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    STRUTTING IS NOT OKAY

    The great Rav Shlomo
    Efraim ben Aharon
    Luntschitz, zt”l, zy”a,
    was the author of the
    famous commentary
    called Kli Yakar which
    graces almost every
    edition of the Mikra’os
    Gedolos Chumash. In 1602, he became the
    Chief Rabbi of Prague and remained in this
    position until his passing in 1619. To me, it is
    fascinating that his concern about the Jewish
    condition of his era mirrors what’s going on in
    our contemporary times over 400 years later.
    On the verse, “Rav lachem sheves bahar hazeh.
    P’nu lachem tzfonah – (Hashem instructs):
    You’ve spent enough time circling this
    mountain (Mount Seir). Turn to the north.”
    The Kli Yakar has a powerful homiletic
    interpretation of this verse. When you are
    in proximity to Seir, which is Esav or other
    goyim, and you are experiencing wealth and
    prosperity, “Yatzpinu v’yatminu atzm’chem
    bifnei Esav – Conceal (expounding the word
    tzfonah) and hide your wealth and success in
    the face of your gentile neighbors.”
    The Kli Yakar advances that Yakov Avinu was
    also worried about the envious eyes of the
    gentiles that surrounded them. Therefore, he
    instructed the shvatim, his sons, to make the
    arduous journey down to Egypt to buy food
    even though they themselves still had ample

    provisions. In explanation, he told his sons,
    “Lamah tis’ra’u – Why should they be gazing
    enviously at us.” Let’s go and search for food
    just like everyone else.
    It is then that the Kli Yakar makes a statement
    which so eerily resembles today’s culture. He
    decries the fact that in his time Jews behaved
    in opposite fashion (that was previously
    instructed by Yakov) by showing off fancy
    clothing, expensive jewelry, and magnificent
    houses. Indeed, the Kli Yakar’s famous
    disciple, the Tosefos Yomtov, lived through
    the Chmielinski massacres, which were
    prompted by the raging Polish peasantry who
    were overwhelmed with jealousy of the Jewish
    bankers and tavern owners.
    Rabbi Berel Wein, zt”l, zy”a, used to say that
    if it wouldn’t have been for the Holocaust, we
    would look back to the Polish atrocities as one
    of the most horrifying periods for the Jewish
    people. In their insane hate for the Jews, the
    Poles would cut off the head of the shul’s
    president, sew the head of a dog onto his body,
    and then parade him through the streets. This
    is what jealousy and envy can cause.
    The Klausenburger Rebbe, zt”l, zy”a, also
    cautioned us to keep a low profile in front of
    the goyim. He cites the Gemara in Chagigah
    [9b] that says, “Ya’ah aniyusa liYehuda’ei
    ki barza sumka l’susya chivara – Poverty is
    beautiful for the Jews, like the fine appearance

    of a red strap on a white horse.” The Rebbe
    observes that the statement, “Poverty is
    beautiful for the Jews,” is mystifying. After
    all, we are taught, “Oni chashev k’meis – A
    poor man is likened to a corpse.” How can
    that be nice for a Jew? Is a Jew supposed to be
    in tatters and downtrodden. Furthermore, why
    this unusual comparison to a white horse with
    a red strap?
    The Rebbe explains that they only put the red
    strap on the horse when they took it outside.
    So too, when we are in the face of the goyim,
    we shouldn’t be ostentatious. A low profile is
    the best thing.
    The Abarbanel writes, as cited by the Pele
    Yoetz, that before the ejection of the Jewish
    community from Spain, the Jewish women
    had so much wealth that they would ride upon
    stately steeds, while bedecked in jewelry more
    lavish than was worn by the Spanish nobility.
    This behavior, he said, “Poked out the eyes of
    the Spaniards,” and led to the expulsion.
    Just a generation ago, Rav Pam, zt”l, zy”a, used
    to advise that on Chanukah, when we open our
    curtains to reveal our menorah for persumei
    nisa, to broadcast the miracle, we should not
    open them too much. This was so the poor
    goy on the street shouldn’t see our elaborate
    chandelier and our fancy China cabinet.
    Rabbi Wein used to say that the benefit of
    history is that we should learn how not to

    make the same mistakes over and over again.
    We don’t need to put our sprawling homes and
    cabana style swimming pools on Instagram for
    everyone to see. Let’s stop strutting. Do we
    need to be publicly flying in private jets? Let’s
    make sure that our late-model Escalade is not
    taking up two spots in front of the post office
    or library. Is it necessary to wear all kinds of
    fancy jewelry when shopping in Walgreens
    or Walmart? When we make elaborate vorts,
    does the music need to blare? Do the drivers
    of cars coming and going need to block up the
    local traffic?
    Let’s remember the sage advice of Yakov,
    “Lamah tis’ra’u? – Why should our neighbors
    look at us with envy and jealousy?” These
    are the emotions that segue so easily into
    venomous hatred. Besides this, we know that
    anytime we are too flashy, we make ourselves
    vulnerable to the dangers of the poisonous
    ayin hara, the evil eye.
    In the merit of trying to live up to the directive
    of hatzneia leches, walking more modestly,
    may Hashem bless us with long life, good
    health, and everything wonderful.