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    WHAT IS BHA”B

    Last Monday, the very
    significant yet little known
    days called BHA”B
    ended. In two locations
    (Masechtos Kiddushin
    [81a] and Bava Kama
    [82a]), Tosefos mentions
    the minhag of fasting on
    the first Monday, Thursday, and following
    Monday of the months of Marcheshvon and
    Iyar. This fast, which is also mentioned
    several times in Shulchan Aruch and the Tur
    [simon 429], is commonly known as the Fast
    of BHA”B. Though most of Klal Yisroel
    does not observe this practice, and many do
    not even say the accompanying Selichos,
    many congregations still bench BHA”B on
    the Shabbos before the fast days begin. And,
    while many of us will not fast, it behooves us
    to understand the reasons for these fasts so
    that we can still pray for the messages that
    the fasts represent and give tzedakah towards
    their specific significance.
    One reason given by the Elya Rabbah [simon
    492, seif 3] for these fast days is to atone for the
    possible sin of doing work on the just passed
    Chol HaMoed of Succos or Pesach. One can
    immediately see how pertinent and timely
    this reason is for, in our times when many are
    forced to work and they first must determine
    what halachically constitutes a davar ha’avud,
    i.e., a situation where financial loss (and not a

    mere avoidance of profit) would occur if work
    wasn’t performed. And, the stakes are very
    high for the Gemara tells us, “Kol hamvazeh
    es hamoados, ein lo cheilek l’Olam Haba – All
    who disgrace the moed days have no portion
    in the World to Come.” Rashi explains this
    refers to Chol HaMoed. We therefore are
    quick to beg forgiveness if we miscalculated
    during these holy days.
    Another reason for this series of fasts can be
    found in the Sefer Matamim (page 131), in the
    Taamei Minhagim (page 250) and the Mateh
    Moshe (page 747). They reason that we fast
    because at these two points of the year, after
    Succos and Pesach, there is a sudden change
    in the weather which tends to cause people
    to get sick. Therefore, we anticipate this by
    fasting and praying for the welfare of Klal
    Yisroel. Here is yet another vivid example
    of how contemporary this is for our day and
    age. Go into any drugstore and they will tell
    you the Otc – over the counter drug trade
    increase exponentially with the change of the
    seasons. Furthermore seasoned psychiatrists
    will inform you that there is a spike in mental
    illness as well during the change of the
    seasons.
    Just to illustrate how this is still true nowadays,
    I was once trying to get a hospital room for
    someone who was stuck in the emergency
    room of a New York hospital. The person had
    already been there for over thirty hours but

    the nurse explained to me that there were no
    ICU or CCU beds available. When asked why
    the hospital was so congested, she explained
    to me that, at the change of the seasons, the
    hospital is always fully booked because many
    elderly people just can’t cope with the sudden
    change of weather.
    During the BHA”B fasts after Succos, it is an
    opportune time for Rabbonim to alert their
    congregations to the advisability of inquiring
    about a flu shot for their elderly parents. The
    flu, a mere nuisance for younger people, can
    be, chas v’shalom, fatal to elderly people. So
    a simple preventive flu shot before the onset
    of a winter can be a marvelous opportunity
    for kibud av v’eim. (Still, please consult
    your physician to know if this is the correct
    approach for each specific person.)
    It is also around the time of BHA”B that, in
    many synagogues, the age-old argument of
    whether to open or close the windows rears
    its ugly head. One must realize that it is not
    coincidental that such a problem occurs in our
    shuls. It would seem to be a challenge to us
    to see if we have absorbed the divrei mussar
    and hanhogas tovos that we see regularly
    in shul, and whether we can focus more on
    giving and caring for the other person than
    for ourselves. And, precisely when we pray
    that no one should be caught off-guard by a
    sudden change of weather, we should also be
    concerned about causing our chaver a sudden
    draft. I instituted in my Shull that once coats
    are on the coat rack the one who wants the
    window closed gets his way.
    Yet another reason for these fasts can be
    found in The Mordechai on Masechtas
    Taanis (number 629) and in the Sefer
    Chasidim (227). They explain that at the
    onset of Marcheshvan, we begin to expect
    the yearly rainfall on which our livelihood
    once depended. And, in the month of
    Iyar, we are concerned that the fresh crops
    should not be ruined by devastating natural
    disasters such as wind blast or crop jaundice.
    Hence, these fasts are, in essence, prayers
    for success in parnossah, which is always a
    major source of concern.
    Finally, Tosefos in Kiddushin and Bava
    Kama explain that we fast because during
    Yom Tov both men and women went to hear
    the droshah from the great sages and the
    men were exposed to many women dressed
    in their Yom Tov finery. Therefore, in order
    to atone for any sinful thoughts this might
    have generated, Chazal enacted a period of
    fasting and Selichos.
    When we learn these Tosefos, we should
    reflect with fright on how far we’ve
    deteriorated. In the olden days, men and
    women who came in contact with one
    another while going to shul for the sole
    reason of listening to Torah from the mouths
    of the Gedolim, already prompted a severe
    reaction of a three-day fast. Imagine how
    the Chachmei Chazal would blanch at the
    exposure to arayos that some have from
    the cinema, television, and internet. It is an
    important lesson for us to remember how

    high our standards should really be. (As an
    aside, we see from the aforementioned Tosefos
    that it was definitely the practice for women as
    well as the men to go hear Divrei Hisor’rus.)
    As to why no fasts were instituted after the
    festival of Shavuos according to most of the
    above reasons it is self-explanatory for, if the
    fast is because of work on Chol HaMoed, there
    is obviously no Chol HaMoed of Shavuos. If
    the fast is because of the change in seasons,
    likewise there is no such change around
    Shavuos time. There is also, at that time of
    the year, no significant threat to the crops for,
    after all, they are already fully completed. As
    we know, Shavuos is also known as the Chag
    HaKatzir, the festival of harvesting. And, even
    according to the reason of Tosefos, although
    the people also gathered on Shavuos to hear a
    droshah, since the festival is only one day long
    there was less of a threat from the exposure to
    women. Hence no fast was deemed necessary.
    So, in the z’chus of our learning about the
    fasts of BHA”B and praying for Klal Yisroel’s
    health and wealth, may we merit that these
    great blessings permeate our homes until the
    coming of Moshiach, speedily and in our days.