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    VAETHANAN: EVERY PRAYER IS EFFECTIVE

    Parashat Vaethanan
    begins with Moshe
    recalling his
    impassioned prayer
    to be allowed to enter
    Eretz Yisrael. Our Sages teach that Moshe
    recited 515 prayers at this time, alluded to
    by the word “Vaethanan” (“I pleaded”),
    which has the numerical value of 515.
    Finally, after reciting 515 prayers, G-d told
    Moshe to stop praying, because he was not
    being allowed entry into Eretz Yisrael.
    The question naturally arises, why didn’t
    G-d stop Moshe earlier? If G-d was
    determined to forbid Moshe from entering
    the land, why did He wait until Moshe
    recited 515 prayers before stopping him? If
    the prayers were going to be unanswered,
    would it not have been preferable for
    Moshe to do something more productive?
    Didn’t he have work to do that was more
    valuable than prayers which were destined
    from the outset to be unanswered?
    The Gemara speaks of prayer as
    “something which stands at the height of
    the world, but people belittle it” (“Omed
    Be’rumo Shel Olam U’beneh Adam

    Mezalzelin Bo”). In other words, prayer
    is underrated. People do not afford it the
    importance and value that it deserves. Too
    often we treat prayer as just an obligatory
    ritual, or as an optional religious activity,
    without recognizing its immense value and
    power.
    There are several reasons why people
    belittle the importance of prayer. First,
    because we do it so often, it becomes
    routine and monotonous, and we thus fail
    to invest the time and emotional energy
    it deserves. Secondly, the daily prayers
    require a strict, regimented schedule that
    is difficult for many people to follow, and
    thus they give it up.
    But the main reason why people do not
    afford prayer the importance and attention
    it deserves is because they have grown up
    with a fundamentally flawed perspective
    on prayer. Many of us are always told that
    if we want something we should pray for
    it, and continue praying until our prayers
    are unanswered. We were thus trained
    to perceive prayer as nothing more but a
    means of achieving what we want. And
    thus when we do not get what we pray for,

    we give up. This causes us to “belittle”
    prayer. We see that our prayers don’t work,
    and thus conclude that it’s not useful.
    But this is not what prayer is about. Prayer
    is inherently valuable, and every single
    prayer has some positive effect. It might
    not be the effect we had in mind, but it
    is effective. We might compare prayer to
    rainclouds. There is plenty of moisture in
    the sky, but we do not know precisely when
    or where any given drop will fall. Our
    prayers enter the heavenly “prayer bank,”
    as it were, and form a “prayer cloud.” G-d,
    in His infinite wisdom, decides when and
    how each prayer will be used. We do not
    have access to this information, but we do
    know that each and every word of prayer
    that we recite is inherently valuable and
    will have some effect at some point.
    There was once a boy who fervently prayed
    for an ill patient named Yosef Ben Shimon.
    He recited his prayers tearfully and with
    genuine emotion, and was devastated
    when Yosef Ben Shimon passed away,
    figuring that his payers were recited for
    naught. He did not know that across the
    country, in California, there was another

    ill patient named Yosef Ben Shimon. He
    fully recovered from his illness, and after
    his recovery he had a daughter. That girl
    grew up and married the fellow who had
    recited for the other Yosef Ben Shimon.
    His prayers were answered, but not in the
    way he thought. Because of his prayers,
    his future wife came into the world.
    Prayer is “Omed Be’rumo Shel Olam.”
    Every single prayer hovers in the sky,
    waiting until the moment when Hashem
    determines it should have its effect. We
    must therefore cherish prayer and utilize
    this great gift, without ever belittling it.
    We must rest assured that our prayers will
    have an effect, and this should motivate
    us to approach Tefilla with the seriousness
    and emotion that it deserves.