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    SHOFTIM: COMPLACENCY KILLS

    I was once in a post office,
    and started chatting with the
    fellow working there behind
    the counter. Over the course
    of our conversation, he
    mentioned that he had served in
    the Marines.

    “The Marines?” I said. “Wow, that’s
    amazing.”
    He said that he spent some time in
    Afghanistan. I asked how much time he spent
    there, and he said that he was there for seven
    months. He had been a Marine for many
    years, but he spent only seven months serving
    in Afghanistan.
    “Why only seven months?” I then asked.
    His answer caught me off-guard.
    “Because complacency is no good.”
    He explained that war is very dangerous, and
    very complex. In order to succeed, you need
    to be on high-alert at all times. At every
    moment, you need to be fully prepared, and
    completely focused. You need to make sure
    that all your equipment and all your
    ammunition is in tip-top shape and ready for
    action. And maintaining this level of alertness
    and preparedness requires the highest levels
    of motivation. The moment a troop falls even

    slightly, for a moment, into complacency,
    letting his guard down, he puts himself at
    great risk.
    In fact, this ex-Marine post-office worker
    said, there was a sign hung in his base in
    Afghanistan that read: Complacency Kills.
    This man, I believe, helps us understand what
    the month of Elul is all about. It is about
    taking us out of our complacency, it is about
    ensuring that we don’t become the kind of
    people who sit back in our chair, pick up our
    feet, and take it easy. The month of Elul is
    meant to wake us up from our feeling of
    “whatever,” of “I’m fine the way I am.” It is
    about reminding us that we’ve been brought
    to this world to excel and to achieve, not to
    just sit back and relax.
    Every so often the yetzer ha’ra puts a dream in
    my head – a dream where I just sit somewhere
    doing absolutely nothing, without my phone,
    without anyone around me, without any
    obligations or responsibilities.
    This is my yetzer ha’ra’s dream. And I hope I
    never have a single day like that in my entire
    life. I don’t want to ever spend a day doing
    nothing, a day when I am not making the most
    of the precious time I’ve been given here in
    this world.
    The Midrash tells what appears to be a very

    peculiar story of a man who sat down along
    the side of the road to eat, and suddenly saw
    two birds fighting, with one eventually killing
    the other. The living bird then left and later
    returned with a leaf from a certain plant,
    which it placed on top of the dead
    bird. Miraculously, the bird came back to
    life. The two birds then flew away together.
    The man set out to find the miracle plant. He
    found it, and took some leaves. He then went
    around seeing how he could use them. He
    chanced upon the carcass of a lion, and he
    placed the plant on it. The lion came back to
    life – and immediately proceeded to devour
    the man.
    Rav Shmuel Pinhasi explains the meaning of
    this story told by the Midrash. The man was
    granted remarkable power – the power to
    restore life. He could have utilized this power
    to bring back Moshe Rabbenu, Dovid
    Ha’melech, or Avraham, Yitzhak and
    Yaakov. He could have brought back his
    parents. This miracle plant presented him
    with so many precious opportunities. But
    instead, he used it to bring back to life a
    dangerous, violent animal, and he lost his life
    because of it.
    This is the mistake that so many of us make
    – we misuse, or fail to use, our capabilities. The
    very fact that we are alive proves that we have

    the potential to achieve, to do great things. If
    Hashem keeps us here in His world, it is
    because we are powerful, because we have so
    much to give. Elul is the time to ask ourselves,
    honestly, whether we are using these abilities
    to their fullest, whether we are achieving to
    our full potential, or if we have become
    complacent, preferring to “take it easy,” to sit
    back and relax, rather than put in the work to
    maximize our potential.
    If we use our talents and capabilities for a
    “lion,” for the wrong purposes, then we, like
    the man in the story, are hurting ourselves. In
    order to shine, in order to live life the right
    way, we need to avoid complacency, and
    make the decision to invest effort to be the
    best that we can be. And Elul is the time to
    make that decision, to stop being complacent,
    to stop accepting the way things are, to get up
    from our chair, and to resolve to go ahead and
    turn our lives into what they are meant to be.