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    PARSHAS METZORA: LEAVING NEGATIVE ONLINE REVIEWS

    The Kohen shall
    order two live pure
    birds, cedar wood,
    crimson stuff, and
    hyssop to be brought
    for the one to be
    purified.

    Vayikra 14:4
    Since tzara’as comes as a punishment for
    slander, which is done by chattering, birds
    are compulsory for his purification, because
    these chatter continuously with a twittering
    sound.
    Rashi, Vayikra 14:4
    Introduction
    One of the primary ways in which businesses
    can increase their clientele is through positive
    online reviews from customers. Conversely,
    much of the leverage that the customer
    possesses is based on his ability to leave
    negative reviews online. Otherwise, there is
    often no other recourse for a customer who is
    cheated by a particular business, as it is
    generally too costly and time-consuming to
    legally recuperate disputed money and the
    like.

    Sharing negative stories about another Jew
    constitutes lashon hara under normal
    circumstances. Does the fact that one is in a
    business setting and is protecting both
    himself and others from perceived dishonesty
    or incompetence create a heter for one to
    share negative information about another
    Jew’s business practices?
    Lashon HaRa for a Positive Purpose
    The Chafetz Chaim, in his sefer on the
    halachos of lashon hara (perek 10), shares the
    conditions for being permitted to share
    negative information about a fellow Jew:
    1. One must be certain that the information
    is true.
    2. The problem that he is revealing is
    objectively problematic and not just
    something that one finds personally
    problematic.
    3. One must try to take care of the problem
    without spreading any lashon hara; only

    after approaching the person one-on-
    one can he share the information with

    the public.
    4. One may not exaggerate the importance

    of the particular problem. One should
    simply share the information as it is and
    let the recipient decide what to do with
    it.
    5. One’s intention must be to help people
    who might be victimized in the future. If
    one’s intention is simply to exact
    revenge or to establish one’s own
    competitive business, it is assur to share
    the information.
    6. There is no better way to affect a similar
    result.
    7. One can share the information only if
    the loss the subject will suffer is
    commensurate with the negative act that
    he performed. If he will suffer a major
    loss for a minor infraction, one may not
    share the lashon hara.
    Based on these conditions, it seems almost
    impossible that one would ever be permitted
    to share a negative review of a Jewish-owned
    business on the internet.
    Ta’aromes
    The Gemara (Bava Metzia 49a, among other
    places) describes scenarios in which one
    loses out on a business arrangement and
    does not have monetary recourse, but
    nevertheless has “ta’aromes,” a grievance
    or complaint. Rashi explains that this
    means he has the right to complain to others
    about the way in which the transaction
    worked out. This seems to be describing a
    scenario in which one is permitted to “leave
    a negative review” concerning his
    transaction. It is difficult to suggest that
    Rashi would permit spreading lashon hara
    out of spite; it is assumed that he means
    that one can relate his personal experience
    to relevant parties, should the need to do so
    arise.
    What is the To’eles?
    If it is indeed permissible to relate one’s
    negative experience with a business, what
    level of to’eles needs to be accomplished in
    order for this leniency to apply? Some
    suggest that the productive purpose is
    simply the accountability factor. If
    businesses know that they will receive
    negative reviews for poor or dishonest
    work, they will treat their current and future
    customers more appropriately, and many
    others will thus be saved from losses and
    aggravation.
    Simply suggesting that one has the right to
    reproach the business for its negative
    actions in order to teach them the proper
    way to conduct themselves is likely not
    enough of a to’eles to permit speaking
    negatively about them on the internet. It is

    not a customer’s job to teach a service
    provider the correct manner in which to
    behave.
    If, however, we assume that one is protecting
    current and future clients from being cheated,
    not only might it be permissible to leave a
    negative review, but it might be obligatory,
    based on the obligation of “lo sa’amod al
    dam rei’echa” (Vayikra 19:16). One is not
    permitted to stand by and watch harm befall
    his fellow Jew, even if it is only financial
    harm.
    Where to Write the Review
    Assuming one is permitted to write a negative
    review, it must still conform to the rules laid
    out by the Chafetz Chaim; it cannot simply
    be posted on a general website or social
    media account, where it can be seen by many
    for whom the information is completely
    irrelevant and therefore forbidden to read.
    One must leave the review in a location
    where it will be read only by those who are
    searching for a particular business or service,
    to whom reviews are relevant and helpful. An
    Amazon review would seem to fit these
    criteria.
    Rav Hershel Schachter ruled that if one can
    find a domain that is generally limited to
    those who would benefit from reading
    reviews on this matter, and one takes care to
    stick to the facts and not to exaggerate or
    engage in polemics, it would be permissible
    to leave a negative review in order to protect
    others from suffering a similar fate.
    Reading Negative Reviews
    When reading negative reviews, one should
    be careful to remember that one is not
    permitted to be mekabel lashon hara.
    Although one is permitted to be wary of the
    situation in order to avoid being harmed or
    cheated, he should still harbor doubts about
    the authenticity of negative accounts.
    Posting Fake Reviews
    It is not uncommon that when starting a
    business, the owner or his friends will post
    positive reviews concerning transactions that
    never took place. This is certainly forbidden
    and is a violation of geneivas da’as and
    sheker.