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    THE GREAT TREASURE OF PIRKEI AVOS

    At this time of the year,
    Klal Yisroel breaks
    out one of its national
    treasures: the Mishnayos
    of Pirkei Avos. This
    anthology of select ethical
    teachings, transmitted
    to us by our gigantic
    teachers, presents us with
    a truly great opportunity to achieve personal
    excellence.
    The name Pirkei Avos is perplexing. Names
    such as Sefer HaMidos (A Compendium of
    Character Traits) or Hilchos Dei’os (Laws of
    Proper Jewish Attitudes) spring to the mind as
    more descriptive titles. Yet the name Pirkei
    Avos, Chapters of Our Fathers, reveals many
    secrets about this masechta (tractate).
    The many parents who read this column are
    charged with the duties of educating their
    youth. After all, the posuk tells us, “Shma
    beni musar avicha, v’al titosh Toras imecha
    – Listen my son to the lessons of your father,
    and don’t turn from the teachings of your
    mother.” Wow! That’s a big expectation upon
    us. Where is the guidebook to direct us in how
    to teach our children?
    Wallah! We have Pirkei Avos – a syllabus and
    full curriculum for parents on how to mold
    their children into well-rounded and refined
    Torah human beings. Thus, it is literally
    described as “Chapters for Fathers,” replete
    with lessons about humility and generosity,

    smiles, and self-control.
    This title also teaches us how to view our
    ethical mentors correctly. It is quite natural
    to dislike those who criticize and rebuke you.
    After all, nobody likes to be dressed down.
    Thus, a Mashgiach might not be popular
    among certain students and a Rav might not
    sometimes win many friends. Yet the name
    Pirkei Avos impresses upon us that the Sages,
    who imbue into us lessons of character and
    ethical behavior, should be loved by us like a
    father. For, when we follow their advice and
    pay attention to their criticism, they actually
    give us life in the World to Come. Thus, they
    are our fathers for eternity. In this vein, the
    next time your knee-jerk reaction is to be upset
    that the Rabbi is once again having a tirade
    about something, stop and think that perhaps
    he might actually be giving the priceless gift
    of a greater eternity.
    We learn this awesome collection in the
    springtime precisely when our physical
    inclinations are budding and arousing. Added
    to this is the fact that, during the days of
    counting sefira, we commemorate the climb
    of spiritual refinement that we accomplished
    when we left Mitzrayim. Sefira recalls how
    we rose from the forty-ninth degree of tumah
    (impurity) to the pinnacle and zenith of Har
    Sinai. We too, when learning how to achieve
    the triple pursuit of Torah, Divine Service, and
    Kindness to Others, are attempting to climb
    the same ladder that our ancestors climbed so

    successfully.
    It is a shame that many do not open up a Pirkei
    Avos with a sense of thirst and exhilaration.
    Perhaps, if we would keep it in a glass case,
    and charge ten dollars per minute for a peek
    inside, people would better appreciate its
    value. Its lessons on how to balance our lives
    and how to juggle our priorities are indeed
    priceless and eternal.
    Here is one reason why more people do not
    take advantage of its life enhancing treasures.
    Almost all of us have read superficially its
    teachings over and over again. And therefore,
    unfortunately, too many people think of
    Pirkei Avos as ‘old hat.’ Or, to put it another
    way, we’ve ‘Been there; Done that.’ This is
    a terrible shame for, as we grow wiser with
    experience, we can mine many new and
    profound lessons from these teachings. My
    present recommendation for people who want
    to be intellectually challenged and spiritually
    improved from these ancient insights is to find
    a new commentary that you have not studied
    before. Drink from its words of wisdom with
    spiritual excitement! The ArtScroll Maharal
    on Pirkei Avos and collections of Gerrer
    teachings are but two examples that spring
    immediately to the mind. Of course, Reb
    Irving Bunim’s classic, Ethics From Sinai, is
    a wonderful companion if you haven’t as yet
    enjoyed it.
    To get the most out of your Pirkei Avos
    experience, after learning a Mishna, ask

    yourself, ‘Is this the way that I would have
    viewed this subject?’ If not, study how you
    should change your view on the issue. This
    exercise then becomes a grand opportunity to
    improve your outlook on life.
    May all of us, with the help of Hashem, merit
    to study and embrace the ideology of Pirkei
    Avos and, in that merit, be zoche to wonderful
    Torah blessings.