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    WHICH PARASHAH IS YOUR FAVORITE?

    I. Singling Out a
    Teaching
    When you say
    something, sometimes
    the loudest part is what
    you leave unsaid. The
    Gemara (Bava Basra
    164b) warns against praising someone
    because that can lead to criticizing
    him. While this needs to be limited, as
    commentators explain, the basic idea
    retains power. Even positive speech can
    have negative implications.
    The Gemara (Eruvin 64a) quotes Shmuel
    as saying that if a rabbi drinks a revi’is
    of wine, he is not allowed to rule on
    halakhic matters. Rav Nachman says that
    this teaching is not good at all because
    he personally only thinks clearly after
    drinking a revi’is of wine. Rava objects
    to Rav Nachman. How can he say that
    the teaching is not good? Rav Acha Bar
    Chanina teaches, “Anyone who says,
    ‘This teaching is pleasant’ or ‘this is not
    pleasant,’ loses the fortune of Torah.” In
    response, Rav Nachman withdraws his
    statement.
    In context, the specific objection is to
    Rav Nachman’s disapproving statement

    about an earlier teaching. However, Rav
    Acha Bar Chanina’s teaching has broader
    significance. He objects even to praise of
    a teaching: “This teaching is pleasant.” It
    would seem that we are not even allowed
    to pick a favorite teaching – a verse, a
    Mishnah or a rabbinic saying. Is that
    really what this passage implies?
    Rashi (ad loc., s.v. mai ta’ama) says that
    the problem is contrasting teachings,
    saying “this is pleasant and that is
    unpleasant.” If so, just praising a teaching
    would be allowed. According to Rashi,
    you can have a favorite teaching as long
    as you don’t also list teachings that you
    dislike.
    II. Improper Praise
    However, Rav Shmuel Eidels (Maharsha,
    17th cen., Ukraine; Commentary, ad loc.)
    points out that the biblical prooftext for
    this teaching (Prov. 29:3) seems to refer
    only to praise. Therefore, he concludes
    that it is forbidden to choose a favorite
    teaching. According to this understanding,
    choosing a teaching as a favorite implies
    lesser appreciation for other teachings.
    Even if you don’t say that other teachings
    are unpleasant, you imply at least that they
    are less pleasant. That, in itself, insults the

    Torah teachings.
    Rav Yosef Chaim of Baghdad (20th cen.;
    Ben Yehoyada, ad loc.) adds that if you say
    about some teachings, “this is pleasant,”
    then your silence is meaningful. If you
    are someone who often praises teachings,
    then when you fail to say “this is pleasant,”
    you implicitly say that the teaching is
    not pleasant. The silence of someone
    who regularly praises speaks loudly.
    Therefore, you should not praise Torah
    teachings to avoid implicitly denigrating
    other teachings with your silence.
    At the beginning of Parashas Korach,
    Rashi (Num. 16:1) says: “This section
    is beautifully expounded in the Rabbi

    Tanchuma’s midrash.” Rav David Ha-
    Levi Segal (Taz, 17th cen., Poland; Divrei

    David, ad loc.) asks how Rashi could
    violate the Talmudic teaching against
    saying that a teaching is pleasant. He
    disagrees with the suggestion that you are
    only forbidden to say that this is pleasant
    while that is unpleasant. This can’t be, he
    argues, because certainly it is forbidden
    to say that a teaching is unpleasant. That
    seems evident from the criticism of Rav
    Nachman above. If you can’t say that a
    teaching is unpleasant, then the Gemara
    must be teaching that each saying on
    its own — “this is pleasant” and “this is
    unpleasant” — is improper. Rather, he
    finds a different explanation of Rashi’s
    words to avoid the problem of saying
    that a teaching is pleasant.
    Rav Ovadiah Yosef (21st cen., Israel;
    Ma’or Yisrael, Eruvin, ad loc.) quotes the
    (questionable) 17th century work Kitzur
    Shelah as warning that when people sell
    aliyos in a synagogue, they should be
    careful not to say that the Torah reading
    containing the Ten Commandments
    is pleasant and good. Doing so would
    contradict the Gemara that disallows
    choosing a favorite teaching.
    III. How to Praise a Teaching
    However, as already mentioned, Rashi
    on Eruvin seems to forbid only saying
    “this teaching is pleasant and that
    teaching is unpleasant.” Similarly, Rav
    Yisrael Lipschitz (19th cen., Germany;
    Tiferes Yisrael, introduction to Eduyos)
    points out that the tractate of Eduyos is
    called Bechirta, the chosen or preferred
    one. His father explained that when it
    comes to monetary laws (Bava Kamm
    6b-9b), there are three types of land —
    idyis (high quality), beinonis (average)
    and ziboris (low quality). Rav Lipschitz’s
    father suggests that the name of the
    tractate Eduyos is related to the term
    for high quality land. Just like that kind

    of land is preferred, the teachings in this
    tractate are favorites. Rav Lipschitz adds
    that this does not contradict the saying in
    Eruvin (64a) because that only forbids
    praising a teaching while denigrating
    another. Here, we are only praising the
    teachings in the tractate. Effectively, Rav
    Lipschitz agrees with Rashi and disagrees
    with Maharsha and the others.
    Rav Shmuel Strashun (19th cen.,
    Lithuania; Glosses, Eruvin 64a) points out
    how the language across the Talmud seems
    to contradict this teaching. We often see
    scholars praising a teaching (e.g. Shevu’os
    45b – “Rami Bar Chama said, ‘how
    excellent is this teaching’”). Similarly, we
    often find scholars denigrating a teaching
    (e.g. Ta’anis 4b – “Ulla said, ‘that which
    Rav Chisda taught is difficult like vinegar
    to the teeth and smoke to the eyes.’”).
    Rather, he suggests that praise is only
    improper if it includes denigration as well,
    like the view of Rashi and Rav Lipschitz.
    Additionally, denigration of a teaching is
    only improper if you are not involved in
    the back-and-forth argumentation. If you
    are disagreeing with a teaching, then the
    rules of beis midrash battle allow for harsh
    evaluations. However, if you are merely
    a passive observer, then unfavorable
    judgment is disrespectful.
    Rav Naftali Tzvi Yehudah Berlin (Netziv,
    19th cen., Russia; Meromei Sadeh, ad loc.)
    takes a completely different approach.
    He distinguishes between human benefit
    and objective truth. If you say that a
    teaching is pleasant or unpleasant, you
    are commenting on whether or not it is
    beneficial to people. You are assessing its
    utility to human joy. That is a confusion
    of categories and a denigration of Torah
    in general. However, you can say whether
    you think a teaching is correct or incorrect,
    is brilliant or not. A teaching is either true
    or not, and you are allowed to say that.
    It is not useful or physically beneficial,
    and it is wrong, to say that a teaching is
    pleasant or unpleasant.