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    THE GREAT TREASURE OF PIRKEI AVOS

    At this time of the year,
    Klal Yisroel breaks
    out one of its national
    treasures: the Mishnayos
    of Pirkei Avos. This
    anthology of select ethical
    teaching, transmitted to us
    by our gigantic teachers,
    presents us with a truly great opportunity to
    achieve personal excellence.
    The name Pirkei Avos is perplexing. Names
    such as Sefer HaMidos (A Compendium of
    Character Traits) or Hilchos Dei’os (Laws of
    Proper Jewish Attitudes) spring to the mind as
    more descriptive titles. Yet the name Pirkei
    Avos, Chapters of Our Fathers, reveals many
    secrets about this masechta (tractate).
    The many parents who read this column are
    charged with the duties of educating their
    youth. After all, the posuk tells us, “Shma
    b’ni musar avicha, v’al titosh Toras imecha
    – Listen my son to the lessons of your father,
    and don’t turn from the teachings of your
    mother.” Wow! That’s a big expectation upon
    us. Where is the guidebook to direct us in how
    to teach our children?
    Wallah! We have Pirkei Avos – a syllabus and
    full curriculum for parents on how to mold their
    children into well rounded and refined Torah
    human beings. The Meiri says that every type
    of good behavior is covered in this Masechta!

    Thus, it is literally described as “Chapters for
    Fathers,” replete with lessons about humility
    and generosity, smiles, and self-control.
    This title also teaches us how to view our
    ethical mentors correctly. It is quite natural
    to dislike those who criticize and rebuke
    you. After all, nobody likes to be dressed
    down. Thus, a Mashgiach might not be
    popular among certain students, and a Rav
    might not sometimes win many friends. Yet
    the name Pirkei Avos impresses upon us that
    the approximately sixty Sages of this lofty
    compendium, who imbue lessons of character
    and ethical behavior, should be loved by us like
    a father. For, when we follow their advice and
    pay attention to their criticism, they actually
    give us life in the World to Come. Thus, they
    are our fathers for eternity. In this vein, the
    next time your knee-jerk reaction is to be upset
    that the Rabbi is once again having a tirade
    about something, stop and think that perhaps
    he might actually be giving you the priceless
    gift of a greater eternity.
    We learn this awesome collection in the
    springtime and summertime precisely when
    our physical inclinations are budding and
    arousing. Added to this is the fact that, during
    the days of counting sefira, we commemorate
    the climb of spiritual refinement that we
    accomplished when we left Mitzrayim. Sefira
    recalls how we rose from the forty-ninth

    degree of tumah (impurity) to the pinnacle and
    zenith of Har Sinai. We too, when learning
    how to achieve the triple pursuit of Torah,
    Divine Service, and Kindness to Others, are
    attempting to climb the same ladder that our
    ancestors climbed so successfully.
    It is a shame that many do not open a Pirkei
    Avos with a sense of thirst and exhilaration.
    Perhaps, if we would keep it in a glass case,
    and charge ten dollars per minute for a peek
    inside, people would appreciate its value more.
    Its lessons on how to balance our lives and how
    to juggle our priorities are indeed priceless and
    eternal.
    Here is one reason why more people do not
    take advantage of Pirkei Avos’s life enhancing
    treasures. Almost all of us have read it
    superficially over and over again. Therefore,
    unfortunately, too many people think of Pirkei
    Avos as ‘old hat.’ Or, to put it another way,
    we’ve ‘Been there; Done that.’ This is a terrible
    shame for, as we grow wiser with experience,
    we can mine many new and profound lessons
    from these teachings.
    My present recommendation for people
    who want to be intellectually challenged
    and spiritually improved from these ancient
    insights is to find a new commentary that
    you have not studied before. Drink from its
    words of wisdom with spiritual excitement!
    The ArtScroll Maharal on Pirkei Avos and

    collections of Gerrer teachings are but two
    examples that spring immediately to the mind.
    Of course, Reb Irving Bunim’s classic, Ethics
    From Sinai, is a wonderful companion if you
    haven’t yet enjoyed it.
    To get the most out of your Pirkei Avos
    experience, after learning a Mishna ask
    yourself, ‘Is this the way that I would have
    viewed this subject?’ If not, study how you
    should change your view on the issue. This
    exercise then becomes a grand opportunity to
    improve your outlook on life.
    May all of us, with the help of Hashem, merit
    to study and embrace the ideology of Pirkei
    Avos and, in that merit, be zoche to long life,
    good health, and everything wonderful.