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    Privilege is Not a Dirty Word

    One of the many important national conversations taking place these days involves recognition and awareness of privilege. To some people, privilege is a negative thing and something to be ashamed of. I don’t see it that way at all. 

    Privilege is not a dirty word. To be clear, it is critical to be aware of what- ever privileges one is blessed with, recognize and appreciate that others do not share that blessing, and incor- porate that awareness and recognition while demonstrating care and com- passion for others. Nevertheless, one needn’t apologize for privilege or be ashamed or feel guilty for having it. Quite the contrary, privilege is, well, exactly that—a privilege. One should be grateful for, appreciative of, and most of all feel tremendously obligat- ed by the privileges we have.

    We Jews are particularly privileged, but not in the way you may think.

    For some, privilege means receiving the benefit of the doubt, or the as- sumption of innocence. For others, privilege means having access, en- trée, and opportunity. For yet others, privilege means the comfort of feeling safe, protected, and secure.

    By these definitions, in the context of history, and even now, Jews are among the most underprivileged people. We have been the target of libel, false accusations, assumptions of guilt. These aren’t part of ancient history. A blood libel occurred in Mas- sena, New York, in 1928. We have been denied access and opportunity. As recently as the 1970’s Jews and blacks were unabashedly denied entry into country clubs in South Florida, an area thought of today as “so Jewish.” Many had signs that said “No dogs, no colored, no Jews.” And it wasn’t that long ago that Jews were similarly denied or limited to enter universities and graduate schools. In 1935, a Yale dean instructed his admissions com- mittee: “Never admit more than five Jews.” Harvard’s president wrote that too many Jewish students would “ruin the college.”

    Safety and security? The Anti-Def- amation League reports there were 2,107 hate crimes against Jewish people nationwide in 2019, the high- est since the ADL began tallying hate crimes in 1979. Antisemitic incidents comprise a majority of reported hate crimes in New York City. According to 2018 FBI data, Jews were 2.7x

    more likely than blacks, and 2.2x more likely than Muslims to be a hate crime victim.

    In the context of recent rioting and looting, the Los Angeles Jewish community recently experienced what one called a “modern-day po- grom” in which Jewish businesses were ransacked and five syna- gogues and three Jewish schools were vandalized.

    The current attention to racism in America and the fight for racial justice is important. As I have said, racism is an evil we must actively, categorically reject. At the same time, we should also be aware, and make others aware, that antisemitism is on the rise globally and there re- main entire nations and countless in- dividuals who seek the extermination and elimination of the Jewish people. Just last week, what are widely con- sidered A-list celebrities with large social media presences praised Louis Farrakhan, a vile, unapologetic anti- Semite. In 2018, Farrakhan warned his 335,000 followers on Twitter about “the Satanic Jew.” As recently as October, 2018 Farrakhan told his followers in a widely-attended and shared speech, “When they talk about Farrakhan, call me a hater, you know how they do – call me an anti-Semite. Stop it, I’m anti-termite!”

    A high-profile spokesman during this important current conversation on jus- tice, equality, and discrimination is Al Sharpton, a man who once said, “If the Jews want to get it on, tell them to pin their yarmulkes back and come over to my house…All we want to say is what Jesus said: If you offend one of these little ones, you got to pay for it. No compromise, no meetings, no cof- fee klatch, no skinnin’ and grinning.’ Pay for your deeds.” He has never apologized or offered contrition for those remarks, or for his role in incit- ing the Crown Heights riots (perhaps he still stands by them), and yet he is consistently given a public platform with no hesitation or qualification.

    In many places around the world, including too many right here in the United States, a Jew feels the need to remove a yarmulke or outer Jewish symbols to feel safe. There is no privi- lege to protect him.

    I share this all not to make the argu- ment we are more underprivileged or victimized by prejudice than anyone else, but that even today, access and opportunity, assumption of innocence, and especially safety and security, are not privileges the Jewish people can so readily count on and enjoy. 

    So what do I mean that we are particu- larly privileged and should be proud of it?

    Privilege is not only about the way you are thought of and treated by oth- ers, but about how you think of and behave yourself. Privilege is not how others treat you but how you treat oth- ers. It isn’t what others do to you, but what you do with what you have.

    למען צדקו יגדיל תורה ויאדיר מכות כב: ומצות, שנאמר ישעיה מב, כא) ה׳ חפץ את ישראל, לפיכך הרבה להם תורה אומר, רצה הקדוש ברוך הוא לזכות רבי חנניא בן עקשיא

    Hashem wanted to give a zechus to the Jewish people so He charged us with an abundance of Torah and mitzvos. What does zechus mean? When we host a distinguished guest or speaker, they are often introduced with “what a zechus it is to have so and so.” Zechus literally means privilege. Hashem wanted us to be privileged so He trust- ed us and charged us to live virtuous and righteous lives and to transform His world in His vision.

    For a Jew, privilege doesn’t mean ac- cess, opportunity, or favors. It means responsibility, an awesome respon- sibility to set an example, to live el- evated, meaningful lives, to repair the world in His image, to be of service to others. It means to rise above how we may be treated by others and to treat all with dignity, respect, and honor.

    We have the privilege of studying To- rah and being inspired by its timeless lessons. We were given the privilege of the instruction manual to life in- cluding the 613 mitzvos. We bear the privilege of being asked and expected to be at the forefront of fighting for justice, equality, fairness, and truth.

    Rav Yitzchak Hutner, the great Rosh Yeshiva of Chaim Berlin, once stood before a Torah U’Mesorah conven- tion, a gathering of Jewish educators from across the country. He suggested to them that he could summarize their entire duty, their task, in five words. If

    nothing else, their job, their role, and their mission of inspiring the Jewish future came down to their ability to communicate to the next generation “asher bachar banu mi’kol ha’amim, we are to be exceptional.” If a Jew- ish child walks away with nothing else from their Jewish education, mini- mally they must be made to feel that we are exceptional, privileged to be charged with being different.

    Our status as a privileged or excep- tional people is not intended to make us feel superior. Rabbi Dr. Nor- man Lamm, z”l pointed out that we don’t recite asher bachar banu al kol ha’amim, he has chosen us above all other nations. Rather, we say mikol ha’amim, he has chosen us from among all the nations of the world.

    Being privileged should make us feel obligated and bound to live more ethi- cally, act more sensitively, conduct ourselves more honestly, and proclaim our faith in the Almighty with pride and distinction, and never with shame or embarrassment.

    Part of the responsibility that comes along with our privilege is to use whatever material privileges we have for the good. Despite the many chal- lenges Jews have faced throughout the generations, most of our communities in the 21st century are blessed with the trappings of material and social privi- lege our ancestors would never dream of. We don’t have to and shouldn’t apologize for that; however, we must recognize that a Jew never focuses on his own entitlement, but rather thinks how his resources can be better used to advance good in the world, includ- ing for the “underprivileged.”

    Privilege is not a luxury, it’s a lega- cy; it isn’t a free pass, it is a weighty proposition. Privilege shouldn’t breed entitlement, it should demand excep- tional behavior.

    I’m proud of my Jewish privilege and I hope my children will be too.