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    VAESCHANAN: THE GREATER THE HARDSHIPS, THE GREATER THE GOODNESS THAT FOLLOWS.

    The rule is that after
    a difficult period,
    better times follow.
    For example, the
    Ramchal teaches,
    “After a hunger year,
    Hashem brings a lot
    of rain to the world.”
    Also, there is a saying:
    “After a fire, Hashem
    sends wealth.” Rebbe
    Pinchas of Koritz zt’l
    says that this is true.
    Hashem shows us open kindness after
    suffering hardship.
    The Baal HaTanya says (quoted in
    Tzemech Tzedek, Derech Mitzvoseicha,
    228), “Many people say, ‘After a fire,
    we become wealthy.’ I heard from holy
    tzaddikim that this is because the order
    of the middos are chesed, din, rachamim
    (kindness, strict judgment, and then
    compassion). Therefore, since there was
    the din, strict judgment, evidenced by the
    fire, rachamim, Hashem’s compassion

    will follow. Rachamim (compassion)
    is greater than the initial chesed, as is
    known.”
    The Avodas Yisrael compares it to a father
    who rebukes his child harshly, but then he
    draws him near and shows him how much
    he loves him. The great kindness makes
    up for the hard times that preceded it.
    On Tisha b’Av, we put on tefillin only
    in the afternoon. The Avodas Yisrael
    explains that tefillin on the head represents
    acquiring wisdom, and Tisha b’Av in the
    afternoon, we acquire the knowledge and
    awareness that Hashem loves us.
    This week’s parashah has the Aseres
    HaDibros in it, another indication of
    Hashem’s kindness that follows after hard
    times. Hashem gives us the Torah again
    and tells us that He wants to renew our
    relationship.
    The following illustrates how Hashem’s
    kindness follows a difficult moment.
    Reb Tuvia Weiss zt’l was a Rav in
    Antwerp (before he became the Gaavad

    of Yerushalayim). Antwerp’s
    rabbanim arranged a rotation
    system among themselves for
    the honor of siddur kiddushin
    (to preside at a chuppah).
    Once, someone asked
    Reb Tuvia to be mesader
    kiddushin, and he accepted.
    He was so engrossed in his
    learning, he lost track that it
    was really another Rav’s turn
    for this honor.
    At the chuppah, someone
    embarrassed Reb Tuvia for
    being mesader kiddushin.
    It was humiliating, and Reb
    Tuvyah turned red and white
    from shame.
    Later that evening, Reb Tuvia
    was learning with a chavrusah. The phone
    rang at 9:30. Reb Tuvyah instructed him
    not to answer. Every night, they learned
    until 10:00 pm, and he didn’t want to
    interrupt their studies until then.

    At 10:00 the phone rang again. It was
    the Eidah Chareidis of Yerushalayim,
    inviting Reb Tuvyah to be the gaavad of
    Yerushalayim.
    This is the pattern. After enduring
    humiliation or any difficult period,
    excellent times will follow.