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    PARSHAS KORACH: THE MEASURE OF A PERSON

    The Measure of A
    Person Is How He
    Acts When He Is
    Right
    When Moshe
    Rabbeinu wanted to
    demonstrate that he was
    correct and that Korach was wrong, he made
    the following challenge: “If these men die a
    natural death, that means G-d did not send me.
    But if G-d will make a new creation such that
    the earth opens its mouth and swallows them
    alive, then this will prove that G-d did send
    me.” [Bamidbar 16:29]
    Let us analyze Moshe’s statement. 250 people
    challenged Moshe. They questioned his
    leadership. Moshe maintained that he was the
    G-d chosen leader and that these challengers
    were phonies. Let us suppose that the next day,
    all 250 challengers had not woken up from
    their sleep. Wouldn’t such an occurrence, in
    and of itself, be a strong proof as to who was
    right and who was wrong? Would we not have
    seen their death as Divine Retribution?
    Moshe was not satisfied with that level of
    proof. He explicitly said that if they die in their
    sleep or of other natural causes, then that
    indicates that “G-d did not send me.” Why did

    Moshe specifically need the creation of a
    miracle and an unnatural death to prove his
    legitimacy?
    The Belzer Rebbe, zt”l, explained: Had they
    all died in their sleep or by some natural means
    of death, it would still have been possible to
    conjecture that Korach was right. Perhaps we
    would have said that they did not receive the
    punishment because they were wrong but
    rather because they acted improperly in
    shaming a Talmid Chachom. [One who shames
    another publicly is compared to a murderer
    (Talmud B.Metz. 58b); all the more so when
    the victim is a Torah scholar.]
    Conceivably, Korach and his followers could
    have been 100 percent correct that Moshe was
    a power hungry nepotist who was appointing
    ‘his people’ and taking everything for himself.
    But even so, they would have been deserving
    of death for the disrespectful way that they
    presented their argument. They humiliated the
    greatest man of the generation and the leader
    of Israel.
    A person can be 100 percent right and still be
    deserving of death for other reasons, such as
    shaming a scholar. Therefore, Moshe insisted
    upon ironclad proof that he was right — a
    miracle to cause their death. Natural deaths

    would not have proven Moshe’s legitimacy
    since they already deserved death — right or
    wrong — because of the way they presented
    their claim.
    The mussar that we must learn from this
    insight is that even if one is right, he must
    know how to fight! A person must present
    arguments with tact and sensitivity, regardless
    of the cogency of those arguments.
    A person can have a complaint about a friend,
    a spouse, sometimes even a Rabbi, but that
    does not give him the right to fight or argue or
    act improperly.
    Suppose a Rabbi made a mistake. Perhaps he
    did not treat someone properly. Does that
    permit a congregant to chastise his Rabbi in
    the middle of shul? Heaven forbid! That would
    be shaming a Torah scholar. The congregant’s
    complaint may be 100 percent valid, but that
    does not justify improper behavior on his part
    against his Rabbi.
    Sometimes a person may have an argument
    with his wife. He might be 100 percent right.
    But nevertheless, he must confront her in a
    proper manner. If he does not, he can be right
    on the merits, but all can be lost if his argument
    is not presented in the proper manner.

    Sometimes we may be right regarding an
    issue with our children. But there is a way to
    talk to a child and a way not to talk to a child.
    Sometimes a child may owe his parent an
    apology. But the parent’s reaction can be so
    bad that it makes the parent’s sin worse than
    the child’s sin.
    The Belzer Rebbe says that the true measure
    of a person is to see how he acts when he is
    RIGHT — not when he is wrong. If when he
    thinks he is right, he feels that he has license to
    act like an animal — to yell what he wants and
    to act however he wants to act — then he is in
    fact quite wrong! Even if Korach had been
    right in his original argument, he was already
    a ‘dead man’ because of the way he acted
    towards his teacher.