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    SURVIVING THE FLAMES

    Cheshvan, yahrtzeit of Rochel Imeinu. This
    year, the night of October 21 and the day of
    Thursday, October 22.
    As we read Parshas Lech Lecha, telling us
    of Avraham Avinu’s life journey, we recall
    the journey of Rochel Imeinu. A journey
    that took her from the house of Lavan, to
    that of Yaakov Avinu, where she became an
    Eim b’Yisroel. A journey she took not only
    in life, but in death, as she was buried by the
    roadside in Beis Lechem.
    “Rochel mevakah al boneha , Rochel weeps
    for her children. (Yirmiyahu 31:14) Always
    the mother, she pleads on behalf of Am
    Yisroel. Yaakov knew that a day would
    come when the nation will be exiled to
    Babylonia. Pained and shackled, they will
    pass by and daven at the kever of Rochel.
    As they turned to Rochel with words of
    prayer, they were strengthened knowing
    Rochel is listening and intervening on their
    behalf.
    This past week, while I was visiting my
    daughter, her 6-year-old needed “mommy

    time”. She hopped onto my daughter’s lap,
    and dramatically announced, “I need my
    mommy. I’m not going to sleepaway camp,
    I’m not going to seminary, and when I get
    married I am moving in.”
    We all had a laugh. Her words brought a
    smile to our faces, but the truth is, like my
    granddaughter, we all need our mommy –
    Mama Rochel. No trip to Eretz Yisroel is
    complete without a visit to Kever Rochel.
    My mother would often say, that no matter
    the language, Rochel is always identified as
    our mother. Be it Rochel Imeinu, Mama
    Rochel, Mother Rachel, Mère Rachel, or
    Mamá Raquel, Rochel is there for her
    children.
    We are living in trying times. We need
    tefillos desperately. This past Motzoei
    Shabbos, after straightening out the kitchen,
    I turned to the news. What I heard gave me
    chills and shudders. France was burning.
    Demonstrations about the educational
    system and the downward-spiraling
    economy, escalated to mass riots gone out
    of control. Hundreds of thousands on the
    streets. Buildings set ablaze. Windows
    shattered. Stores looted. Mobs running in,

    grabbing whatever they pleased, and
    destroying the stores’ interior in the process.
    Just hours earlier, we read in Parshas
    Noach, “Vatimale ha’aretz chomos, The
    land became filled with robbery.” The
    breaking point for the generation of Noach.
    What marked the end of their society.
    Robbery. Chaos. Turmoil, Violence.
    By Sunday morning, it only worsened. A
    shul in Paris was vandalized. A protest
    about the educational system and economy,
    inexplicably turned to acts of anti-Semitism.
    When a group of men arrived for minyan,
    they discovered that their shul was
    ransacked. The shelves were emptied. Tallis
    bags and tefillin strewn on the floor. The
    Aron Kodesh was opened. The rabbi’s
    study a total mess, papers and seforim
    thrown onto the floor.
    Pictures of Kristallnacht flashed before my
    eyes. How could it be? The words of the
    parsha came alive. Robbery, a total
    disregard of another’s possessions marks
    the breakdown of society. And then, they
    turn to the shul, the Jews. That’s the world
    we live in. A familiar and painful feature of
    Jewish history: the tendency to scapegoat
    Jews for problems they did not cause.
    I could just hear my mother a”h. Over
    twenty years ago, she would say, “The
    world is burning and we are sleeping.
    Europe is becoming Eurabia, and the
    world is silent”. It’s not just Paris. It’s
    Marseille, Toulouse, Lyon, Bordeaux and
    Montpellier. And it’s not just France. The
    unrest has crossed the borders to Milan,
    Brussels and Lisbon. Europe is on fire.
    Once again, the breakdown of society.
    Today, literally, the world is burning. And
    yes, we are still sleeping, thinking all will
    be ok. It’s alright. It will pass. It is not in
    my neighborhood. Until it is.
    In this week’s parsha, HaShem tells
    Avraham, “Lech lecha.” Lech – to go.
    Lecha – for yourself. As Rashi explains,
    “la’hanoscha u’letovascha, for your
    benefit, for your good”. Avraham leaves
    Ur Kasdim, his country, his birthplace,
    his home, his family. A test. We know that
    Avraham was tested ten times, each one
    making him spiritually stronger. By
    passing them all, he became worthy of
    being the father of Am Yisroel.
    Lech Lecha was not Avraham’s first test.
    Many commentators count his refusal to
    worship idols and believe in one G-d as
    the first of the ten. The Midrash tells us
    that he came to the realization that if there
    is a world, sky and land, sun and moon,
    flowers, plants and trees, animals, birds
    and fish, if there is the miracle of life,
    there must be one Creator, One G-d.

    In the pagan world that Avraham was born
    into, that belief was heresy. A crime
    punishable by death. For his refusal to
    worship idols, and steadfast belief in one
    G-d, Avraham was thrown by King Nimrod
    into a fiery furnace. Miraculously, Avraham
    survived the flames, unscathed.
    There is a well-known Midrash Tanchuma,
    “Ma’aseh avos, siman l’banim, What
    happened to our forefathers is a sign for the
    future generations”. I think of Avraham’s
    surviving the flames of Nimrod, and I think
    of our nation that survived the fires of hate
    and anti-Semitism. The fires of the Romans.
    The fires of the Inquisition. The fires of the
    Holocaust. And now, the fires of our
    enemies who surround our Holy Land, and
    the fires of Europe.
    As we study the parsha, we have to ask
    ourselves, what is the message for us today.
    Lech lecha. There is a time when we have to
    leave our comfort zone in order to do,
    accomplish, and fulfill our mission. On
    another level, perhaps lech lecha is our
    wakeup call. To be aware of what is
    happening in the world around us. To
    realize who our enemies are. Lech – to
    leave the mindset of denial behind us.
    Lecha – for our own benefit.
    HaShem tells Avraham, “Look to the
    heaven and count the stars… so too, will be
    your offspring.” (Bereishis 15:5) The Baal
    Shem Tov teaches that when we look at the
    stars, each one looks tiny, like a dot in the
    sky. Yet, in reality, they are quite large. So,
    too, are our people. We may look small, but
    our power is great. The power to survive.
    We must remember that we are the children
    of Avraham Avinu. The stars that HaShem
    promised would be his descendants.
    Avraham’s emuna and bitachon, his strength
    to answer the call of lech lecha, is within us.
    We only have to realize it. That, together
    with the tears and tefillos of Rochel Imeinu,
    will b’ezras HaShem carry us through.