wilderness, He could hardly leave them
    without the basic necessities for survival.
    The Clouds of Glory, however, were
    entirely different. Hashem didn’t have
    to smooth the roads, clean our clothes,
    or make our journey more comfortable.
    Those were gifts that went above and
    beyond what was necessary. Through
    them, Hashem demonstrated not only His
    responsibility toward the Jewish people,
    but His deep love for us.

    Every healthy relationship
    includes obligations.
    Parents provide for their
    children. Employers
    pay their employees.
    Spouses fulfill countless
    responsibilities toward
    one another. Those duties
    sustain a relationship.
    What transforms it into
    something deeper are the
    thoughtful gestures that
    no one was required to do
    – the small acts that communicate, “I care
    about your comfort and happiness.”
    The same is true in our relationship with
    Hashem.
    Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur focus
    on obligation. We recognize Hashem’s
    sovereignty and seek another year of life
    because we depend upon Him. We stand
    before Him with awe because these days
    are essential to our spiritual survival.
    Sukkos is our opportunity to go above and
    beyond. We remember that Hashem once

    cared not only about our survival, but
    about our comfort as well. In response,
    we don’t merely fulfill another obligation;
    we celebrate with unrestrained joy. We
    reciprocate Hashem’s extraordinary love
    with an extraordinary expression of our
    own.
    If it seems over-the-top to devote an
    entire holiday to the ananei ha’kavod, it is
    because we are responding in kind to the
    One Who went over-the-top in showering
    us with His love in the desert.