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    PARSHA IN PRACTICE: SKILLS FOR BETTER LIVING VAYEIRA – A GOOD NIGHT’S SLEEP

    Avraham’s nisayon
    was even more
    impressive than
    you remember!
    Parshas Vayeira contains one of
    the most challenging episodes in
    Jewish history: Akeidas Yitzchak.
    While even the thought of facing
    such a test would make any regular
    person tremble, Avraham was able
    to pass with flying colors. However,
    Avraham’s successful completion of
    his nisayon is only half of the story,
    just one element of his righteousness.
    Undoubtedly, Avraham struggled
    internally with this command. In
    addition to the shocking cruelty
    involved in slaughtering one’s own
    son, Avraham was perplexed by how
    Hashem could instruct him to kill the
    child that G-d Himself had promised

    would later produce a fruitful nation
    (Rashi, Bereishis 22:13). And yet, not
    only was Avraham faithfully willing
    to fulfill this troubling mitzvah; he
    was even eager to do so. Indeed,
    Chazal derive the general concept
    of zerizus, displaying alacrity for

    mitzvos, from Avraham’s early-
    morning rise to perform the akeidah

    (Pesachim 4a; see Tosfos ad loc.).
    Remarkably, Avraham was excited
    to follow the directive he found so
    morally troubling – because it was
    the word of Hashem.
    The Brisker Rav zt”l (quoted in Ta’am
    VaDa’as) pointed out yet another
    dimension of Avraham’s greatness
    embedded in this narrative. The fact
    that “Avraham awoke early in the
    morning” (Bereishis 22:3) not only
    highlights his readiness to carry out

    the task, but also implies that he was
    able to sleep the night before! It is
    one thing to be willing to sacrifice
    his precious son, it’s another to do so
    with zerizus, and it’s another caliber
    entirely to feel so at-peace with his
    commitment to Hashem that he did
    not lose any sleep over the impending
    mitzvah. As unpleasant as the
    thought of losing his dear Yitzchak
    certainly was, Avraham prioritized
    his undying love for Hashem. This
    deep trust and tight bond with his
    Creator allowed Avraham to remain
    dedicated, and even well-rested.
    Thankfully, Hashem has never
    challenged us with such a difficult
    nisayon as the Akeidah. However,
    we can learn from Avraham to relish
    the opportunity to perform mitzvos,
    even when they seem demanding.

    For example, many aspects of a Torah
    lifestyle require a significant sacrifice
    of time and/or money; some might
    take a serious emotional toll on our
    wellbeing; and others can sometimes
    be hard to reconcile with modern
    values. Nevertheless, by developing
    a genuine, personal connection with
    Hashem, we can become excited
    at the chance to engage in Avodas
    Hashem – even when it is challenging
    – and certainly never view a mitzvah
    as a reason to lose any sleep!