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    VAYISHLACH: FIGHTING THE YETZER HARA WITHOUT FEAR

    When a country
    sends its army to war,
    they don’t just teach
    the soldiers how to
    shoot and then tell
    them, “Go to the front!”
    The great minds of the
    army prepare (hopefully)
    wise strategies and
    tactics to outmaneuver
    and win the opposing
    army.
    The war against the
    yetzer hara is compared
    to a fight between
    countries. And since the
    battle against the yetzer hara is a war, we need
    strategies to win our war with the yetzer hara.
    About this, Chazal (Brachos 17.) say, “A
    person should be clever with his yiras
    Shamayim.” One must be clever to be
    successful in this great battle.
    Tzaddikim would speak about armies and
    how they won wars and battles and learn
    strategies that we can use against the yetzer
    hara.
    One primary strategy of war is to be
    courageous and fearless.
    A general once told Napoleon that he foresaw
    that they would lose a particular battle.
    Napoleon replied, “If you thought we could

    win, we would have. But since you were
    pessimistic, we will lose.”
    The Yesod HoAvodah zt’l tells about a
    general who said to his wife, “I just received a
    telegram that tells terrible news. It predicts
    that we are losing at a certain battle.”
    His wife responded, “I just received another
    telegram. It came this moment; it tells of an
    even greater problem. It says you lost your
    courage, which is the greatest problem.”
    The same is true when we fight with the
    yetzer hara. We must be courageous and fight
    with confidence that with Hashem’s help, we
    can win and overcome the yetzer hara.
    Reb Yaakov Meir Shechter shlita explained
    the power of courage with an analogy:
    When you are among a pack of dogs and
    show them you are afraid, they’ll run after
    you. But if you show them you aren’t scared,
    the dogs will leave you alone.
    Reb Yaakov Meir explained that this is also
    how it is with the yetzer hara. If you show fear
    and meekness in front of the yetzer hara, the
    yetzer hara can overpower you. But if you
    show confidence and courage, the yetzer hara
    leaves you alone.
    Czar Nikolai’s army would fight during the
    day and drink at night. One soldier drank too
    much, and he was still asleep when his troop
    moved on. Upon awakening, he knew he had
    to catch up with his battalion quickly, but first,

    he wanted something to eat.
    It was Friday night. He came to a Jewish
    home and helped himself to the pot of steaming
    cholent. He mounted his horse, placed the pot
    of hot cholent on the horse’s mane, and set off
    to find his division. The hot cholent burned the
    horse’s back, which spurred the horse to run
    quickly. It didn’t take long before he reached
    his battalion, but his horse, on fire, kept
    charging forward, straight towards the front.
    The enemy soldiers saw him charging full
    speed towards them, and they were afraid.
    They assumed he surely had a powerful
    weapon since he wasn’t scared to face them
    alone. They fled in panic. In this manner, Czar
    Nikolai’s army won the war without firing a
    single gunshot. Reb Mendel Futerfas zt’l told
    this story and explained that it is the same with
    our battle against the yetzer hara. If one shows
    courage and hislahavus, the yetzer hara will be
    afraid of him and leave him alone.
    The Tanya (ch.26) writes, “There is a great
    rule that I must tell you: When two people are
    wrestling if one of them is lazy and moves
    about heavily, he will fall, even if he is the
    stronger one. The same is true with the war
    against the yetzer hara. You can’t win this war
    with laziness and heaviness, which are the
    product of sadness and a closed heart – a heart
    as hard as a stone. You only win the battle with
    zrizus, which comes from a pure heart that is
    alert, clear from all worldly worries and

    sadness.” Because it isn’t always the one who
    is stronger that wins a war. Zerizus and courage
    are major factors in the battle’s outcome.
    Shulchan Aruch begins “Be mighty like a
    lion to awaken in the morning.”
    Also, in Pirkei Avos (5:20) it states “Be
    mighty like a lion to do the will of your Father
    in heaven.”
    What is unique about a lion? It isn’t its
    strength. There are animals stronger than a
    lion. The lion’s strength is its courage.
    The Taz (Orach Chaim 1:1) writes, “By its
    nature, the lion isn’t afraid of any animal, as it
    states (Yeshaya 31:4) ‘[The lion] isn’t afraid of
    their shouts.’ So too, a person shouldn’t be
    afraid of the yetzer hara, although the yetzer
    hara is stronger than him.” And with courage,
    zrizus, and joy, you can win the war against the
    yetzer hara.