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    VAYELECH/YOM KIPPUR: YES, WE ARE GREAT

    Lehman Brothers was
    one of the most
    powerful financial
    institutions in the world
    until it filed for
    bankruptcy and folded

    during the crisis of 2008.
    The story goes that the Stephen
    Schwartzman, CEO of a different
    company – Blackstone – called the
    CEO of Lehman Brothers before it
    shut down.
    “Listen,” he said, “your company has
    $675 billion worth of assets. $650
    billion of those assets are fine; only
    $25 billion of them are bad. The $650
    billion worth of assets will be able to
    weather the storm fairly well. So this
    is what I suggest you do. Break up
    Lehman Brothers and form two
    companies – one with the $650
    billion, and the other with the $25
    billion. The $25 billion company will
    go bankrupt and fold, but the rest will
    survive.

    Unfortunately, the CEO of Lehman
    Brothers couldn’t get it done, and so
    the entire company collapsed –
    because of the $25 billion worth of
    troubled assets.
    This story, I believe, serves as a very
    powerful metaphor for the mistake so
    many of us make during this time of
    year, and for the proper approach that
    we should be taking.
    When it comes to doing teshuva,
    introspecting, examining ourselves
    and seeing what we need to improve,
    we so often fall into the trap of just
    giving up, of just saying,
    “Whatever.” We tell ourselves, “Look
    – I don’t do that so well, I don’t do
    this, I’m bad at that, I should be doing
    this, I mess up that… Whatever, I’m
    just bad. I should be better.”
    If we think we’re just bad, then we’ll
    give up. We’ll let our whole lives go
    “bankrupt,” without trying to save
    anything.

    The correct approach to teshuvah is
    to identify the $25 billion of rotten
    assets. To isolate the areas that aren’t
    right. To recognize and appreciate the
    $650 billion worth of good that we
    have. To realize that yes, we are
    great. Our “company” is doing just
    fine – as long as we address the little
    part of ourselves that is problematic.
    This is why when we recite vidui on
    Yom Kippur, confessing our sins, we
    are very specific. We don’t just
    proclaim a generic, “We have
    sinned.” We go through the trouble
    of listing all the particular things
    we’ve done wrong. If we just say,
    “We have sinned,” we aren’t
    accomplishing anything. That’s
    basically saying, “I’m bad,
    whatever…” By specifying our
    particular sins, we are identifying the
    $25 billion so we can rid of them and
    salvage the rest.
    This work is something that each
    individual needs to do for

    himself. Nobody can tell any of us
    what we need to change. We each
    have to think carefully and honestly
    to identify that $25 billion that needs
    to be thrown away.
    But the first step is to recognize that
    $650 billion is fine. Yes, we are
    great. We are not perfect, but we are
    great. And it is specifically because
    we are great that it is worth it for each
    and every one of us to take the time

    and make an effort to find the not-so-
    great part of our beings and address

    it, so that we can be even better.