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    THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE

    Is it proper to enjoy
    good food or should
    we avoid worldly
    pleasures and
    focus on spiritual
    success? The
    Talmud contains
    a plethora of seemingly contradictory
    indications on whether it is morally proper
    for a Torah scholar, someone striving for
    spiritual achievement, to eat good food.
    Rav Ya’akov Emden (Lechem Shamayim,
    Avos 6:4) attempts to resolve the different
    texts into a single, unified approach.
    I. A Life of Pleasure or a Life of
    Abstention?
    Reish Lakish (Berachos 63b) says that
    Torah is only sustained by those who
    “kill” themselves over it, who deny
    themselves pleasure and toil in Torah. Rav
    Huna (Eruvin 54a) says that your Torah is
    sustained if you eat like an animal, which
    Rashi explains means you eat it plain
    without concern for seasoning or taste in
    general. There are many similar passages
    that imply that in order to succeed as a
    Torah scholar, you must pay no attention
    to the pleasures of eating. Rather, you

    should eat “bread with salt” (Avos 6:4),
    plain food.
    On the other hand, Rava once asked Rav
    Nachman a complicated question (Bava
    Kamma 72a). Rav Nachman answered
    him but the next morning retracted. He
    said apologetically that he had not eaten ox
    meat the previous day and therefore could
    not concentrate and gave a wrong answer.
    Similarly, Rav Nachman said (Eruvin 64a)
    that until he drinks a quarter-log of wine,
    his mind isn’t clear. If the proper path to
    Torah is eating bread with salt and drinking
    water, how could Rav Nachman say that he
    needed meat and wine to learn properly?
    When specific Torah scholars were
    exposed to the fruits of Ginosar (Berachos
    44a), they could not stop eating. For
    example, Rav Ami and Rav Asi ate until
    their hair fell out. Reish Lakish are until he
    became confused. R. Yochanan had to ask
    for someone to call the authorities to take
    him away because he could not stop eating
    the delicious fruits.
    Torah scholars are supposed to live a life
    of discomfort (“chayei tza’ar”; Avos 6:4).
    Yet Rava (Eruvin 65a) says that he is so

    sensitive to discomfort that if he is bitten
    by a louse, he cannot learn the rest of that
    day. Mar, the son of Ravina, was similarly
    sensitive and therefore his mother
    prepared him seven garments for each
    week so he would avoid lice. This does
    not sound like a life of minimal comforts
    and pleasures.
    II. A Life of Focus
    Rav Emden points out that if you grow up
    eating fancy food, then that is what you
    are used to. If you stop eating your regular
    foods, you will become dissatisfied and
    unable to learn Torah to your maximum
    ability. Rav said to Rav Hamnuna (Eruvin
    54a), “If you have money, treat yourself
    well because there is no pleasure in the
    afterlife and death comes quickly.” In
    other words, you are not expected to live
    below your means. You should live a life
    of focus on Torah. In order to do so, you
    should eat as well as you can so you have
    strength to learn Torah. Those who can
    afford better foods, should eat better foods.
    Those who cannot afford as much, should
    eat according to their means.
    The Gemara (Ta’anis 11a-b) asks whether,
    according to R. Elazar, someone who
    refrains from enjoying pleasure is
    considered holy or sinful. The Gemara
    answers that someone who is able to
    refrain and does so is considered holy,
    i.e. if he is not used to pleasures and
    refraining from them does not distract
    him from what is important, then he
    should do so. But someone who is not
    able to refrain and nevertheless does
    so is considered a sinner. Rav Emden
    says that the only time you are allowed
    to engage in ascetic practices is out of
    repentance for misdeeds.
    This comes with an important caveat.
    There are spiritual dangers associated
    with enjoying this-worldly pleasures.
    The race for fine foods takes away our
    precious time. The enjoyment of food
    and drink sparks certain temptations.
    If you stop chasing your desires, you
    acquire true freedom and wealth — of a
    spiritual nature. R. Elazar Ben Charsum
    (Yoma 35b) inherited a thousand
    villages and a thousand boats yet he
    would carry a sack of flour from city to
    city in order to study Torah. He wanted
    to be free of his desires in order to pursue
    spiritual goals. Additionally, if you are
    accustomed to fine foods, you have to
    support that habit. This means you have
    to spend time earning enough money
    and, if you lose your fortune, you cease
    being able to learn Torah. There is value
    in needing little because then you can

    easily continue your life without worrying
    about money.
    III. Pleasure With Limits
    Because of these concerns, Rav Emden
    encourages you not to become too
    accustomed to the finer things in life. It
    is appropriate to indulge on occasion but
    if you become habituated to that lifestyle,
    you will spend too much time on it and will
    suffer if you have to reduce it. But it is not
    forbidden and therefore if you need to eat
    fine foods for health purposes or in order to
    remain strong so you can learn Torah, then
    it is proper to do so.
    That was the proper attitude in Talmudic
    times. However, we live in spiritually
    impoverished times. We are weaker than
    earlier generations, says Rav Emden in
    eighteenth century Germany. We need
    to eat meat and other fine foods in order
    to feel healthy and function properly. R.
    Elazar Ben Azaria (Chullin 84a) advised
    everyone to buy food according to what
    they can afford, and if they cannot afford
    much to delay their main meals until
    Shabbos. Rav Nachman said that this was
    proper in earlier generations but in his
    weaker generation, people need to borrow
    in order to eat immediately. In our times,
    we are weaker than earlier generations and

    need to eat fine foods and enjoy basic this-
    worldly pleasures.

    And yet, Rav Emden cautions, we still
    need to be careful of the dangers of
    consumption. Each individual must take
    care that this not become part of his
    nature, something that he cannot give
    up if the need arises. If you have money,
    treat yourself well — on occasion but not
    constantly, so it is an unusual pleasure and
    not a recurring need. We can occasionally
    indulge our desires in permitted pleasures
    but we have to take care not to become
    slaves to our desires.