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    THREE LAYERS OF HUMAN IDENTITY THE HUMAN TREE

    The Human Tree
    “The human being is
    a tree of the field,”
    the Torah states. In
    fact, the Jewish
    calendar reserves one
    day each year, the
    “New Year for Trees” on the 15th of Shevat,
    for us to contemplate our affinity with the
    botanical universe.
    Why is the human being compared, in the
    biblical imagination, to a tree?
    Roots, Body & Fruit
    A tree’s primary components are the roots,
    which anchor it to the ground and supply it
    with water and other nutrients; the trunk,
    branches, and leaves that comprise its body;
    and the fruit, which is harvested and enjoyed
    by humans or animals and also contains the
    seeds through which the tree can reproduce.
    This is why the Torah compares us to trees
    because a human being is also comprised of
    three components: roots, a body, and fruit.
    This comparison holds true on three levels:
    psychologically, chronologically, and
    spiritually.
    The roots of the tree, buried underground and
    mostly invisible, represent the subconscious
    layers of the human psyche, which are for the
    most part invisible. Just like the roots of a
    tree, the composition, breadth, and depth of
    the human subconscious are disguised and
    constitute the roots of all manifestations of
    the human self.
    The body of the tree – the conspicuous
    manifestation of its roots — symbolizes the
    conscious personality of the human being,
    the way we describe our existence consciously
    to ourselves. It is the “person” you (think
    you) know.
    The fruit of the tree – harvested and consumed
    by others – represents the impact we have on
    the lives of people around us; our power to
    plant a seed in a fellow human being and see
    it sprout, grow and bear fruit.
    Childhood, Adulthood & Leadership
    On a chronological level, the roots represent
    the childhood years, when our subconscious
    convictions and feelings are being molded,
    which is why investing time and energy in
    children is the noblest and critical endeavor.
    A scratch on the trunk does not amount to
    much; a defect in the roots can impact the
    entire tree. The significance of childhood is
    often invisible like the roots of a tree, but it is
    the foundation of everything that comes later.
    Nurture those roots and your tree will be
    beautiful.
    As we graduate from childhood and become
    self-efficient humans, we are compared to the
    tall and projective trunk of the tree. At last,
    we have emerged to become independent and
    self-standing adults.
    Then, as we grow older and become leaders
    in our communities, as we marry, bear
    children and create something larger than
    ourselves, we begin to produce “fruit” that

    continue to procreate and impact generations
    to come.
    Conviction, Study & Giving
    On a spiritual level, the roots represent faith,
    our source of nurture and perseverance. The
    trunk is the visible “body” of our spiritual
    lives — our intellectual, emotional, and
    practical achievements; our study of Torah,
    observance of mitzvot, and daily positive
    actions. Finally, the fruit represents our
    power of spiritual procreation — the ability
    to influence others, to plant seeds in others’
    souls, to inspire them to grow and cast their
    light on the world.
    Faith, just like roots, constitutes the
    foundation of life (without roots, a tree
    cannot survive). Our emunah, faith, the
    essential organic spirituality and meaning of
    life are the foundation of our entire “tree.”
    From it stems the trunk of our understanding,
    from which branch out our feelings,
    motivations, and deeds. Yet the true extent of
    faith is concealed from others and even from
    ourselves.
    “The human being is a tree of the field.” We
    operate on three levels. There is who we are
    (the roots); who we think we are (the trunk),
    and who others think we are (the fruit). In a
    tree, the three components are integrated into
    a single, wholesome entity. Our job, the
    Torah is intimating, is to integrate the
    components of our “tree,” so that our roots,
    bodies, and fruits become one.
    Are You a Bird, a Wall, or a Tree?
    There is another reason we are compared to a
    tree. There is an intriguing Midrash based on
    a verse in Tehillim (Chapter 144) where
    Dovid Hamelech states: “Yamav Ketzeil
    Oyver” – A person’s years are like a passing
    shadow.
    One of the great Talmudic sages, Rabbi
    Huna, in the Midrash (Midrash Rabbah
    Bereishis 96:2) explains this verse to mean
    that there are three types of shadows. One is
    the shadow of a bird, which flies by quickly
    and casts its shadow for a fleeting moment.
    The second is the shadow cast by a wall,
    which has some permanence, as it is seen
    during the early hours of the morning and in
    the late afternoon, but in the midday sun,
    there is no wall-shadow.
    Finally, there is the shadow generated by the
    tree, which is consistent throughout the day.
    And Rabbi Huna continues: “Would that life
    was like the shadow cast by a wall or a tree,
    but it is like the shadow of a bird in flight,”
    — “Yamav Ketzeil Oyver” – A persons years
    are like a passing shadow.
    What does this mean? How is it that our days
    are likened to the fleeting shadow of a bird,
    which doesn’t remain stationary for a
    moment? After all, our days, though relatively
    few, still have some degree of continuity and
    permanence. People live seventy, eighty,
    even 100 years. If, indeed, our days are as an
    insubstantial shadow, are they not at least like
    the shadow of a tree and not that of a bird?

