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    VAYISHLACH: KEEP ON GOING

    The Divrei Yisrael
    discusses how the
    “Polish ganavim”
    would steal:
    They developed a
    technique to get the store
    owner out of the store
    and leave it unattended.
    The thief comes to
    the store and takes an
    item off the shelves.
    He smiles at the store
    owner, sticks out his
    tongue at him, and then
    runs off with the item

    without paying.
    The incensed store owner runs after him and
    leaves his store unattended. Several ganavim
    then enter and empty the store of its valuable
    merchandise.
    The Divrei Yisrael writes, “What does a wise
    merchant do? He says, ‘Let the thief have what
    he grabbed.’ He doesn’t run after him and,
    therefore, doesn’t lose the rest of his money.
    He guards the store, which is much wiser.”
    The Divrei Yisrael explains that the yetzer
    hara uses the technique of the Polish ganavim.
    He causes a person to transgress a relatively
    minor transgression. The person becomes very
    upset and feels dejected, and now he is in the

    yetzer hara’s hands.
    As the Kotzker zt’l would say, “The yetzer
    hara doesn’t want the aveirah. He wants the
    depression that comes after the aveirah”
    because then the person can fall to very low
    levels.
    The lesson is to keep on trying. Even if we lose
    a battle, we have to continue fighting, or we
    will lose so much more
    We can compare this to an airplane caught in
    turbulence. The plane is tossing up and down,
    but it must keep on flying. What else can it do?
    What is the alternative? To stand still? It will
    spiral downwards.
    We can also draw an analogy from the business
    world: Someone’s business was enduring a
    financial crisis. The expenses were greater
    than the income, and there were unpaid debts
    that needed to be paid up. The store owner
    has two options: He can give up and close his
    business, which will still leave him in debt and
    make it impossible for the company to recover.
    Another approach is to borrow more money
    and to keep the business alive. The tide can
    turn, and he can be successful again.
    The Divrei Yisrael zt’l said that this lesson is
    alluded to in this week’s parashah (32:9) “If
    Eisav comes to one camp and strikes it down,
    the remaining camp will escape.”
    If Eisav, the yetzer hara, wins a battle, don’t

    allow yourselves to fall into his hands. Salvage
    whatever you can.
    Another hint from this week’s parashah is in
    the following words (32:26, 32) “When [the
    malach] saw that he could not prevail against
    [Yaakov], he touched the socket of his hip, and
    the socket of Yaakov’s hip became dislocated
    as he wrestled with him. And the sun rose for
    him when he passed Penuel, and he limped on
    his thigh.”
    The Avodas Yisachar zt’l explains that
    although Yaakov was hurt, he kept on walking.
    And then Hashem healed him. He writes, “A
    primary aspect of avodas Hashem is to keep
    on moving without stopping. The holy sefarim
    explain that one must do his obligations, and
    not pay attention to his wounds (aveiros) r’l…
    Sometimes, there is darkness, and he almost
    can’t speak a word of Torah and tefillah.
    Nevertheless, he should not give up. He must
    do whatever he can to be strong.”
    Another hint is from the pasuk (33:3) “[Yaakov]
    went ahead of them and bowed himself to the
    ground seven times, until he came close to his
    brother.” The Midrash (Bereishis Rabba 78:8)
    asks: Why did Yaakov bow specifically seven
    times? It is to correspond to (Mishlei 24:16)
    “Even if a tzaddik falls seven times, he will
    get up again.”
    By bowing down seven times, Yaakov was

    teaching us that even if one bowed to Eisav
    seven times (which means he obeyed the yetzer
    hara and bowed his head to its influence), he
    could lift himself again and begin again as if
    nothing ever happened.
    It states (32:29) “[The malach] said, ‘Your
    name shall no longer be called Yaakov, but
    Yisrael, because you have commanding power
    with [an angel of] Hashem and with men, and
    you have prevailed.”
    Rashi writes that “men,” refer to Eisav and
    Lavan. But we wonder, is this called prevailing
    and winning the battle? He was lamed by
    Eisav, and Lavan tricked him a hundred times.
    Is that called winning a fight? The answer is
    that he continued even after being lamed and
    tricked, and with that attitude, one prevails.