30 Aug THE CASE FOR OPTIMISM
Often, when a person
is going through a
trying time, his friends
and family will urge
him to “think
positive.” We might
ask, why should such a person think
positive? Why should he assume that
the outcome will be positive, and not,
Heaven forbid, the opposite? The Torah
commands in Parashat Shoftim, תמים
תהיה†עם†הß≠†אלוקיך†, which is commonly
translated to mean, “You shall be
simple†with†Hashem†your†G≠dÆ”†This
translation has led many to mistakenly
think that Jewish faith is only for the
simpleminded, that in order to believe
in Hashem, we can’t be intelligent or
sophisticated, and if we are more
intellectually inclined, then we cannot
have faith. This is absolutely false. A
study was once done of experts in a
large variety of fields, testing their rate
of success in making predictions about
their respective fields. The researchers
examined over 82,000 predictions,
testing the outcomes over the course of
many years. The findings were
astounding. The researchers found that
experts’ predictions were even less
accurate than those of ordinary folks
with no expertise in the fields. When my
father was in the hospital for an
extended period, I spoke at length with
some of the greatest doctors in the
relevant field of medicine about his
condition. I was amazed by two things:
by how much they know, and by how
much they don’t know. Their
knowledge was simply extraordinary
and dazzling. But even with all this
knowledge, they were so limited. They
could not predict what would happen. I
mentioned this to one of the doctors, and
he said, “This is exactly what I tell the
members of my team, over and over
again.” Even the brightest, most
knowledgeable, most sophisticated
people on earth cannot predict the
future. Hashem created the world in
such a way that we have absolutely no
idea what the future will bring in any
area of our lives. Nothing about our
lives is guaranteed to stay the same, for
better or for worse. This is what תמים
תהיה†עם†ה߆אלוקיך†means. It doesn’t mean
we should be simpleminded and not be
smart. It means that we must realize that
no matter how smart and sophisticated
we are, only Hashem knows what is
going to happen. We have absolutely no
idea. Halachah requires blowing the
shofar from the narrow end of the
shofar, such that the sound leaves from
the wide end. The Gemara bases this
requirement on the pasuk in Tehillim, מן
המצר†קראתי≠†י≠ה†– we call out to Hashem
from the מצר†, from the narrow
constraints. The Arizal explained that
we must cry out to Hashem recognizing
our constraints and limitations, and
recognizing His unlimited abilities. As
we approach the new year feeling
“constrained,” feeling that we are
trapped in problems and difficult
situations, we must be aware that
Hashem can infinitely expand the range
of possibilities, that He can make
anything happen. This is the case for
optimism. Being optimistic does not
mean being foolish or delusional, or
being irresponsibly impractical. Of
course, when we face a crisis, we need
to do everything possible to help
ourselves. But at the same time, we
need to recognize that so many things
can happen that we cannot even
imagine. Hashem’s range of
capabilities is endless. There is so, so
much that we don’t know. There is so,
so much that can happen that we cannot
ever predict. The possibilities might
seem very limited, but in truth, they
aren’t. When we live with this belief and
this awareness, we begin opening our
eyes to see beautiful things in the world.
We start living with positive energy and
enthusiasm, because we know we aren’t
stuck, we know that anything can
happen, and we gradually start to see
how wonderful things are happening
that we weren’t expecting. Thinking
positive does not ensure that everything
will work out well, but it most certainly
helps ensure that we take notice and
appreciate when it does. And this makes
life so much happier, and so much more
beautiful