    Reflecting on Three Life-
    Styles

    The message here is simple yet
    profound. The three types of
    shadows represent three very
    different lifestyles. There are
    people who generate the shadow
    of a bird, others who create the
    shadow of the wall while others
    who are compared to the tree and
    its shadow.
    Every human being leaves an
    impact. Each of us casts our own
    inimitable shadow on our world.
    “Life is a powerful play and you
    contribute your verse,” a poet
    once said. Each of us contributes our note to
    the ballad we call life. The question is, how
    profound and how real is our impact? Will
    my shadow be the one of a bird, a wall, or a
    tree?
    Rabbi Huna says that there are those
    individuals whose life can be compared to the
    passing shadow of a flying bird. The bird flies
    and the shadow flies with it. This represents
    an individual whose impact is fleeting. He
    may live for many years and he may spend
    five decades building a business or a
    company, but this may prove one day to go
    down the tubes without true and lasting
    value. This person may have been very very
    busy, but essentially he is like a flying bird.
    He was not involved in anything which really
    left an impression, which made an eternal
    dent. He cast a shadow by virtue of being
    alive, of walking the street, of shopping in the
    store, of depositing money in his bank
    account, of selling a house, of tailoring his
    clothes and purchasing his car. But this
    shadow comes and goes.
    How many people have shared their regrets
    over their past lifestyle? “I worked 13 hours a
    day for 10 years, I neglected my most
    important relationships, and for what? Where
    did all this work go to? Was what it invested
    in?
    Is Your Jar Full?
    A professor stood before his philosophy class
    and had some items in front of him. When the
    class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very
    large and empty mayonnaise jar and
    proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
    asked the students if the jar was full. They
    agreed that it was.
    So the professor then picked up a box of
    pebbles and poured them into the jar. He
    shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into
    the open areas between the golf balls. He
    then asked the students again if the jar was
    full. They agreed it was.
    The professor next picked up a box of sand
    and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand
    filled up everything else. He asked once more
    if the jar was full. The students responded
    with a unanimous “yes.”
    The professor then produced two cans of beer
    from under the table and poured the entire

    contents into the jar, effectively filling the
    empty space between the sand. The students
    laughed.
    “Now,” said the Professor, as the laughter
    subsided, “I want you to recognize that this
    jar represents your life.
    “The golf balls are the important things –
    your deepest values, your G-d, your soul,
    your family, your children, your health, your
    friends, your passions, your conscience –
    things that if everything else was lost and
    only they remained, your life would still be
    full.
    “The pebbles are the other things that matter,
    your job, your house, your car. The sand is
    everything else – the small stuff.”
    “If you put the sand into the jar first”, he
    continued, “there is no room for the pebbles
    or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If
    you spend all your time and energy on the
    small stuff, you will never have room for the
    things that are important to you. Pay attention
    to the things that are critical to your happiness.
    Play with your children, take time to build a
    relationship with your soul, with your spouse.
    There will always be time to clean the house,
    and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf
    balls first, the things that really matter. Set
    your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
    When he had finished, there was a profound
    silence. Then one of the students raised her
    hand and with a puzzled expression, and
    inquired what the beer represented.
    The Professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked. It
    just goes to show you that no matter how full
    your life may seem, there’s always room for a
    couple of L’chayim’s.”
    The Wall
    There is a second category of people whose
    lives can be compared to the shadow of a
    wall. A shadow of a wall has some
    permanence, it is seen during the early hours
    of the morning and in the late afternoon, but
    in the midday sun, the impact of the wall
    fades; there is no wall-shadow.
    These are people who leave an impact when
    there is no major heat and passion in their
    lives. When the game is waning and there is
    not much action going on they become
    sensible. In the morning and evening hours,
    when they are very young or quite old, when

