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    REVITALIZING OUR DAVENING – PART THIRTEEN

    In the eighth bracha of
    the Shemone Esrei we
    say, “Refa’einu Hashem
    v’neirafei – Cure us
    Hashem and we will be
    cured.” This phrasing
    contrasts Hashem’s
    medicine and human
    medicine. Often times, the
    human healer will succeed
    at taking away symptoms but not remove
    the root cause of the sickness. On the other
    hand, when Hashem heals, He takes away the
    malady completely. The Zohar Chadosh adds
    that when Hashem cures, it is a refuah nitzchi,
    a lasting cure, unlike the doctor who might
    succeed in a blessed remission but sadly the
    disease might resurge again, sometimes even
    in a more malignant way.
    We then say, “Hoshi’einu v’nivashei’ah –
    Save us and we will be saved.” Rabbi Mayer
    Birnbaum, in his excellent sefer Pathways to
    Prayer, explains this addition as a request to
    save us from dangers that can cause sickness.
    Examples include ticks, which can cause
    lime disease, mosquitos which can carry Zika
    or West Nile virus or even malaria. We ask
    Hashem to protect us from catching Covid,
    measles, strep, and other infectious diseases,
    from feces contaminants that can cause

    Hepatitis, and to shield us from the toxic
    effects of second-hand smoke and vaping.
    We add “Ki sihilaseinu Attah – For You
    are our praise.” Rab Yechezkel Abramsky,
    zt”l, zy”a, explains that we are clarifying
    that we understand our deliverance from
    sickness ultimately comes from Hashem. The
    doctor is only His agent. Dovid HaMelech
    recommends, “Al tivtichu bindivim, b’ven
    adom she’ein lo seshuah – Don’t put your
    trust in generous people; people who are not
    the source of our salvation.” While the doctor
    definitely deserves our gratitude for his skill
    and dedication, our eyes should be mainly
    focused on Hashem, the true Determinator of
    our fate.
    So too, we don’t put our trust in the Excedrin
    or the penicillin, in the oxycodone or the
    morphine or any other prescriptions, but in
    Hashem Above. (It is for this reason that
    before taking a pill we say, “Yehi ratzon
    milfonecha, Hashem Elokai v’Elokei avosi,
    she’yehei eisek zeh lir’fu’ah – May it be Your
    will Hashem, my G-d and G-d of my fathers,
    that this attempt should be a successful cure.)
    As the Gemora in Bava Kamma [92b] tells us
    wryly, “Chamrah l’moreih, tivusa l’shakyei –
    The wine belongs to the host, but people show
    appreciation to the butler who pours it.” As

    Rashi there warns us, don’t make the mistake
    of misplaced appreciation.
    “Ki Keil Melech rofei ne’eman v’rachaman
    Attah – For You, Almighty, are King, a trusted
    and merciful Healer.” We refer to Hashem as
    King to intimate that He can give a presidential
    pardon even if the sick person is underserving.
    The Siddur Meforesh says that the reason
    we mention that ‘He is trustworthy’ alludes
    back to what we said before, we trust that
    with Hashem’s healing, the illness will never
    return. We say that He is merciful so that we
    can ask for His help, although we haven’t fully
    repented from the sins that brought about the
    sickness in the first place.
    We conclude the blessing, “Rofei cholei
    amo Yisroel – He heals the sick of the nation
    Yisroel.” It is interesting that in the bracha
    Asher Yotzar, we say “Rofei kol basar –He
    heals all flesh,” while over here we restrict
    it to the people of Israel. The discussion
    of this subject is beyond the scope of this
    article. Nevertheless, there are ample sources
    in halacha that one may pray for a non-Jew,
    especially if it generates a Kiddush Hashem or
    if the non-Jew had done one a favor. Why it is
    not included in the conclusion of this blessing
    is a complexity which needs to be discussed at
    a different time.

    In the merit of our praying for the health and
    wellbeing of all of our brethren, may Hashem
    bless us with long life, good health, and
    everything wonderful.