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    RELIGIOUS INSPIRATION IN RESPONSE TO CRISIS

    I. Aliyah in Response
    to Crisis
    We learn from Ya’akov
    that the common
    response to danger,
    to plead with G-d, is
    proper. People promise
    to become better if
    they or their loved ones survive the crisis.
    They genuinely grow in religious devotion.
    Sometimes this growth lasts and sometimes
    it disappears as life returns to normal. If this
    religious growth is temporary, does it have
    any value? To answer that, we can look to a
    major debate about the laws of vows.
    The Bible (Ecc. 5:5) says “It is better that
    you should not vow than that you should
    vow and not pay.” The Gemara (Chullin 2a)
    says that the best is not to vow at all. You can
    avoid even the possibility of failing to fulfill
    a neder by not taking a vow at all. Tosafos
    (Chullin 2b, s.v. aval) point out that Ya’akov,
    when leaving his parents’ home for a distant
    place, took a neder in order to secure divine
    protection: “And Ya’akov vowed a vow,
    saying, If G-d will be with me, and will keep
    me in this way that I go, and will give me
    bread to eat, and clothing to wear so that I
    return to my father’s house in peace…” (Gen.
    28:20-21). The midrash (Bereishis Rabbah

    70:1) generalizes from this action that it is
    a mitzvah to take a neder. Tosafos explain
    that while it is normally improper to make
    a neder, a time of distress is different. The
    proper response to a crisis, a mitzvah, is to
    take a vow of religious behavior.
    Today, we see a surprising number of people
    making aliyah, moving to Israel, during a
    time of war. They are profoundly moved by
    the tragic attacks and the subsequent war
    to rise to a new level of connection to G-d
    and the Jewish people. This is not a new
    phenomenon. We see in Renaissance times
    that people would vow to make aliyah in
    response to crisis. The question then arose
    whether, after the crisis passed, they have to
    fulfill their vows.
    II. Undoing a Vow
    Rav Yehudah Mintz (15th cen., Italy) was
    asked by someone who vowed during a
    time of crisis to make aliyah but afterwards
    regretted the neder. Rav Mintz permitted the
    neder based on what he observed from his
    teachers. However, he subsequently sent the
    question to his cousin and his mechutan, Rav
    Moshe (Maharam) Mintz of Poland and Rav
    Yosef Kolon (Maharik) of Italy, respectively.
    Maharam Mintz (Responsa, no. 79) agrees
    with the permission while Maharik (New

    Responsa, no. 6) disagrees
    (Rav Yehudah Mintz’s question
    is in the recent edition of his
    responsa, no. 18, and Maharik’s
    new volume of responsa, no.
    5). On this issue, the two Rabbi
    Mintz cousins seem to be in the
    minority, although their reasoning
    is fascinating. Maharam Mintz’s
    responsum is one of the main
    sources from which we know
    that Rav Yehudah Ha-Chasid
    (13th cen., Germany) said that
    it is dangerous to permit a neder
    taken during a time of distress.
    Maharam Mintz sees from this that there is
    no technical prohibition in permitting such
    a neder. It just falls under a mystical danger,
    like many other proclamations by R. Yehudah
    Ha-Chasid. Maharam Mintz says that just

    like those other warnings of R. Yehudah Ha-
    Chasid, they are not binding, especially for

    people who are not concerned with them. He
    uses the language of the Gemara (Pesachim
    109b) about the danger of drinking an even
    number of cups, which apparently invokes
    demons, that those who are not concerned
    with the danger do not have to worry about
    this. Similarly, Maharam Mintz says that
    those who are not concerned with the danger
    of permitting a neder taken during a time of
    distress need not worry. Rav Moshe Sofer
    (Responsa Chasam Sofer, Even Ha-Ezer
    1:116) and Rav Moshe Feinstein (Iggeros
    Moshe, Even Ha-Ezer 1:4) use the same
    approach regarding marrying a spouse
    with the same name as your parent. Those
    who are not concerned with the danger do
    not have to worry.
    Maharik says that the custom is not to
    permit a neder made during a time of
    distress. He explains this custom based on
    the rule that you can only permit a neder
    regarding someone else in his presence
    (Nedarim 65b). The subject of the neder
    must consent to its dissolution. A neder
    made in a time of distress is a promise
    to G-d. It is as if you are making a deal
    with G-d to save you or your loved one
    in exchange for this religious stringency.
    While, of course, everything is in the
    presence of G-d, you cannot permit
    such a neder without divine consent.
    Absent a bas kol, we do not have divine
    consent to permit such a neder. Maharik’s
    contemporary, Rav Yisrael (Mahari)
    Bruna (15th cen., Germany; Responsa, no.
    77) agrees with Maharik that a neder made
    in a time of distress cannot be permitted.
    Another contemporary of theirs, Rav
    Binyamin Ze’ev (15th cen., Greece;
    Responsa, no. 266), follows the same
    approach but allows a rabbi to permit such
    a neder when there is a mitzvah need.
    Significantly, Rav Moshe Isserles (Rema,
    16th cen., Poland; Gloss to Shulchan
    Aruch, Yoreh De’ah 228:45; Responsa,

    no. 103) rules like Rav Binyamin Ze’ev.
    III. Is This a Vow?
    Rav Yehudah Mintz’s grandson-in-law
    and successor, Rav Meir Katzenellenbogen
    (Maharam Padua, 16th cen., Italy; Responsa,
    no. 72), agrees that the general practice is
    not to permit a neder made during a crisis.
    However, he suggests that perhaps a neder to
    make aliyah is not binding at all. After all, a
    neder is about an object while a shevu’ah is
    about an action. You can take a neder that all
    the fruits in the world are forbidden to you
    if you do not make aliyah. But a neder that
    you will make aliyah is actually a shevu’ah,
    which does not apply to mitzvos. Therefore,
    suggests Maharam Padua, perhaps the neder
    is null and void. However, because he seems
    to be a minority in making such an argument,
    he defers to others but he is willing to permit
    a neder made during a time of distress if the
    individual is incapable of fulfilling it due to
    issues beyond his control.
    The consensus and normative practice
    requires someone to hold to his commitments
    made during a time of crisis. Maharam Mintz
    says something surprising but powerful. Even
    if you do not fulfill your end of the bargain,
    assuming you do so with rabbinic permission,
    the very fact that you turn to G-d in your time
    of distress is itself a sign of religious growth.
    In times of need, we find strength in our faith.
    Indeed, everyone may agree that the very act
    of making the promise is the point and the
    fulfillment is merely a detail. The only debate
    is whether you may later undo that vow, with
    rabbinic permission.