    things are quiet and calm, they are ready to
    give of themselves to others and invest in
    eternity. As long as the sun in their life is
    burning hot, they are too caught up in
    themselves to reflect on how they are
    impacting others.
    “When you’re coming home dad?” our
    children ask us. And the answer: When the
    sun begins to set. When I get older, and finally
    make it, when I retire, then I will begin to
    spend time with my children, with my soul,
    with my G-d, with my spouse.
    The problem is that those who needed our
    shade and our comfort during those days,
    don’t need as much now when my sun has
    begun to set. I missed the opportunity…
    Finally, there is a life that can be likened to
    the shadow of a tree. Under the branches of a
    tree, you can always find shade and comfort.
    No matter if it’s morning, midday or evening,
    the tree always casts its healing shade and
    invites every passerby to bask in its tranquil
    and reinvigorating environment.
    This represents the type of person who never
    ceases to remember that he or she is an
    ambassador of G-d at this very moment to
    bring light, clarity, and love to the people
    around him and her. No matter where he or
    she stands in life – if the sun is just rising, or
    it’s fully aglow, or it is on its way down – this

    person never fails to serve as an agent of love,
    hope, and trust. This person does not get
    drunk on his own accomplishments but
    remembers his duty to those around him, to
    his loved ones, to the community, our nation,
    and our world.
    The Talmud relates the following story:
    An old man was planting a tree. A young
    person passed by and asked, What are you
    planting?
    A carob tree, the old man replied.
    Silly fool, said the youth. Don’t you know
    that it takes 70 years for a carob tree to bear
    fruit?
    That’s okay, said the old man. Just as others
    planted for me, I plant for future generations.
    This is the question: are you and I “planting”
    something in our lives which our
    grandchildren will be able to look at and say,
    “thank you, grandpa, thank you, grandma?”
    That is why the Torah compared us to the tree
    in the field.
    There are people who never begin to live.
    There are people who are waiting till they can
    begin to live. And there are people who never
    stop living.
    The Meaning of Life
    On the first day, G-d created the dog and said:
    “Sit all day by the door of your house and
    bark at anyone who comes in or walks past.

    For this, I will give you a life
    span of twenty years.”
    The dog said: “That’s a long
    time to be barking. How about
    only ten years and I’ll give you
    back the other ten?”
    So G-d agreed.
    On the second day, G-d created
    the monkey and said:
    “Entertain people, do tricks,
    and make them laugh. For this,
    I’ll give you a twenty-year life
    span.”
    The monkey said: “Monkey
    tricks for twenty years? That’s
    a pretty long time to perform.
    How about I give you back ten like the dog
    did?”
    And G-d agreed.
    On the third day, G-d created the cow and
    said: ”You must go into the field with the
    farmer all day long and suffer under the sun,
    have calves and give milk to support the
    farmer’s family For this, I will give you a life
    span of sixty years.”
    The cow said: “That’s kind of a tough life you
    want me to live for sixty years. How about
    twenty and I’ll give back the other forty?”
    And G-d agreed again.
    On the fourth day, G-d created man and said:

    “Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life.
    For this, I’ll give you twenty years.”
    But man said: “Only twenty years? Could you
    possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow
    gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and
    the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty,
    okay?”
    “Okay,” said G-d, “You asked for it.”
    So that is why for our first twenty years we
    eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the
    next forty years, we slave in the sun to support
    our family. For the next ten years, we do
    monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren.
    And for the last ten years, we sit on the front
    porch and bark at everyone.