26 Jan YISRO’S REALIZATION
Yisro made the astute observation, “Now I know that Hashem is the true G-d, “Ki badavar asher zadu aleihem,” that which the Egyptians plotted against the Jews befell upon them. This is the great attribute of midah k’neged midah, measure for measure. Rashi then adds that the word zadu also means ‘a stew,’ and the intent of Yisro was that in the pot which they wanted to stew us, they themselves were stewed. The simple understanding of this Rashi is that they drowned our babies in the Nile and therefore the Egyptians were drowned in the Red Sea.
There is however a very big problem with this explanation. Who was the last child to be thrown into the Nile? We know that it was Moshe Rabbeinu himself, for when he was put into the Nile in his little ark, the astrologers of Paroh informed him that the Jewish savior was thrown into the Nile and Paroh then stopped the decree of throwing babies into the Nile. Moshe Rabbeinu was 80 years old when we left Egypt. That means that the last child to be thrown into the Nile happened 80 years before Krias Yam Suf. Now, of the nine million Egyptians who chased us when we left Egypt, I would assume that none of them were 100 years old. That means that there was no one who drowned in the Red Sea who had themselves actually thrown a Jewish baby into the Nile. So where, exactly, was manifested midah k’neged midah?
The Maharil Diskin, zt”l, zy”a, asks this question. His first answer only he could say: The Egyptians who drowned in the Red Sea were the gilgulim, the reincarnations of those Egyptians who drowned the Jewish babies. But then he gives a more down to earth answer. This answer is an eye-opener on how we can learn a Rashi all of our lives and misunderstand its meaning. Let’s preface this explanation with a question of the Chasam Sofer. If the drowning of the Egyptians was because of the drowning of the Jewish babies in the Nile, shouldn’t the Egyptian soldiers have drowned in the Nile than in the Red Sea? Wouldn’t that have been a more fitting measure for measure?
Rather, explains the Maharil Diskin, the nine million Egyptians pursuing the Jews wanted to drive them to a watery grave in the raging Red Sea. That was the pot that they wanted to cook the Jews into and instead they met their watery grave in the very same Red Sea. That was the poetic justice, the midah k’neged midah, which Yisro observed that precluded any element of chance. It is what the Psalmist proclaims, “Hashem tzilcha al yad yeminecha – Hashem is the shadow on your right hand.” Although it appears to be insulting to refer to Hashem as a mere shadow, a shadow does one thing to perfection: It mimics behavior exactly.
The Mishnah in Pirkei Avos teaches us, “Da mah lima’alah mimcha: Ayin roeh, v’ozen shema’as, v’kol ma’asechah ba’sefer nichtavim – Know what is above you: An eye that sees, and an ear that listens, and all of your deeds are recorded.” The Baal Shem Tov says that you can learn something from the first words in the Mishnah, from the words “Know what is above you.” He says, “If you what to know what is in store for you Above, mimcha, look at yourself.” For the way you behave, that is the way that Hashem will treat you and that is why mimcha (mem-mem-chaf) is an acronym for midah k’neged midah (mem-chaf-mem).
We must always remember that when we are harsh with people such behavior will eventually boomerang back at us, while when we smile and we are gentle, we will ultimately become the recipients of smiles and gentleness. May it be the will of Hashem that we realize this dynamic in life and in that merit may Hashem bless us with long life, good health, and everything wonderful.