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    THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE

    Is it proper to enjoy
    good food or should
    we avoid worldly
    pleasures and focus
    on spiritual success?
    The Talmud
    contains a plethora
    of seemingly
    contradictory indications on whether
    it is morally proper for a Torah
    scholar, someone striving for spiritual
    achievement, to eat good food. Rav
    Ya’akov Emden (Lechem Shamayim,
    Avos 6:4) attempts to resolve the different
    texts into a single, unified approach.
    I. A Life of Pleasure or a Life of
    Abstention?
    Reish Lakish (Berachos 63b) says that
    Torah is only sustained by those who
    “kill” themselves over it, who deny
    themselves pleasure and toil in Torah. Rav
    Huna (Eruvin 54a) says that your Torah is
    sustained if you eat like an animal, which
    Rashi explains means you eat it plain
    without concern for seasoning or taste in
    general. There are many similar passages
    that imply that success as a Torah scholar
    requires indifference to the pleasures of

    eating. Rather, you should eat “bread with
    salt” (Avos 6:4), plain food.
    On the other hand, Rava once asked Rav
    Nachman a complicated question (Bava
    Kamma 72a). Rav Nachman answered
    him but the next morning retracted. He
    said apologetically that he had not eaten
    ox meat the previous day and therefore
    could not concentrate and gave a wrong
    answer. Similarly, Rav Nachman said

    (Eruvin 64a) that until he drinks a quarter-
    log of wine, his mind isn’t clear. If the

    proper path to Torah is eating bread with
    salt and drinking water, how could Rav
    Nachman say that he needed meat and
    wine to learn properly?
    When specific Torah scholars were
    exposed to the fruits of Ginosar (Berachos
    44a), they could not stop eating. For
    example, Rav Ami and Rav Asi ate until
    their hair fell out. Reish Lakish ate until
    he became confused. R. Yochanan had to
    ask for someone to call the authorities to
    take him away because he could not stop
    eating the delicious fruits.
    Torah scholars are supposed to live a
    life of discomfort (“chayei tza’ar”; Avos
    6:4). Yet Rava (Eruvin 65a) says that he

    is so sensitive to discomfort that if he
    is bitten by a louse, he cannot learn the
    rest of that day. Mar, the son of Ravina,
    was similarly sensitive and therefore his
    mother prepared him seven garments for
    each week so he would avoid lice. This
    does not sound like a life of minimal
    comforts and pleasures.
    II. A Life of Focus
    Rav Emden points out that if you grow up
    eating fancy food, then that is what you
    are used to. If you stop eating your regular
    foods, you will become dissatisfied and
    unable to learn Torah to your maximum
    ability. Rav said to Rav Hamnuna (Eruvin
    54a), “If you have money, treat yourself
    well because there is no pleasure in the
    afterlife and death comes quickly.” In
    other words, you are not expected to live
    below your means. You should live a
    life of focus on Torah. In order to do so,
    you should eat as well as you can so you
    have strength to learn Torah. Those who
    can afford better foods should eat better
    foods. Those who cannot afford as much,
    should eat according to their means.
    The Gemara (Ta’anis 11a-b) asks
    whether, according to R. Elazar, someone
    who refrains from enjoying pleasure is
    considered holy or sinful. The Gemara
    answers that someone who is able to
    refrain and does so is considered holy,
    i.e. if he is not used to pleasures and
    refraining from them does not distract
    him from what is important, then he
    should do so. But someone who is not
    able to refrain and nevertheless does
    so is considered a sinner. Rav Emden
    says that the only time you are allowed
    to engage in ascetic practices is out of
    repentance for misdeeds.
    This comes with an important caveat.
    There are spiritual dangers associated
    with enjoying this-worldly pleasures.
    The race for fine foods takes away our
    precious time. The enjoyment of food
    and drink sparks certain temptations.
    If you stop chasing your desires, you
    acquire true freedom and wealth — of a
    spiritual nature. R. Elazar Ben Charsum
    (Yoma 35b) inherited a thousand villages
    and a thousand boats yet he would
    carry a sack of flour from city to city
    in order to study Torah. He wanted to
    be free of his desires in order to pursue
    spiritual goals. Additionally, if you are
    accustomed to fine foods, you have to
    support that habit. This means you have
    to spend time earning enough money
    and, if you lose your fortune, you cease
    being able to learn Torah. There is value
    in needing little because then you can

    easily continue your life without worrying
    about money.
    III. Pleasure With Limits
    Because of these concerns, Rav Emden
    encourages you not to become too
    accustomed to the finer things in life. It
    is appropriate to indulge on occasion but
    if you become habituated to that lifestyle,
    you will spend too much time on it and
    will suffer if you have to reduce it. But it
    is not forbidden and therefore if you need
    to eat fine foods for health purposes or in
    order to remain strong so you can learn
    Torah, then it is proper to do so.
    This balanced approach was the proper
    attitude in Talmudic times. However, we
    live in spiritually impoverished times.
    We are weaker than earlier generations,
    says Rav Emden in eighteenth century
    Germany. We need to eat meat and
    other fine foods in order to feel healthy
    and function properly. R. Elazar Ben
    Azaria (Chullin 84a) advised everyone
    to buy food according to what they can
    afford, and if they cannot afford much
    to delay their main meals until Shabbos.
    Rav Nachman said that this was proper
    in earlier generations but in his weaker
    generation, people need to borrow in
    order to eat immediately. In our times, we
    are weaker than earlier generations and

    need to eat fine foods and enjoy basic this-
    worldly pleasures.

    And yet, Rav Emden cautions, we still
    need to be careful of the dangers of
    consumption. Each individual must take
    care that this not become part of his
    nature, something that he cannot give
    up if the need arises. If you have money,
    treat yourself well — on occasion but not
    constantly, so it is an unusual pleasure and
    not a recurring need. We can occasionally
    indulge our desires in permitted pleasures
    but we have to take care not to become
    slaves to our desires.