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    PARSHA IN PRACTICE: SKILLS FOR BETTER LIVING TETZAVEH – CONSISTENTLY BALANCED

    What can the light of
    the menorah teach
    us about avoiding
    “burnout”?
    Parshas Tetzaveh opens with the mitzvah
    to light the menorah in the Mikdash,
    which must be done “tamid” (Shemos
    27:20), a word typically translated as
    “constantly.” However, as Rashi points
    out, in this context, that cannot be its
    meaning, as the candles were not up in
    flames 24/7. Instead, Rashi comments,
    the light of the menorah was “tamid”
    in the sense that it was lit “consistently,”
    every evening without fail. It may not
    have burned continuously at all hours,
    but the fact that it was ignited each day at
    its proper time allowed it to achieve the
    status of “tamid.”
    Rashi provides a similar explanation
    of the korban tamid, the twice-daily
    offering introduced later in our parshah
    (Shemos 29:38-42). He explains that
    this sacrifice earned that designation,

    “tamid,” not because it was brought non-
    stop throughout the day, but by virtue of

    being offered with consistent diligence
    every day at its proper times, once every
    morning and once every evening.
    The Chofetz Chaim extrapolated that this
    understanding can help us set reasonable
    and healthy standards in our daily
    mitzvah observance. Our engagement in
    both Talmud Torah (represented by the
    menorah [Bava Basra 25b]) and Avodas
    Hashem (represented by the avodah of
    the korbanos) need not entail performing
    the same action at all times. By our new
    definition, a masmid – from the same
    root as tamid – is not one who learns at
    all hours of the day without any down
    time; and the title ba’al(as) chessed is
    not limited to one who gives selflessly
    without an allowance for a personal life.
    Instead, a person exemplifying the quality
    of temidus (consistency, not constancy)
    need only follow the model from our
    Parshah: establishing regular times for
    learning, prayer, and mitzvah observance.
    Such a schedule allows one to supplement
    the day with other obligations: earning
    a living, attending to family, social

    responsibilities, and
    self-care (eating,
    sleeping, recreation).
    Addressing each
    avodah at its proper
    time is the truest
    fulfillment of “tamid.”
    The Chofetz Chaim
    was known for putting
    these words into
    practice, as he would
    reportedly extinguish
    the lights in his
    Beis Midrash every
    evening, encouraging
    the talmidim to get a
    good night’s sleep. He understood that if
    something had to “burn out,” better it be
    the candles than the students.
    By remaining dedicated to Torah learning
    and mitzvos daily, any interim hours
    spent in business or pleasure are not
    considered an interruption in temidus
    (Menachos 99b). In fact, by explicitly
    considering working and resting hours as
    a means to help facilitate a life of study

    and devotion to Hashem, one can elevate
    and transform those mundane activities
    into religious pursuits, as well (Rambam,
    Dei’os 3:3). When a day is filled with
    mitzvos and their supporting cast, there is
    truly never a break from Avodas Hashem!
    With this understanding of consistency,
    we can avoid burnout while still
    accomplishing “shivisi Hashem l’negdi
    TAMID” (Tehillim 16:8).