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    WHEN FOOTBALL MEETS FAITH: DOES G-D REALLY CARE WHO WINS?

    On Sunday night in
    Pittsburgh, the
    Baltimore Ravens and
    Pittsburgh Steelers’
    seasons came down to
    one kick. Tyler Loop,
    the Ravens’ rookie
    kicker who had not
    missed a single field goal under 50 yards all
    year, lined up for a 44-yard attempt that would
    decide the game and, by extension, the winner
    of the AFC North. The snap was perfect, the
    hold was clean, the ball had the distance. And
    then, before a stunned stadium and a national
    audience, it drifted wide. The Steelers won and
    are going to the playoffs, while Baltimore’s
    season ended abruptly and stunningly.
    The moment went viral not only because of the
    drama, but because earlier that evening a priest
    had walked the field and sprinkled “holy
    water” in one of the end zones. Hours later, it
    was that very end zone toward which the
    Ravens were kicking. Asked about it after the
    game, Steelers captain Cam Heyward smiled
    and said he wouldn’t ask too many questions
    but said, “The good Lord made a good decision
    that night.”
    I don’t follow football and didn’t even know
    about the game until someone sent me the
    article about the “blessed” end zone and asked
    the real question behind the headline: Are Jews

    really meant to believe Hashem intervenes in a
    football game?
    But this isn’t a sports question. It’s a life
    question. Is anything too small for Hashem? Is
    a moment, a decision, a gust of wind beneath
    His notice or providence?
    Though there is nuance, and there are different
    approaches, the short answer is that as Torah
    people of faith, we are meant to live with the
    belief that Hashem is involved in everything.
    Dovid HaMelech wrote (and we sing in
    Hallel), ha’mashpili lir’os ba’shomayim
    u’vaaretz, He lowers Himself to see in the
    heavens and on the earth. Chazal understand
    that nothing is too lofty for Him and nothing is
    too small. The same G-d Who guides the fate
    of nations is attentive to the details of a single
    life. The same G-d Who orchestrates history
    also arranges the gust of wind that pushes a
    football a degree to the right. There is no realm
    of existence in which He is absent, no moment
    in which He is not present.
    So does Hashem care who wins? In the sense
    that He is involved in and dictates everything
    that unfolds in His world, yes. But not in the
    simplistic way we imagine. Hashem was not
    only listening to the tefillos of Steelers fans.
    He was also speaking to the Ravens, to their
    coaches, and especially to the young kicker
    who missed for the first time from that

    distance. G-d was present not only in the
    celebration, but in the heartbreak.
    We control our effort. Hashem controls the
    result. That is countercultural, but it is Torah.
    From our perspective, a capable kicker missed
    in a pressure moment. From the perspective of
    emunah, Hashem decreed that at that exact
    second, in those exact conditions, the ball
    would not pass through the uprights. For one
    side, that miss felt like a divine yes. For the
    other, a painful no. Yet both were within His
    plan.
    Judaism insists that Hashem is as present in
    the miss as in the make. In the disappointment
    as in the triumph. The question this game
    invites is not whether G-d was in the stadium,
    it is whether we are listening to what He might
    be telling us through the moment.
    Failure does not have to be a verdict. It can be
    an invitation. A chance to grow, to soften, to
    deepen. Sometimes Hashem uses a public
    disappointment to remind a person that he is
    more than his statistics.
    This truth is beautifully symbolized in a
    custom many barely meaningfully think about
    or attach spiritual significance to. At a Bar
    Mitzvah or an Aufruf we throw candies at the
    boy or the chassan. As Rav Schorr explains,
    these are moments of transition and growth.
    Life will soon begin throwing things at them.

    They will feel struck, pelted. But the things
    being thrown are candies. They hurt, but inside
    is sweetness. Inside the challenge is a gift, if
    one has the courage to pick it up and unwrap it.
    The missed kick in Pittsburgh is one of those
    candies. Most of us will never stand in a
    stadium with millions watching, but all of us
    stand in our own decisive moments: a
    diagnosis, an interview, a shidduch, an
    application. We prepare, we daven, we give
    our all. Then the answer comes. Sometimes it
    is the yes we prayed for. Sometimes it is the no
    we feared.
    When it is yes, we must remember Who
    decided it. When it is no, we must remember
    the candy, the possibility of hidden sweetness.
    The “holy water” on the field made for a good
    headline. But the deeper story is not about a
    priest or an AFC North title. It is about
    haMashpili lir’os baShamayim u’vaAretz,
    about a G-d Who lowers Himself to be present
    in every end zone and every human heart.
    Because the real game is not played on the
    field at all. It is played inside the neshamah of
    each of us.