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    THE MYSTERY OF THE ATARAH

    All married men wear a
    tallis gadol in the morning
    when they pray and most
    people have a special and
    exclusive tallis they wear
    in honor of the Shabbos.
    Many people, especially
    among the Chassidim,
    wear an atarah, a crown, a beautiful strip of
    silver on the top of the tallis. Some even
    place the silver atarah upon a layer of velvet
    as a further adornment. Yet, other very great
    people such as Rav Moshe Feinstein, zt”l,
    zy”a, and Rav Yakov Kamenetsky, zt”l, zy”a,
    wore a simple tallis on Shabbos without any
    ornamentation whatsoever.
    What would be the reason to abstain from the
    silver atarah? After all, it says, “Zeh Kei’li
    v’anveihu – This is my G-d and I will glorify
    Him.” The Gemara elaborates, “Hisna’eh
    lifonov b’mitzvos – Be beautiful before Him
    with your mitzvos,” so, what would be a
    reason to choose the plain route?
    First, let’s talk about the origin of the atarah on
    the tallis. The Mogen Avraham quotes from the
    Shelah HaKodosh, zt”l, zy”a, that the atarah is
    to ensure that the side of the tallis which goes
    upon the head should always be used for the
    head. As it says, “Ma’alin b’kodesh v’ein
    moridin – We go up in holiness and we never
    descend.” He cites as a source for this the
    verse, “V’hakimosa es haMishkan k’mishpato

    – You should erect the Tabernacle properly.”
    Chazal explains that this is the source that
    all the Tabernacle’s beams were numbered to
    ensure that each beam that was positioned by
    the Holy of Holies remained so, once again,
    ensuring that no beam was demoted from its
    previous holy location. (Some people even
    have a custom of marking the wooden boards
    of their sukkah to remember which boards
    were used in the front for the family, ensuring
    that these same boards remain in that position
    from year to year.)
    So now, it’s even more mysterious. Why
    would people abstain from using a beautiful
    atarah? The answer is in a Levush, zt”l,
    zy”a, who explains that the atarah makes the
    tallis look like an adornment of the head. If
    it would only be such, the article itself would
    be exempt from having tzitzis on the corners.
    For the posuk says, “Asher tichaseh bah –
    Which you cover your whole body with,” and
    putting an atarah only on the head would be
    misleading. This explains the unusual custom
    that is seen by certain Rebbes. In addition to
    the atarah at the head, they have another silver
    strip horizontally in the middle of their tallis.
    Many people find that very strange, but it is
    done to remove the issue raised by the Levush.
    By putting this silver strip also in the middle,
    the silver clearly isn’t only an adornment of
    the head.
    This was a well-known and popular minhag

    in Poland and it was the minhag of the late
    Munkatcher Rebbe, Rabbi Chaim Elazar Spira,
    the Minchas Elazar, zt”l, zy”a. Yet many of
    the Lithuanian Roshei Yeshiva eschew the
    atarah and go with a simple plain tallis, and
    such was the recommendation of the Orech
    HaShulchan.
    Once we are speaking about the tallis, let
    me point out some of its powers. The Kaf
    HaChaim cites that properly having in mind
    the mitzvah of the tallis gadol is protection
    for one’s teeth, for there are 4 corners of 8
    threads, which equal 32, the number of teeth
    in one’s mouth. The bracha that we make on
    the tallis gadol is, “L’hisateif ba’tzitzis – To
    wrap (oneself) in tzitzis,” whose roshei teivos,
    starting letters, are lammed (30) and beis (2),
    which also equals 32. Furthermore, Masechtas
    Bava Metzia [2a] starts off, “Shnai’im ochzin
    b’tallis – Two people who see a tallis,” but the
    word shnai’im could also refer to teeth, hinting
    that the tallis is helpful for the teeth.
    The Chafetz Chaim, zt”l, zy”a, writes that one
    who is frustrated and feels anger coming upon
    them should grab onto his tzitzis, which are a
    segulah against anger. (HaRav Aharon Yehuda
    Leib Shteinman, zt”l, zy”a, whimsically says
    that a better segulah against anger is simply to
    keep one’s mouth shut!) Ben Yehoyada, zt”l,
    zy”a, says that on each corner of the tallis is
    the tzitzis, made up of 8 threads and 5 knots.
    This equals 13. Thirteen times all 4 corners

    equal 52, which is the gematria of ben (beis=2
    and nun=50), a son. He thus says that having
    a nice tallis is a segulah to have a son. And
    that’s why is says, “V’asu lahem tzitzis al
    kanfei vigdeihem l’dorosom – And you should
    make tzitzis on the corners of your garments
    for generations,” hinting to the fact that the
    tzitzis aid families in having generations.
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    In the merit of our tzitzis, may Hashem cloak
    us with protection and bless us with long life,
    good health and everything wonderful.